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exactly 20 days after I last saw my husband I'm getting all worked up again ugh... I have "assistance" in the matter that takes care of the physical desire, but the fantasies, memories and general hornyness wont cool off, specially the fantasies 
20 days again....
- Thread starter nangiggles
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is someone here in a similar position? any tips on the psychological desiree?
long story short, we are moving from CR to US, I came first got a job and claimed him in the embassy but they are being bitches and dont let him come yet, have seen him 48 hours total since march 3rd when i moved to FL....
layinback
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nope i don't have any experience in this area and i couldn't imagine being away from kathy that long! we are a little enmeshed but our analyst assures us that it's ok if we are ok with it.
wow! i hope you guys get this sorted out soon. in the meantime, be diligent
in your pursuit to get him here and don't isolate. get out, make some friends
and get some good positive peeps to talk to. if it gets overwhelming, go help
someone who's got it worse than you. works 100% of the time.
the more you try to avoid these feelings, fantasies ect... the worse it will
be. "what you resist persists."
wow! i hope you guys get this sorted out soon. in the meantime, be diligent
in your pursuit to get him here and don't isolate. get out, make some friends
and get some good positive peeps to talk to. if it gets overwhelming, go help
someone who's got it worse than you. works 100% of the time.
the more you try to avoid these feelings, fantasies ect... the worse it will
be. "what you resist persists."
space coast area, unfortunately I as isolated because I cant drive and public transportation here is shit....
511 miles (8 hour drive) u from Pensacola?
exactly 20 days after I last saw my husband I'm getting all worked up again ugh... I have "assistance" in the matter that takes care of the physical desire, but the fantasies, memories and general hornyness wont cool off, specially the fantasies
Jaime and I could fly you out to Colorado for a while and take care of any needs you may have! lol
oh my oddly enough the idea of a threesome turns me on with 2 strangers but not my husband another chick and I.... hmmm.... i just now realized that.... are u in CO? im in FL
oddly enough the idea of a threesome turns me on with 2 strangers but not my husband another chick and I.... hmmm.... i just now realized that.... are u in CO? im in FL
needtogetarmy
CEO of Project Mayhem
damn, my wife can go without sex for months at a time. I don't have any advice for you lol
He got here a month and a week ago... we've had sex 3 times.... wonder if I can get a refund,ship him back and place an order for a new husband
nah... I knew he's like this, being apart wasnt gonna change it, was just wishful thinking...
YOu know whats funny sexy ms. giggles??? For you to speak of your hubby why isnt he on EF? That way you could chat with him even more. Or do you save us for your "secret" naughty fun?
I told him once upon a time to get in here, he didnt want to, now I'm glad he didnt.... this is my bitch and moan stress free place.
kx250rider
New member
My wife has been in Montana for 13 days, and is due home some time late today! I can't wait... The only thing that scares me, is how much talking must have happened... 13 days and 2500 miles roundtrip on the road, with 2 friends. It must have been a sight for people to see at gas stations too... 3 hot Texas cowgirls in a huge red Chevy 4x4 Diesel, and all 3 of them carrying very large guns in plain sight ('til the CA border of course) 
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Charles
. Charles
Welcome to 27 days out of my month... except I already stopped trying.... cant get refused if I dont offer.... even blow jobs get passed on
there's something weird/psychological I tell you!
thelocal
Banned
Welcome to 27 days out of my month... except I already stopped trying.... cant get refused if I dont offer.... even blow jobs get passed on
Hmm, someone is gonna end up giving it up.. eventually.
BBR100
New member
Welcome to 27 days out of my month... except I already stopped trying.... cant get refused if I dont offer.... even blow jobs get passed on
That's unworkable.
Is it too late to send him back to CR?
Jaime and I could fly you out to Colorado for a while and take care of any needs you may have! lol
can I come too?
When he realized I bought one he went bat shit.... fuck that I kept it, got a second one after I broke it xD
When he realized I bought one he went bat shit.... fuck that I kept it, got a second one after I broke it xD
I just got a new one
I'm diggin it.
needtogetarmy
CEO of Project Mayhem
Same here lol
needtogetarmy
CEO of Project Mayhem
When he realized I bought one he went bat shit.... fuck that I kept it, got a second one after I broke it xD
I've asked my wife many times if she would let me get a nice sized dildo and a vibrator for her. She never masturbates. Never. She was like 'what am I going to do with it?'
I would have already lost my marbles had I not bought my toys.... pain in the ass having to hide them though.... so unfucking fair...he wont play me and doesnt want me to play solo either, he attacked the size of the toy saying it was too big..... whatever...I've asked my wife many times if she would let me get a nice sized dildo and a vibrator for her. She never masturbates. Never. She was like 'what am I going to do with it?'
I think you guys are complaining too much
my girl and I have an amazing sex life... but it has its ebbs and flows... lately we have been fucking like bunnies... 3-5x a day.. but just a month or so ago i think we went 6 weeks without sex.... we are always very affectionate with each other but it isnt always about carnal boning.
my girl and I have an amazing sex life... but it has its ebbs and flows... lately we have been fucking like bunnies... 3-5x a day.. but just a month or so ago i think we went 6 weeks without sex.... we are always very affectionate with each other but it isnt always about carnal boning.
I've asked my wife many times if she would let me get a nice sized dildo and a vibrator for her. She never masturbates. Never. She was like 'what am I going to do with it?'
I come home for lunch half the time during the week just for a quick buzz. Get her a little cute one that doesn't seem scary and ominous and buy her a book on how to masturbate, I'm assuming they make books about it?Hide them? shit I were you I would just put them on top of his night table or something.... Gurl, CRANK THAT SHIT UP n tell him to get in or stay out.
needtogetarmy
CEO of Project Mayhem
Big? That is hot. If you ever set up a wish list at Adam and Eve send me a PM. I'll buy you all the toys you want for Christmas...or any other occasion. Big is good.
needtogetarmy
CEO of Project Mayhem
Tried it. Even bought her some. They ended up in the trash.
In the last 4 years I've had sex about twice a month.... maybe only 2 or 3 times have I had sex more than once in a week and maybe once or twice sex twice in a day, but usually its sex once hopefully twice a month.... it's not a phase... it's who our partners unfortunately are and how they once pretended to keep up and then showed their true colors about not liking sex once they had lured us in....
Doing it 3-5x a day.... the good old days.... and I mean with my ex... that never happened with my husband -_-
