Acting Girlie....

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

OK I'm chatting with my friend about girls acting girlie around guys. He says I'm very feminine but I need to act more "soft" around guys. Well to me, being soft brings up the idea of the silly girls acting dumb to make men feel more superior. I dunno, maybe I'm wrong....what does acting more soft mean?

 

[decibel]

i'd like a bitch strong enough to make me get down on my knees and lick her high heels.

 

[The Shadow]

OK I'm chatting with my friend about girls acting girlie around guys. He says I'm very feminine but I need to act more "soft" around guys. Well to me, being soft brings up the idea of the silly girls acting dumb to make men feel more superior. I dunno, maybe I'm wrong....what does acting more soft mean?

LMAO!!!


Since that came from a guy it means "don't be so opinionated and let the guy be the guy".

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

i'd like a bitch strong enough to make me get down on my knees and lick her high heels.

hello...hello...

 

[WODIN]

I think you should have bitch slapped him and said "That's my soft side, if I had wanted to get butch on your ass, I would have used brass up side your skull!"

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

I think you should have bitch slapped him and said "That's my soft side, if I had wanted to get butch on your ass, I would have used brass up side your skull!"

I luv you guys....

I'm not soft I'm firm

 

[kitKat]

Agent Shagwell read this: http://www.idatesmart.com/datingtips/dtalpha2.shtml


By the way being feminine can be a calm thing not acting like the little girls do all silly and stupid...in fact it is much better. I don't in anyway mean being a doormat though.

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

Kit Kat.....this is what I got from you link:

True Me--->Alpha females are not soft and feminine, even though they look it and dress accordingly.

BS--->It's masculine to be hard, aggressive, combative and tough. It's feminine to be soft, receptive, harmonious, and vulnerable


BS---->Men seek women to make them feel whole. Being with a woman abates their aggression and relieves their hardness. Men know, on a conscious or subconscious level, that a woman's femininity completes their masculinity. That's why they are always seeking a woman and feminine energy...(I WANT A MAN THAT CAN FEEL WHOLE ALL ON HIS OWN


True...and BS--->Men are simple. They just want to protect, provide for and serve their woman. But it can't happen if she is totally self-sufficient.

 

[strongchick]

interesting link, kitkat.

But....

Accept me as me, dammit! Femininity is not necessarily vulnerability. A man can be masculine and vulnerable, true?

Although I can be described as feminine, my persona says "strength". If I have to compromise my strength, I am less of who I am.

Manipulating men is easy...just be who they want you to be...but getting one you can love and live with is difficult...they have to accept you as you are. I prefer to have a lasting friendship with someone who likes me as I am.

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

interesting link, kitkat.
Manipulating men is easy...just be who they want you to be...but getting one you can love and live with is difficult...they have to accept you as you are. I prefer to have a lasting friendship with someone who likes me as I am.

You speak the truth sista!

 

[HappyScrappy]

I've always found it very feminine on their part when chicks walk up and suck my cock.
well, less so far the fuglys. or is that the "fuglies"?
some things we'll never know.

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

I've always found it very feminine on their part when chicks walk up and suck my cock.
well, less so far the fuglys. or is that the "fuglies"?
some things we'll never know.

This has happened how many times Scrappy Ass.......exactly....feminity is all in the eye of the beholder....and its fuglies!

 

[WODIN]

True...and BS--->Men are simple. They just want to protect, provide for and serve their woman. But it can't happen if she is totally self-sufficient.

Fuck that!! I wanna be the house pimp!

 

[john937]

(I WANT A MAN THAT CAN FEEL WHOLE ALL ON HIS OWN

True...and BS--->Men are simple. They just want to protect, provide for and serve their woman...

Maybe its just me...does anyone else see a problem here?
Can those two work together?

 

[HappyScrappy]

This has happened how many times Scrappy Ass.......

oh yeah, this happens all the time.
of course I'm Brad Pitt, but that is a whole 'nother matter.
he ehee. I'm like the anti-brad pitt. you put me next to him and he disappears.

