My wife has had 2 children and is still 5 foot and weighs less than 110 lbs. So many women out there use child birth as an excuse to get fat and lazy. My wife was up to 160 lbs with our second baby, much like you were over 200 lbs. I think women should be a true inspiration to all men. It is amazing how much your bodies can go through and still look so great. You are a beautiful woman in all senses.