Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below Walked out of KFC with my friend.. these mexican thugs were in their G'ed up hooptie w/ rims out front... i didn't even make eye contact with em.. as we're walkin to my truck, one of em says.. "Ashes to ashes, dust to dust, we're the 9mm's so don't fuck with us." i started laughing and then they start talkin shit to me and my friend.... there were about 6 of em.. i got in my truck and left. i couldn't do nothin... my friends a good 150 drippin wet, nice guy, but a big puss... so it would basically be 6 on 1. =( it frustrated me.. i think my blood pressure went through the roof. i wanted so bad to beat the living shit out of every one of them............that was the hardest thing i ever did, was walk away from that..... and no matter what anybody says...... "yer the better man if u walk away.." well i feel like a puss now. so don't put much faith in that better man crap.
About blew up tonight!!!!
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barbells79
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spunky
i know exactly how you feel bro, i just dealt with a situation like that myself a week ago, and yes you feel terrible afterwards, but sometimes discretion is the better part of valor..........at least thats what i keep tellin myself............
peace bb79
i know exactly how you feel bro, i just dealt with a situation like that myself a week ago, and yes you feel terrible afterwards, but sometimes discretion is the better part of valor..........at least thats what i keep tellin myself............
peace bb79
ultragainz
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i don tget too mad even on roids..i keep my cool..but if they want a fight i would kick ass...and for them to stop me kicking there asses would be to shot me with there water guns....
MikeyLikesJuice
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your not a puss because there was 6 of them and you wanted to beat the shit out of them, which is cool, but you are outnumbered, either way remember faces, hopefully they are alone at some point in the future
you did the right thing unless you got a few grand sitting around... assualt and batery charge on sunday 9/01/01 stayed in jail for two days paid bonds men about $1000 for bail fee... and a few 1000 to atternies... because of I couldn't control myself and let shit slid of my back... lost 6 pounds in 2 days of jail and kicked my cycle of track .......... but i got to admit violence never solves anything but it sure made me feel better.
macho21
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I was in a similar situation, but inside Denny's restaurant. I was picking up food by myself after dropping off my friend, and three guys started trying to fight me. Well, my confidence was pretty high since i was a boxer for 5 years. We ended up fighting inside the restaurant until police came about 7min later.Let me tell you Spunky that it was not worth it. Can you believe eventhough it was three against one, and they were the aggresors, that i had to pay a fine. Not worth it bro, this this you get in trouble even if you are only protecting yourself. good luck!
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Golfer18--old
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NO, no, no this is a BAD situation
I was dressed up for a night out with my girl. We ate a nice dinner and went to a movie. After the movie we walked out (about 1:30 a.m.) So im walking with her holding her hand. This car pulls up and stops and just starts looking at my girl. There are four guys. I heard mumbling and the regular BS these assholes say. I just walked away. Im still waiting to beat their face in one by one. I want to fill thier mouths up with rocks and and beat their face. No fuckin respect. I couldnt have done shit.. 
I was dressed up for a night out with my girl. We ate a nice dinner and went to a movie. After the movie we walked out (about 1:30 a.m.) So im walking with her holding her hand. This car pulls up and stops and just starts looking at my girl. There are four guys. I heard mumbling and the regular BS these assholes say. I just walked away. Im still waiting to beat their face in one by one. I want to fill thier mouths up with rocks and and beat their face. No fuckin respect. I couldnt have done shit..
Michael Jones
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My Sensei told me that "a man can say whatever he wants but, if a man raises his hands to hurt you or your family, RIP HIS FUCKING ARM OFF!!!!
GLADIATOR351
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I can relate, but you did the right thing. The bad part about this is everytime you think about it you will feel the same anger that you felt at the time it happened. These mother fuckers know they can't kick your ass one on one. So they have to ride around in packs to protect their own ass.......
These mother fuckers know they can't kick your ass one on one. So they have to ride around in packs to protect their own ass.......
Big Brother Val
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1 on 1... no problem.
2 on 1... still not too bad.
3 on 1... asking for trouble
4 on 1... hope to hell you're one damn good fighter.