 

[Gilbyag]

your like my friend Brooke... damn shes lonely.....

 

[kitKat]

interesting link, kitkat.

But....

Accept me as me, dammit! Femininity is not necessarily vulnerability. A man can be masculine and vulnerable, true?

Although I can be described as feminine, my persona says "strength". If I have to compromise my strength, I am less of who I am.

Manipulating men is easy...just be who they want you to be...but getting one you can love and live with is difficult...they have to accept you as you are. I prefer to have a lasting friendship with someone who likes me as I am.

Agreed you should find someone who likes you for who you are. Femininity can be strength and a masculine man can be vunerable to a point. Think of it this way if a man acts more like a women then that is a turn off to most women right? We want a guy that act like a man. So in turn why would a man want a women that acts more like a man? Not trying to argue here just a thought.

 

[rudedawg]

maybe it all goes back to that Lady by day whore by night thing.....

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

Maybe its just me...does anyone else see a problem here?
Can those two work together?

heheh...you see the true part was "Men are simple"...the remainder was the BS dear

 

[Sassy69]

If you are a strong, independent woman, this usually equals "bitch" as the easy response from guys. Sometimes they just seem so amazingly intimidated by that. So many men I've met seem to be looking for a part time "whore in the bedroom" and a part time mommy. What's up w/ that? At what point can we all just be adults responsible for ourselves and looking for an equal partner?

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

Ok...WODIN, SCRAPPY ASS, GILBY...all you peps who have known me on here for a while...Here's my Question: When I first started here (back in the day) I was accused of being a man. Now all I posted was stuff on sports, or smart ass comments. So is that consider masculine characteristics?

If so to be a girl, I need to start rambling on about what I want from a lover, and post pics of my breasts?....(hehehe...DON"T ANSWER THAT!)

But you see what I'm saying?....What mad you think I was a guy?

 

[HappyScrappy]

the fact that you kept e-mailing me and telling me you were a big hairy guy and "shhh, don't tell anyone"

that pretty much did it for me

 

[WODIN]

Posting Pics of your breast would be the place to start! LOL!!!!

 

[Steroid_Virgin]

Many thought you were a guy because you do not come across being the regular every day girl.. Most girls dont like sports as much as you, especially boxing.. secondly most girls dont like watching sports center all day, you used to brag about it.. Its really a paradigm thing, you did not fit into the paradigm of how we think of women, ergo, your not a woman you must be a man. That being said, I think a lot of guys, including myself, need to work on our paradigms about who women are, and who they should be, what they should wear, how they should behave.. but most, are victims of stereotyping to some extent.. now, if you are just looking for a few dates, nothing serious, soften up a little on purpose, but when you meet that guy you think might really be special.. be yourself.

 

[Jimsbbc]

As long as your not acting all hard and shit. Maybe he just means more flirtatious

 

[velvett]

OK I'm chatting with my friend about girls acting girlie around guys. He says I'm very feminine but I need to act more "soft" around guys. Well to me, being soft brings up the idea of the silly girls acting dumb to make men feel more superior. I dunno, maybe I'm wrong....what does acting more soft mean?

I think it's more about letting a man be a man and less about acting dumb or less strong as an individual. I however do agree that many women act dumb - but then again there are more dumb women than smart women acting less smart or strong... sigh...


A man - as I've been told - wants to feel needed by you as a man to a woman and if you are as a woman completely self-sufficient then where will he feel needed?


Anywhooooooo - that's something I'm still figuring out for myself and I promised myself I wouldn't ramble and go off topic on this one.

SO um - listen to Steroid _Virgin and be yourself.

 

[Gilbyag]

just be yourself... as long as you stay true to yourself who cares...

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

As long as your not acting all hard and shit. Maybe he just means more flirtatious

hehehehe...I"m sorry I think you might be talking to some one else....or I didn't hear you right....did you just say I need to be MORE flirtatious????

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

Re: Re: Acting Girlie....

A man - as I've been told - wants to feel needed by you as a man to a woman and if you are as a woman completely self-sufficient then where will he feel needed?

