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pumped5540

pumped5540

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hello everyone.... I'm having woman troubles! My girl and I have been seeing each other since June & I love her so much. She lives about 7 hrs away and I try to make it there to see her a couple weekends a month. We started having some problems about a month ago. She started a new diet (she competes in figure) and using an estrogen blocker, so we blamed it on that. She got real distant and closed up. She has 3 kids and is busy, but I felt like I was the last priority. I know she loves me too, and I think it's just the kind of person she is. I told her I wanted out of the relationship and it seems as though that's when she puts effort in and says I'm her soul mate..... I don't know what to do, we argue and are pissy with each other here lately, but I miss her and don't want anyone else. She says "I'll call u right back, and I don't hear from her til a while later & that sux) What should I do? Maybe I'm too needy???
 
pumped5540 said:
hello everyone.... I'm having woman troubles! My girl and I have been seeing each other since June & I love her so much. She lives about 7 hrs away and I try to make it there to see her a couple weekends a month. We started having some problems about a month ago. She started a new diet (she competes in figure) and using an estrogen blocker, so we blamed it on that. She got real distant and closed up. She has 3 kids and is busy, but I felt like I was the last priority. I know she loves me too, and I think it's just the kind of person she is. I told her I wanted out of the relationship and it seems as though that's when she puts effort in and says I'm her soul mate..... I don't know what to do, we argue and are pissy with each other here lately, but I miss her and don't want anyone else. She says "I'll call u right back, and I don't hear from her til a while later & that sux) What should I do? Maybe I'm too needy???
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I don't think you're being too needy - after all, you're not even local to her - so she's not seeing you often. Unfortunately those seem to be signs that she isn't interested anymore. :( Maybe give her some space and let her be the one to initiate contact for a while and see how that goes?

Good luck.
 
Rachel...lol said:
I don't think you're being too needy - after all, you're not even local to her - so she's not seeing you often. Unfortunately those seem to be signs that she isn't interested anymore. :( Maybe give her some space and let her be the one to initiate contact for a while and see how that goes?

Good luck.
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I agree, play it cool for a while.
 
some woman are just like this.. they're more independent. Males have a harder time letting go than females. We tend to get attached more easily. She might really want you, but she's just stressed and needs to focus on other things first. My gf is a lot like this. I bet the distance puts a strain on it a lot too. I agree though with the other guys that if you back off a lot (even though it will be hard) it might force her to start coming to you and missing you more instead.
 
I feel better just talking about it... She lives in my home town and I'm trying to sell my business now to get back there, to her... I know 100% that she wants us to be together, she just shows it in her own way. She just started a new job today too and has been texting me, I'm gonna just text her back periodically. I'm just kinda down right now and feel very alone.
 
pumped5540 said:
I feel better just talking about it... She lives in my home town and I'm trying to sell my business now to get back there, to her... I know 100% that she wants us to be together, she just shows it in her own way. She just started a new job today too and has been texting me, I'm gonna just text her back periodically. I'm just kinda down right now and feel very alone.
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Holy fucking shit bro. Bad move. Lets review the situation:
Youve been seeing a woman who has 3 kids,
lives 7 hours away,
jacks up her hormone levels making her more crazy than she already is naturally,
you always have to tell her you dont want to see her anymore in order for her to straighten up and fly right,
And the worst part of this clusterfuck is that youre willing to throw away your livelihood (your business) to move to where she is????
Wrong answer bro.
And as far as her "showing you in her own way she wants to be together", all that shit means is she isnt showing it good enough so quit acting whipped and making excuses for her and the sorry relationship youre in. Is she badass in bed or something? It means jacksquat bro.

I almost stopped reading at "7 hours away" and just told you to dump her ass on that fact alone and it would have been justified. Not trying to be so harsh but youve only been seeing her since june and you sound like youre 19 and just googly-eyed over some broad.
 
You have not been with her that long and need to relax. If you think she's worth it give it a try doing long distance and see what happens.
Be upfront with her and tell her you better not be getting played.
 
Agreed with SuperDave.

Pumped you need to start acquiring some perspective, stat bro. Selling your business for a 4 month relationship (& it's strained already) to a woman with 3 kids, wtf bro?! She probably sold that "soulmate" shite to whom ever she spawned the kids with as well.

How old are you anyway?
 
superdave said:
Holy fucking shit bro. Bad move. Lets review the situation:
Youve been seeing a woman who has 3 kids,
lives 7 hours away,
jacks up her hormone levels making her more crazy than she already is naturally,
you always have to tell her you dont want to see her anymore in order for her to straighten up and fly right,
And the worst part of this clusterfuck is that youre willing to throw away your livelihood (your business) to move to where she is????
Wrong answer bro.
And as far as her "showing you in her own way she wants to be together", all that shit means is she isnt showing it good enough so quit acting whipped and making excuses for her and the sorry relationship youre in. Is she badass in bed or something? It means jacksquat bro.

I almost stopped reading at "7 hours away" and just told you to dump her ass on that fact alone and it would have been justified. Not trying to be so harsh but youve only been seeing her since june and you sound like youre 19 and just googly-eyed over some broad.
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this^^^^^ you are NOT her priority. I almost stopped reading after the 3 kids remark. At BEST, your 4th in line. Move on bro....
 
superdave said:
Holy fucking shit bro. Bad move. Lets review the situation:
Youve been seeing a woman who has 3 kids,
lives 7 hours away,
jacks up her hormone levels making her more crazy than she already is naturally,
you always have to tell her you dont want to see her anymore in order for her to straighten up and fly right,
And the worst part of this clusterfuck is that youre willing to throw away your livelihood (your business) to move to where she is????
Wrong answer bro.
And as far as her "showing you in her own way she wants to be together", all that shit means is she isnt showing it good enough so quit acting whipped and making excuses for her and the sorry relationship youre in. Is she badass in bed or something? It means jacksquat bro.