5 on 1... good luck
6 on 1... unless they're 3rd graders... you're pretty fucked.
I'm sorry to hear your frustration, Spunky. That sucks. Makes you feel like a candy ass. Then you get that "I shoulda said..." and "I shoulda done...." And you wonder why you didn't. But realistically, you know why. They hang out in bunches for a reason. You fight one bean, you fight the whole burrito. Besides, even if it was only 2 of them... if you went to challenge them, and they pulled out a gun... what do you do then?
It's hard to let it go. But you know deep down that 1 on 1, or even 2 on 1, chances are, you would prevail, right? That's what you have to go on.
A guy here at work was hitting on my gal... so I asked him very politely to leave her alone, as did she, because it was making her uncomfortable. So he tells me I'm not as big, or tough as I think, and to watch my step. I told him he knows where the parking lot is. So what does he do? Report me to the HR department, and I am now considered a "red flag" by the company. If I make ANYONE feel threatened here at work again, I'm fired on the spot. They didn't care what he said or did... just the fact that he reported it first. So now he stares me down everytime we walk by eachother... acting really tough, because he knows if I touch him, even outside of work... I will be fired for creating a hostile work environment for him. So what can I do? Just know I'm bigger, stronger, and better than him.
Sorry for the book, man. But I really can relate. Been in your situation many times before. Keep your head up. You really did do the smart thing.
2 on 1... still not too bad.
3 on 1... asking for trouble
4 on 1... hope to hell you're one damn good fighter.
5 on 1... good luck
6 on 1... unless they're 3rd graders... you're pretty fucked.
I'm sorry to hear your frustration, Spunky. That sucks. Makes you feel like a candy ass. Then you get that "I shoulda said..." and "I shoulda done...." And you wonder why you didn't. But realistically, you know why. They hang out in bunches for a reason. You fight one bean, you fight the whole burrito. Besides, even if it was only 2 of them... if you went to challenge them, and they pulled out a gun... what do you do then?
It's hard to let it go. But you know deep down that 1 on 1, or even 2 on 1, chances are, you would prevail, right? That's what you have to go on.
A guy here at work was hitting on my gal... so I asked him very politely to leave her alone, as did she, because it was making her uncomfortable. So he tells me I'm not as big, or tough as I think, and to watch my step. I told him he knows where the parking lot is. So what does he do? Report me to the HR department, and I am now considered a "red flag" by the company. If I make ANYONE feel threatened here at work again, I'm fired on the spot. They didn't care what he said or did... just the fact that he reported it first. So now he stares me down everytime we walk by eachother... acting really tough, because he knows if I touch him, even outside of work... I will be fired for creating a hostile work environment for him. So what can I do? Just know I'm bigger, stronger, and better than him.
Sorry for the book, man. But I really can relate. Been in your situation many times before. Keep your head up. You really did do the smart thing.
Spunky-
Remember faces so if you ever see one of them alone go ask them if they remember you and if they are still so confident that they can take you one on one, most likely the little puss will shit all over himself.
Big Val-
Thats sucks dude. If they care so much about a hostile work environment then the only thing I think you could do is get your girl to file a complaint of sexual harrassment. (it sounds as if that was what made you "threaten him"). That way if you ever did kick his ass then you could tell him that if he files another complaint to get you fired then you would get your girl to do the same thing to get him fired. It might not be considered honest but as they say "give to each, his own".
-Chuck
Remember faces so if you ever see one of them alone go ask them if they remember you and if they are still so confident that they can take you one on one, most likely the little puss will shit all over himself.
Big Val-
Thats sucks dude. If they care so much about a hostile work environment then the only thing I think you could do is get your girl to file a complaint of sexual harrassment. (it sounds as if that was what made you "threaten him"). That way if you ever did kick his ass then you could tell him that if he files another complaint to get you fired then you would get your girl to do the same thing to get him fired. It might not be considered honest but as they say "give to each, his own".
