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[needtogetarmy]

I'm the last person to give relationship advice but my ex-wife did teach me a few things. Don't go toe to toe with her about what she says, look for the underlying problem. As men, we tend to be focused on solving problems as opposed to addressing "feelings" issues. My ex-wife learned how to win every encounter by prefacing everything with "I want" as opposed to arguing the position.

I'm an expert addressing her needs and hitting the underlying problem. She says 'I want' I give it to her. I have no issue with that.

I'll give you a typical day in our life. She is a physical therapist and I am a college professor. I work fewer hours. I've tried her to quit her job or go part time but she will not. She likes working so I support whatever she wants with her career.

A Day in the Life of AV:

06:30ish masturbate. I never get sex and this is a good time to wack one before I shower
06:30 get up shower help get the kids ready for daycare
07:00 25g whey with water, make juice bottle for one girl and get bottles ready for the other little girl
07:30 I take girls to day care - drink Pre-WO drink, feeling jacked
08:00 workout until 9:00 drink post-workout drink, still jacked
09:15 shower, change, head to work
1600: done with work on a typical day, which is twice a week. I am off the other three days of the week but I still go in the office to do research so I am off earlier, I do teach evenings one day a week so my wife handles the kids in the evening on that day
16:15 I pick up kids at daycare
16:45 Start my evening routine: turn on TV so 2 year old has something to do while I throw food in the over, feed the other one, bathe the other one, rush out to make sure fish, chicken and rice is not on fire, pull it out so it is cooked. If I have time I also do laundry and talk to my oldest while she is watching TV to see how her day went
17:00 food is ready, wife comes home, bitches about she didn't see enough patients,
17:30-20:00 play time with my daughter
18:00 she puts the little one to bed, It is her thing and she will not let me do it
20:00 she puts the big one to bed, that is also her thing. Also, since she has done it for the past two years, my daughter doesn't like me reading books to her before bed because my wife has done it the entire time, thus this will also happen with the other little one. Not a good bonding experience but I make sure I spend quality time with my daughter so I deal with it.
post 20:00 my wife is already in bed. I read, surf the net, or whatever.
22:00-24:00 masturbate and then go to bed.

This is my schedule M-F

Sat & Sun: usually go shopping or out to eat with the wife. She is in bed by 9:00. She needs alone time so I also take the big one out and our routine is the bookstore, playground, and Arby's because she loves roastbeef and it is my cheat day so I get one too. She is also like her daddy and likes books so we love the bookstore.

Most men wouldn't do have the shit I do. She'll be doing it all when I leave. I'm going to fight for custody of at least one daughter. I want both, but I doubt a court will let me.

 

[Rachel...lol]

ugh... the whole kid thing really, I don't know if I could do it. Well, maybe

 

[Rachel...lol]

sweet god your new profile pic looks sweet. Nice work Rachel.

Thanks, I just changed it again though - the last one I was real lean and this one is more representative of what I look like now I was really thrown off track with some injuries

 

[BlueBird]

I'm going to fight for custody of at least one daughter. I want both, but I doubt a court will let me.

Oh, I think splitting up your daughters is a dreadful (and kinda selfish~sorry AV) idea. I'm willing to bet this would lead to way more resentfulness, from them, than your staying in this fruitless marriage.

 

[1500]

You ever come to NC I owe ya Peanut Buster Parfait. It's been years since I've had one. That bitch is like 2000 calories too and I am on a 2400 cal diet right now. haha

I live in NC also. meat up?? I'll introduce you to the nicest/hawtest stripper sluts you've ever laid eyes on.

 

[needtogetarmy]

Oh, I think splitting up your daughters is a dreadful (and kinda selfish~sorry AV) idea. I'm willing to bet this would lead to way more resentfulness, from them, than your staying in this fruitless marriage.

I agree 100% BB.

No matter what I will make sure I look out for the interests of my children.

 

[needtogetarmy]

Thanks, I just changed it again though - the last one I was real lean and this one is more representative of what I look like now I was really thrown off track with some injuries

Injuries really set me back over the past 4 years. Hernia op in 2006 that got botched my the doc and a major one to fix it in 2008.

I never wanted to get plastic surgery but that is going to have to happen before I post front ab pics. I have veins popping out of my lower abs but the surgery left a patch of fat. Topicals don't do a thing either and I've been down to 7% since and that didn't get rid of it either. Sad that some of us work so darn hard and then crap like this happens!

I saw a doc this summer and I'll probably get it done in December. I hate missing the gym though and that will put me out for at least a few weeks. Blah, I hate surgery and injuries.

 

[needtogetarmy]

I live in NC also. meat up?? I'll introduce you to the nicest/hawtest stripper sluts you've ever laid eyes on.

I'm in Fayetteville. A meat up is a must.

I say hell yes to the stripper sluts!

 

[1500]

I'm in Fayetteville. A meat up is a must.

I say hell yes to the stripper sluts!

Fayettenam. We're pretty close bruh. I'll hit u up. Good times to be had in the Triad region. guaranteed!

 

[Scotsman]

lol I'm lucky I have a job right now with all of the budget cuts. They are kicking out tenured professor with 30+ years and using young bucks like me to replace them. I'm cheap labor I guess. You ever come to NC I owe ya Peanut Buster Parfait. It's been years since I've had one. That bitch is like 2000 calories too and I am on a 2400 cal diet right now. haha

I hear you man, I am fortuneate enough to have a pretty high paying job although it is literally killing me with all the hours and travel. Peanut buster parfait would be sweet, I'll let you know if I'm ever out that way.

Cheers,
Scotsman