In the bedroom...in the kitchen....in the laundry room...in the car....on the 50 yard line....do I need to go on?

 

[studcj]

I think he's just trying to say that you don't have to say "Well, I'm gonna go take a shit now" every time you have to go to the bathroom.

He would probably like you to stop throwing your farts in his face also.

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

Stud...I am very mannerly, momma raised me well. And I go to powder my nose...no usually I say rest room....... cause I'm need a break from your annoying ass...hehehe

 

[WODIN]

Actually shags, the main reason that everyone, and I do mean everyone, except for a few mods, bought that whole "you're a man baby" thing was because Ranger had just pulled a huge practical joke on the board. I mean it was classic!

You just happened to show up in the wake of that incident and the timing was ripe for a little accusatorial fun and games!

 

[Thick dog]

Honestly, without trying to start another discussion and just answering the topic at hand, I don't know too many straight guys that like to date football players.

 

[supergirl]

this reminds me of my "tough bitch: good or bad thread" a few weeks ago.
if a man can't handle me, he is not the man for me.. And i am a lot to handle lol

 

[Hannibal]

Just my opinion...but why try to change the way you carry yourself to attract men??! I mean a strong confident woman is very attractive to some men myself included. Why would you want to change??! Is it an attempt to be the perfect female??! There is no such thing...as there is no perfect man. It's wether or not two people are perfect together. What one person finds attractive is not attractive to another. Besides why would you want to be with someone that only likes what you "appear" to be...then you would have to continue to "act" feminine. Believe me we really aren't worth all the effort. Just be true to yourself...when you try to front that's when peoples feelings get hurt. Besides as many men as I imagine you have to choose from I'm sure that can find someone that likes you just the way you are.

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

Honestly, without trying to start another discussion and just answering the topic at hand, I don't know too many straight guys that like to date football players.

Thick....do I look like a football player?

 

[supergirl]

Just my opinion...but why try to change the way you carry yourself to attract men??! I mean a strong confident woman is very attractive to some men myself included. Why would you want to change??! Is it an attempt to be the perfect female??! There is no such thing...as there is no perfect man. It's wether or not two people are perfect together. What one person finds attractive is not attractive to another. Besides why would you want to be with someone that only likes what you "appear" to be...then you would have to continue to "act" feminine. Believe me we really aren't worth all the effort. Just be true to yourself...when you try to front that's when peoples feelings get hurt. Besides as many men as I imagine you have to choose from I'm sure that can find someone that likes you just the way you are.

oh hannibal... you've got me teary eyed.. so sensitive of you... gotta go find tissues xoxo

 

[Thick dog]

I don't know, I've never dated a football player. I also agree with Hannibal, don't try and change who you are just to please someone else, a woman that is confidant in her decisions is a definite turn on...

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

Hanny....I'm too stuborn to change, and don't have enough game or tolerance to be something I'm not. Just curious what guys ideas on "soft" women mean?

Thick....I know you've never per say "dated" football players, but we both know you've been...uuummm...."close" to them....weren't you elected by your team to be the center?

 

[Thick dog]

We'll see who gets the last laugh after the defensive line retires your number.

 

[Hannibal]

oh hannibal... you've got me teary eyed.. so sensitive of you... gotta go find tissues xoxo

You know I'm mister sensitive Super...that's why you women eat me alive. Oh well what a way to go.

As for what TD said about dating football players...I think it would ROCK. I mean how cool would that be to have someone that can relate to all your taining aches and pains...can understand the diet...can understand all the things that you love as a man and enjoys most of them. And on top of all that you have the whole "extra cirricular activities'. It's like when you have a buddy that is your best friend and you say if I could find a woman like that it would be awesome...well there ya go.

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

We'll see who gets the last laugh after the defensive line retires your number.

hehehe......sad, but true....unless I flirt with the lesbians

 

[Thick dog]

I was referring to the lesbians...

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

I was referring to the lesbians...

oh shit....lol...now I'm scared.