-Chuck
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Chuck... I agree. She talked to HR about it, and even an attorney. The thing is, he made no explicit, sexual remarks. Just came on to her. Trying to work his "charm" so to speak. And, since it is no longer happening, there is no case. Usually, you have to tell the company about it, and when the company takes no action in your favor to prevent it, then you can sue. She told them about it, and they may have chatted with him about it, but she has no solid case.
So he stopped talking to her, and fortunately she doesn't work here anymore. But ther fucker looks me down every single day. Without fail. He's here right now, was just standing 20 feet away... he stares at me, and then does this cocky half smile, with a small sort of quiet laugh. As if he's just absolutely mocking me. I'm the biggest guy at my work, and we have 900 employees. And this guy is the ONLY one who acts how he does... but he knows he's safe.
Skinny armed, thick gutted, bad hair havin' bastard. He looks like a real out of shape Magnum PI. I shit you not. Hair, mustache, and even the cool shirts.
So he stopped talking to her, and fortunately she doesn't work here anymore. But ther fucker looks me down every single day. Without fail. He's here right now, was just standing 20 feet away... he stares at me, and then does this cocky half smile, with a small sort of quiet laugh. As if he's just absolutely mocking me. I'm the biggest guy at my work, and we have 900 employees. And this guy is the ONLY one who acts how he does... but he knows he's safe.
Skinny armed, thick gutted, bad hair havin' bastard. He looks like a real out of shape Magnum PI. I shit you not. Hair, mustache, and even the cool shirts.
theoak01
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you did the right thing bro
about a month ago 5 or 6 little bitches were mouthing off to me on the way home from work/gym and i told them to shut there mouths and take a fucking hike,they quickly circled me and started pushing me and trying to get me to swing but i ran though one of them and got the fuck out of that situation,i guess somebody called the cops and the assholes said i was the aggressor and the cops came and slammed me against the car took me back there and the guys said it was me,i told them to talk to one guy who didnt seem like he wanted to start shit and they got him to crack and say they started with me,good thing or i woulda been in the pokey,im still waiting to see them again and next time i dont care how many there are,none of them are over 130
about a month ago 5 or 6 little bitches were mouthing off to me on the way home from work/gym and i told them to shut there mouths and take a fucking hike,they quickly circled me and started pushing me and trying to get me to swing but i ran though one of them and got the fuck out of that situation,i guess somebody called the cops and the assholes said i was the aggressor and the cops came and slammed me against the car took me back there and the guys said it was me,i told them to talk to one guy who didnt seem like he wanted to start shit and they got him to crack and say they started with me,good thing or i woulda been in the pokey,im still waiting to see them again and next time i dont care how many there are,none of them are over 130
That sucks that they will protect his sorry ass and leave a woman that is typically view as "defensless" and supposed to be protected before another man. Maybe that will tell you that the company even thinks he is a fat little twat. I'm all out of ideas besides the ones that might get you fired or arrested or both
I guess the only thing that could possibly work, and again the last thing i would want is for you to get arrested or anyone one else, but if you ever see him outside of work and you are with your friends, make sure he doesnt see you but get you friend to go harrass the hell out of him and see how big he is then. Dont know if he could press charges against your friend for the harrassment but at least he wouldnt be able to connect it to you.
I probably sound like I am a bad person for thinking about all of this but it is just because I am the "nice guy" that this always happens to and it sucks!!!!! Good luck Val. Whatever you do the little piece of shit isnt worth losing your job over.
-Chuck
I guess the only thing that could possibly work, and again the last thing i would want is for you to get arrested or anyone one else, but if you ever see him outside of work and you are with your friends, make sure he doesnt see you but get you friend to go harrass the hell out of him and see how big he is then. Dont know if he could press charges against your friend for the harrassment but at least he wouldnt be able to connect it to you.
I probably sound like I am a bad person for thinking about all of this but it is just because I am the "nice guy" that this always happens to and it sucks!!!!! Good luck Val. Whatever you do the little piece of shit isnt worth losing your job over.
-Chuck
You're not a puss man. You had no choice. But as MikeyLikesJuice says....."remember faces" sometimes fate plays dirty tricks on little assholes.
