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princesa

princesa

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So i've been dating this guy for a few weeks now really nice guy blah blah...
We started talking about sex and he mentioned to me that he cantuse a condom when he is having sex. For some reason he loses erection everytime his penis becomes in contact with a condom.
So im very sceptical right now
1. no condom=no sex thats it
2. most likely he had sex w/out it before and the thought scares me who he might have been with :worried:
he said that he is clean and that he would get tested if i wanted him to

so what i wanna know is why would it happen
what can he do?
 
are you an alter?

also it might just be something in his head.. call fucking love lines or something with dr drew.. he'll clear this issue up in a jiff..
 
FriendlyCanadian said:
are you an alter?

also it might just be something in his head.. call fucking love lines or something with dr drew.. he'll clear this issue up in a jiff..
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thats what i thought...
how can he get over it?
im not an alter
 
princesa said:
thats what i thought...
how can he get over it?
im not an alter
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also he might just really hate condoms and is just a slimey motherfucker who doesn't want to use condoms period.. but his dick works just fine in them..

how do we know you're not an alter hmmm?
 
"i go limp soon as a condom touches billy, sorry babe, can't use one" pfffffffffffffff lllllllllllllllllllllololollooooooool why havn't i ever thought of this sceme
 
borris said:
"i go limp soon as a condom touches billy" lllllllllllllllllllllololollooooooool why havn't i ever thought of this sceme
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I have an allergic reaction to latex is another good one too orb hah.
 
FriendlyCanadian said:
also he might just really hate condoms and is just a slimey motherfucker who doesn't want to use condoms period.. but his dick works just fine in them..

how do we know you're not an alter hmmm?
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i doubt that he is lying
i think that he has a bit of a low self esteem because of it
he said that the last time he tried it he had to leave immediately...i kinda felt bad, i mean i could only imagine how he must've felt
cmon you are a guy if you are not able to perform thats gotta mess you up a bit
 
borris said:
"i go limp soon as a condom touches billy, sorry babe, can't use one" pfffffffffffffff lllllllllllllllllllllololollooooooool why havn't i ever thought of this sceme
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cmon he is an adult he doesnt need to do that besides how can you take a chance to trust the other person...
sorry i dont trust anyone
 
princesa said:
i doubt that he is lying
i think that he has a bit of a low self esteem because of it
he said that the last time he tried it he had to leave immediately...i kinda felt bad, i mean i could only imagine how he must've felt
cmon you are a guy if you are not able to perform thats gotta mess you up a bit
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llllllllOLOooooooooolOLolololo!!!
 
im sure everyone must have had an embarrassing moment, i wont laugh at him for that. That would just be really shallow..no?
 
princesa said:
why would you do that??
how did you know the other person didnt have anything
and dont tell me i took her word for it
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I should clarify

at one sexual experience when the condom came on I went limp, and I did use that line

it was weird, a fluke or whatever. was a big deal for me at the time
 
string_bean00 said:
I should clarify

at one sexual experience when the condom came on I went limp, and I did use that line

it was weird, a fluke or whatever. was a big deal for me at the time
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ohhh ok...so you have an idea how this guy must feel-he said it happens to him everytime


did you know why it happened?
 
princesa said:
ohhh ok...so you have an idea how this guy must feel-he said it happens to him everytime


did you know why it happened?
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nervousness/anxiety


it was one of the first times i was with that girl when it happened. happens to quite a few guys with a new partner.


as a tip, he will probalby be fine if you put hte condom on him. a lot of guys go limp putting the rubber on themselves but a girl can make the whole action a good deal sexier than what it is.
 
KillahBee said:
wait....you have been dating for a few weeks and he hasn't hit it yet?!!!

lame
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no he hasnt...

what the heck people dont believe in dating anymore?
really getting to know someone
 
maybe he doesn't think you're sexy enough to get him hard with a condom

or maybe he is just playing you

or maybe he has some sort of weakminded issue with condoms
 
don't have sex with him if he won't use a condom if your concerned, there are other desperate men out there.
 
KillahBee said:
maybe he doesn't think you're sexy enough to get him hard with a condom
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KillahBee said:
if he didnt think i was sexy he would be long gone by now, i dont think thats the problem



or maybe he is just playing you

could be but i doubt it

or maybe he has some sort of weakminded issue with condoms
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thats what he thinks it is but doesnt know why


stringb...thanx for the tip ...im gonna ask him if he's tried it
 
MightyMouse69 said:
don't have sex with him if he won't use a condom if your concerned, there are other desperate men out there.
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ohh there is no way im taking that chance i dont care how nice of a guy he is

but if i knew why maybe i could try and help him
 
princesa said:
ohh there is no way im taking that chance i dont care how nice of a guy he is

but if i knew why maybe i could try and help him
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why not just stick with oral sex for a bit?
 
