yeah, eating better and try some trex or some inhibitor so you dont want to eat that shit. Try the elliptical and mix it up. If you dont use a mp3 or cd player, get one, it makes it go a lot faster. I started yrs ago and watched my minutes per mile and kept hitting it, trying to beat the time I had. After I had leveled off, I watched my heartrate and kept it steady at the fat burning rate. It gave me an incentive to keep going.
I agree about gear not being for you but other more xperienced bros here have already told you that. Stick with it and get some supps and good vitamins for the energy to get aerobic. Good luck.