Similar situation: My ex-girfriend used to go out with a guy, no longer does. He treated her like shit and still fucks with her. Guess what? I just got a job bouncing at a club not 1 mile from where he lives. He'll be there one day and will pay a heavy price.
Genarr3
Similar situation: My ex-girfriend used to go out with a guy, no longer does. He treated her like shit and still fucks with her. Guess what? I just got a job bouncing at a club not 1 mile from where he lives. He'll be there one day and will pay a heavy price.
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big brother val : those situation sucks. I know how it is where I work.. the person who reports it first is the one that wins. I've even had a supevisor admit that to me. He said whoever reports an incident first is usually the one who is believed..... weird how it works out that way.
liquidanny
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Thy're fucking losers anyway.....they'll end up in prison soon....at LEAST once... dont worry about people like that...they usually end up 30 something reflecting on having done nothing with their lives... they'll be ringing your doorbell in 5 years looking for money...dont give any 
mikelong23
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overrx said:
totally agree, the word 9mm as a gang name, hum I wonder what that means. wouldn't fuck with em, unless you see 1 or 2 of em by their selves, than maybe you could fuck em up, but you gotta make sure they don't know who you are.
brianharper94
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dude, running people over is not a good idea. when i was in high school i was the biggest guy in school, and i always had the best shit, the nicest shoes and clothes, the best car, a huge wad in my pocket (yeah, i sold drugs). One day when i was going to my brand new car, five not-so-small guys decided they wanted to jack me. i was lucky enough to have keyless entry and get in my car pretty quickly, but i was pissed so i hit a couple of them, dented my car, broke the windshield, got expelled, car got searched, they found drugs (of course), went to jail, parents had to shell out a shitload on lawyers and bail and shit. If I wouldn't have been 16 at the time I would probably be in jail right now still, just because some fags were jealous of me. you did good man, i wish i could control my temper like that.
you did the right thing bro. one day these three mexican gangsta wannabes were sitting on the curb and i could not prove that they were talking shit to me because i could not here them from where i was at but im pretty sure it was directed towards me, and i have to say i was probably the aggresor in this one but any way i jumped out of my truck and hit the first one before he could even get on his feet then the second one took a smack in the eye as he stood up, the other one did manage to give me a mighty blow to the back of my head but i'll bet i hit all three of them at least four times apeice before i relized i wasnt going to get any where here but i did only get hit once and they did not want to fight any longer either so we all went are seperate ways , but if there had been one more of them i do beleive i would have been in trouble.
horsePOWER
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hey BIG VAL,
that day will come when you move to a diff company or something will happen that the company policy wont mean dick. then u walk over to the guy, give him one of his own shiteating grins and say something like "guess what asshole, things have changed. we have some unsettled bussiness to attend to. parking lot, NOW!"
and all u other bros.
im sure all of us have been in situtaions like this. in one way this could be the best thing. this kind of shit get me really worked up like all of you. so i take that aggression out in my workouts. i've never lifted harder than when im pumping and picturing myself destroying some asshole.
that day will come when you move to a diff company or something will happen that the company policy wont mean dick. then u walk over to the guy, give him one of his own shiteating grins and say something like "guess what asshole, things have changed. we have some unsettled bussiness to attend to. parking lot, NOW!"
and all u other bros.
im sure all of us have been in situtaions like this. in one way this could be the best thing. this kind of shit get me really worked up like all of you. so i take that aggression out in my workouts. i've never lifted harder than when im pumping and picturing myself destroying some asshole.
crimson coal
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Spunky..You did right bro. Now a days it's not safe out there. Most likely they had some sort of weapon. Getting an ass beating isn't so bad. Comin out alive is what ya need to worry about. We have all been there in some way or another.
Spunky you did the right thing bro. I feel ya anger! I had a similiar situation at a house party, me and 3 of my friends against about 15 or 20 guyz and a few with bats. It sucked, couldnt do shit or we would of got beaten like Rodney King, none of this guys were big, all prob. weighed about 150-160 maybe. Made me feel like a little bitch when we left, i staid pisst for the rest of that month. Shit like that happens when your the big guy with your friends, so they start talking shit because they came with you. I was wanting to beat somebodys ass so bad, but what can ya do when the odds are against ya, just gotta use your head, and save that anger for the gym, I had some of the best workouts after that incident...