MightyMouse69 said:
why not just stick with oral sex for a bit?
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not w/out seeing any test results

i dont know where its been

listen i take good care of myself i expect the other person to do the same thats all
 
princesa said:
not w/out seeing any test results

i dont know where its been

listen i take good care of myself i expect the other person to do the same thats all
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test results? that is very limited - he could have a huge array of things that go untested. I would bet he does not have HIV for sure. It's the little things you have to worry about. BTW the herpes virus can be present and he may not have any symptoms ever. You should be a Nun :)
 
MightyMouse69 said:
test results? that is very limited - he could have a huge array of things that go untested. I would bet he does not have HIV for sure. It's the little things you have to worry about. BTW the herpes virus can be present and he may not have any symptoms ever. You should be a Nun :)
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a nun??? lol why? i like sex just as much if not more :)

im just cautious ..whats wrong with that?

just because of my ragin hormones i dont wanna make some stupid mistake that could threaten my health
 
nothing wrong with it; just don't get obsessed with the process - it can become a turnoff for sure.


princesa said:
a nun??? lol why? i like sex just as much if not more :)

im just cautious ..whats wrong with that?

just because of my ragin hormones i dont wanna make some stupid mistake that could threaten my health
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MightyMouse69 said:
nothing wrong with it; just don't get obsessed with the process - it can become a turnoff for sure.
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oh really?
ohh well if he doesnt like it he or anyone else could move on, no hard feelings

everyone has their own standards
 
some condoms give more "feel" than others....those give away condoms in the see thru fish bowls at bars are like hefty bags :(

a drop or two of lube inside the condom helps out tremedously

viargra or cialis is also a big help in overcome "condomitis"






it ain't 1970 out there anymore....safe or nothing!!
 
rnch said:
some condoms give more "feel" than others....those give away condoms in the see thru fish bowls at bars are like hefty bags :(

a drop or two of lube inside the condom helps out tremedously

viargra or cialis is also a big help in overcome "condomitis"






it ain't 1970 out there anymore....safe or nothing!!
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very true...its scary out there
 
You realize that condom usage only reduces infection rates?

For HIV Perfect condom usage lowers HIV transmission rates by 85% and for HPV 70%. Unprotected areas can still make contact and transmit infection. The only "safe sex" is no sex, condoms just make sex safer.
 
princesa said:
ohhh ok...so you have an idea how this guy must feel-he said it happens to him everytime
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viagra.gif


or

cialis304.jpg
 
princesa said:
not w/out seeing any test results

i dont know where its been

listen i take good care of myself i expect the other person to do the same thats all
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Test results aren't always accurate (for shame, medical community).

Better just stay celibate.
 
MightyMouse69 said:
test results? that is very limited - he could have a huge array of things that go untested. I would bet he does not have HIV for sure. It's the little things you have to worry about. BTW the herpes virus can be present and he may not have any symptoms ever. You should be a Nun :)
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You beat me to it. Damn you.
 
princesa said:
a nun??? lol why? i like sex just as much if not more :)
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Than a nun? :confused:
 
rnch said:
some condoms give more "feel" than others....those give away condoms in the see thru fish bowls at bars are like hefty bags :(

a drop or two of lube inside the condom helps out tremedously

viargra or cialis is also a big help in overcome "condomitis"






it ain't 1970 out there anymore....safe or nothing!!
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We'll all be produced in labs eventually. Past the point of gettin any better as long as people do their thinking with what's between their legs.

p.s.: fuckin hippies.
 
princesa said:
ohh there is no way im taking that chance i dont care how nice of a guy he is

but if i knew why maybe i could try and help him
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I don't know if the dushebags here are lying or they don't use condoms. But, it can be hard to maintain an erection with it on. (If you don't get right to business.)

1. Get a bigger condom. Even if he doesn't need it. It is one hell of a lot more comfortable.

2. Viagra/Cialas is not a guarantee. If he is nervous, then it won't help. It will help a lot to keep the blood in the penis after he has the hard on.

3. Get him hard and you wet with some foreplay. (I said some. Don't make him do too much)

4. Have him put the condom on when HE is ready. You should be in the Missionary Position with legs up. As soon as he puts it on he should put it in!

5. Don't ask him a bunch of fucking questions or act awkward.

6. Swallow.
 
javaguru said:
You realize that condom usage only reduces infection rates?

For HIV Perfect condom usage lowers HIV transmission rates by 85% and for HPV 70%. Unprotected areas can still make contact and transmit infection. The only "safe sex" is no sex, condoms just make sex safer.
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85% reduction is better than ZERO reduction.... :rolleyes:
 
thats bs. He just doesnt like condoms, noone does cuz they fucking suck. But im sure they dont suck as much as an std
 
all the whey said:
I don't know if the dushebags here are lying or they don't use condoms. But, it can be hard to maintain an erection with it on. (If you don't get right to business.)

1. Get a bigger condom. Even if he doesn't need it. It is one hell of a lot more comfortable.

2. Viagra/Cialas is not a guarantee. If he is nervous, then it won't help. It will help a lot to keep the blood in the penis after he has the hard on.

3. Get him hard and you wet with some foreplay. (I said some. Don't make him do too much)

4. Have him put the condom on when HE is ready. You should be in the Missionary Position with legs up. As soon as he puts it on he should put it in!

5. Don't ask him a bunch of fucking questions or act awkward.

6. Swallow.
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TITCR!!!
 
MightyMouse69 said:
why not just stick with oral sex for a bit?
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Is that your solution to everything?

Guy doesn't like condoms. Oral sex.
Middle East conflict. Oral sex.
 
string_bean00 said:
nervousness/anxiety


it was one of the first times i was with that girl when it happened. happens to quite a few guys with a new partner.


as a tip, he will probalby be fine if you put hte condom on him. a lot of guys go limp putting the rubber on themselves but a girl can make the whole action a good deal sexier than what it is.
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Nah, she just didn't turn you on enough. How big was she bro?
 
mountain muscle said:
Nah, she just didn't turn you on enough. How big was she bro?
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TITCR

If a chick turns you on then you'll always be rock hard for sex. The condom just exacerbates the lack of attraction issue.
 
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