abortion: need help please

[digimon7068]

Ever heard of Adoption?

That is generally my thought but most people don't want to hear that shit. . .they've been brain washed. . .it's OK to kill unborn kids but it's not OK to assist the terminally-ill in ending their lives in a dignified manner. . .what kind of shit is that??

Even the highest courts in the land error frequently when it comes to matters of human life. . .that's why you play hell getting them to hear these cases in the first place.

The same people that would kill a fetus are also the ones that would support growing them to perform stem cell research. Can you have it both ways??

The day that viable human lives become spare parts, we're all fucked.

 

[digimon7068]

been there bro and she had the abortion , shit still haunts me to this day.

There's your advice from someone with experience ^^^^

My advice? Don't take advice from someone that ain't been there. . .and I don't mean last week. Someone that's had a few years to reflect.

 

[SoKlueles]

been there bro and she had the abortion , shit still haunts me to this day.

dang sorry hotzie

 

[Gymgurl]

You will never regret having a child.....never and if you do....something is really wrong with you

 

[Cutiebaby]

You will never regret having a child.....never and if you do....something is really wrong with you

I fully agree.However the regret of abortion is a lifetime!

 

[Delinquent]

That is generally my thought but most people don't want to hear that shit. . .they've been brain washed. . .it's OK to kill unborn kids but it's not OK to assist the terminally-ill in ending their lives in a dignified manner. . .what kind of shit is that??

Even the highest courts in the land error frequently when it comes to matters of human life. . .that's why you play hell getting them to hear these cases in the first place.

The same people that would kill a fetus are also the ones that would support growing them to perform stem cell research. Can you have it both ways??

The day that viable human lives become spare parts, we're all fucked.

A FETUS is not a baby. You people overthink this issue so much it's ridiculous. A fetus cannot sustain life outside the womb period. At this point in the pregnancy, it's nothing more than an appendage or part of the womans body. Depending on how far into the pregnancy, it would be indistinguishable from a chimp fetus.

People think of it in terms of what it will become not what it is for some reason. Sure, it'll become a baby but right now it is FAR from that.

Logic will never be a factor for people who think with their heart instead of their head so write out the pros and cons then decide for yourself

And yes an ex and I had two when we were 15 and 16. No regret whatsoever since I now know that we would have never stayed together once out of high school. If it's the right decision for you and you can convince the girl, go for it.

 

[ksharp01]

You will never regret having a child.....never and if you do....something is really wrong with you

I agree totally....if you have this baby I would bet that you will wonder how you ever lived before the child came into your life. Yes, they change everything about your life, it is a part of you. I was 21 and married but I was so scared, thought we wouldn't have enough $ and that "it" would take up all my time..bla bla bla....13 years later, I just don't even remember my life before him. It was truely meaningless.

 

[Smurfy]

A FETUS is not a baby. You people overthink this issue so much it's ridiculous. A fetus cannot sustain life outside the womb period. At this point in the pregnancy, it's nothing more than an appendage or part of the womans body. Depending on how far into the pregnancy, it would be indistinguishable from a chimp fetus.

People think of it in terms of what it will become not what it is for some reason. Sure, it'll become a baby but right now it is FAR from that.

Logic will never be a factor for people who think with their heart instead of their head so write out the pros and cons then decide for yourself

And yes an ex and I had two when we were 15 and 16. No regret whatsoever since I now know that we would have never stayed together once out of high school. If it's the right decision for you and you can convince the girl, go for it.

Is your wife pregnant?

 

[Delinquent]

Is your wife pregnant?

Yes and if I could have convinced her to get rid of it when we found out, it would have been done. It's too late now though unless some deformity shows up on the sonogram. If such a thing does, the fetus will be aborted.

 

[NickyE3]

adoption is the only way to go - IMHO