Spunky, You did the right thing bro...Those guys sound like little punks and if you really think about it..Would kicking there ass even be worth the time and trouble ? NO! I commend you as you made the right move.
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Spunky said:
Shit bro, that sucks ass!!! Why does this shit always seem to happen when you are with the wussiest of friends? LOL...
You know what else I hate, actually 3 cases that I hate:
1. Obviously when this shit happens when your girl is around.
2. After doing an intense workout at the gym (aka squats, etc) and you're driving home toasted off your ass from the workout, and some fucknut(s) tries to start shit with you...Never does fail! One of my pet peeves!
3. Some bastard that tries to start shit with his little kids around (mainly road rage type shit)...this type of jerk-off has no class!
Overall, at least your not in jail, or at worse, DEAD!
MR. BMJ
about 2 years ago I took on 8 people...they had no wepons...Im glad I did...fuckink thieves in peru...the women I laid out...and her son..I took a boot to the eye...and gave a hell yea when it was over....in your postion over there,,,your not a puss.....your alive...
peru is different,....you could kill someone who tries to rob you, and walk away with a "oh well, "
peru is different,....you could kill someone who tries to rob you, and walk away with a "oh well, "
Hey bro
I just felt like I had to add my two cents.....You did well! It is usually always better to walk away. 99% of the time it simply isn't worth it, and this seems like one of these times. You had nothing to gain. Fuck em' The feelings you have now will eventually pass and you will realize you made the right decision. But I have to tell you it is going to take a while for this to pass. I would try not to think about it too much. But I would use it to get you fired up when you are in the gym. I always lift better when I have something in my head to think about that pisses me off.
Take care bro, you did the right thing
-Ripped25
I just felt like I had to add my two cents.....You did well! It is usually always better to walk away. 99% of the time it simply isn't worth it, and this seems like one of these times. You had nothing to gain. Fuck em' The feelings you have now will eventually pass and you will realize you made the right decision. But I have to tell you it is going to take a while for this to pass. I would try not to think about it too much. But I would use it to get you fired up when you are in the gym. I always lift better when I have something in my head to think about that pisses me off.
Take care bro, you did the right thing
-Ripped25
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about 2 years ago I took on 8 people...they had no wepons...Im glad I did...fuckink thieves in peru...the women I laid out...and her son..I took a boot to the eye...and gave a hell yea when it was over....in your postion over there,,,your not a puss.....your alive...
peru is different,....you could kill someone who tries to rob you, and walk away with a "oh well, "
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I would love to have seen that. "When Peruvian's Attack". This segment a large Peruvian family takes on American muscle man.
Genarr3
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about 2 years ago I took on 8 people...they had no wepons...Im glad I did...fuckink thieves in peru...the women I laid out...and her son..I took a boot to the eye...and gave a hell yea when it was over....in your postion over there,,,your not a puss.....your alive...
peru is different,....you could kill someone who tries to rob you, and walk away with a "oh well, "
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I would love to have seen that. "When Peruvian's Attack". This segment a large Peruvian family takes on American muscle man.
Genarr3
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Hurricane112
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From personal experience I know that many times when we are tempted to fight it is because of our own self doubt or because inside we are unsure whether we would win. Once one overcomes this doubt or realizes that it really doesn't matter, fighting is far easier to walk away from. I mean sure who doesn't like the rush of having just proven that all the hours in the gym have paid off and that you are an inde-fucking-structable powerhouse?! Everyone. But, as the saying goes: Those who talk (or in this case fight) do not know, and those who know, do not talk. It is enough to know in your heart that you will prevail no matter what. So everytime you are forced to hold back the rage and doubt that rise towards the surface when faced with assholes in a bad situation that you walk away from, let that linger just below the surface for when you really need it and then be confidant that it will be there for you and that your opponent will wish he had picked a different man.
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