I almost stopped reading at "7 hours away" and just told you to dump her ass on that fact alone and it would have been justified. Not trying to be so harsh but youve only been seeing her since june and you sound like youre 19 and just googly-eyed over some broad.
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I agree with this post 100%

Shutting down your business for a woman with 3 kids who you aren't even getting along with very well is INSANE.
 
shibs said:
some woman are just like this.. they're more independent. Males have a harder time letting go than females. We tend to get attached more easily. She might really want you, but she's just stressed and needs to focus on other things first. My gf is a lot like this. I bet the distance puts a strain on it a lot too. I agree though with the other guys that if you back off a lot (even though it will be hard) it might force her to start coming to you and missing you more instead.
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^^^ This... some of us arent very clingy, I was apart from my husband 6 months, sure I missed him, but I did not talk to him everyday nor did I want to, not even online... some people just arent very touchy feely...
 
I appreciate all the views! The fact of her having 3 kids is not an issue & I'm wanting to get back home, which is where she is. I may be moving back sooner to be with her but she is not the only reason for this decesion. I'm 30 by the way and she's 37... I told her I was done and I'm just going to go about my life and if she wants to be with me she's going to have to prove it to me!!
 
pumped5540 said:
I appreciate all the views! The fact of her having 3 kids is not an issue & I'm wanting to get back home, which is where she is. I may be moving back sooner to be with her but she is not the only reason for this decesion. I'm 30 by the way and she's 37... I told her I was done and I'm just going to go about my life and if she wants to be with me she's going to have to prove it to me!!
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Forget having her prove shit bro, if someone wants to be with you she wont have constantly have to "prove" it.

cut the cord and move on for good.
 
She's too old anyway. Women start to fall apart after 36-37 ( not all but most).
 
pumped5540 said:
I appreciate all the views! The fact of her having 3 kids is not an issue & I'm wanting to get back home, which is where she is. I may be moving back sooner to be with her but she is not the only reason for this decesion. I'm 30 by the way and she's 37... I told her I was done and I'm just going to go about my life and if she wants to be with me...TOO BAD!!
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fixed!

and...she's cheating on you bro!
 
lol you guys are a-holes

just break up with her and if she wants you bad enough she'll automatically prove it by trying to get you back. just see how hard she really tries, and if not you can find a younger woman (pref not a mom) that wants you and is more like you :)
 
you need to tell your mom and siblings that you're keeping the business and making it without them.

no but really i think rach needs to show you the goods so you can see there's life after your chick
 
I am completly out of this situation! It was tough cause I have feeling for her, but it's just not a good situation for me to be in, thanks for all the help! Got my eye on a 19 eye old bikini model at the gym, she may be able to help me talk my mind off the other.. lol
 
pumped5540 said:
I am completly out of this situation! It was tough cause I have feeling for her, but it's just not a good situation for me to be in, thanks for all the help! Got my eye on a 19 eye old bikini model at the gym, she may be able to help me talk my mind off the other.. lol
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Atta boy...on to better things!
 
pumped5540 said:
I am completly out of this situation! It was tough cause I have feeling for her, but it's just not a good situation for me to be in, thanks for all the help! Got my eye on a 19 eye old bikini model at the gym, she may be able to help me talk my mind off the other.. lol
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yes, do the 19 year old bikini model. Don't put anymore effort into the other. 7000 miles apart, son, you were alot further than that and you didn't know it. and 3 kids.....

good for you, life is too short.... When "the" one comes, ain't nothing gonna be able to keep you apart. When the right one comes, just make damn sure that she isn't really a psycho immitating a good woman. Only time will tell you that.....


PS, not to burst you bubble, but every single last one of them is psycho, just try and finf one that doesn't drive you totally insane too. Bad thing about beiong married, if your faithful to your vows, they controll 100% of the when, where, and how often on whether or not your having sex. That SUX!! just sayin..... If you don't think that that's important, just ask the one who's not getting any....
 
bro u should love this moment!

it will tell you all u need to know about your girls character!

if it is the hormones who gives a shit, the mind should be the judge not the body


the way I look at it, her being a dutch bag " just saved youa bunch of money on your car insurance"


lol
 
lartinos said:
She's too old anyway. Women start to fall apart after 36-37 ( not all but most).
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yes, our hormones go all crazy like!!! haha
:chainsaw:
 
I recommend to do what I did. Marry her, then be miserable for 14 years, then come back here and bitch about how miserable you are. In the meantime, set up an AFF account, post n00ds to married women who are also unsatisfied, create a thread here telling about your adventures, and then be condemned for being a cuckold sissy that doesn't have the strength to move on with your life. Works for me.
 
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Army Vet said:
I recommend to do what I did. Marry her, then be miserable for 14 years, then come back here and bitch about how miserable you are. In the meantime, set up an AFF account, post n00ds to married women who are also unsatisfied, create a thread here telling about your adventures, and then be condemned for being a cuckold sissy that doesn't have the strength to move in with your life. Works for me.
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Sounds like a plan to me!! lol
 
Two tears in a bucket mutha fuck it bro, no such thing as love.
 
Army Vet said:
I recommend to do what I did. Marry her, then be miserable for 14 years, then come back here and bitch about how miserable you are. In the meantime, set up an AFF account, post n00ds to married women who are also unsatisfied, create a thread here telling about your adventures, and then be condemned for being a cuckold sissy that doesn't have the strength to move in with your life. Works for me.
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ollolo lmao
 
nangiggles said:
^^^ This... some of us arent very clingy, I was apart from my husband 6 months, sure I missed him, but I did not talk to him everyday nor did I want to, not even online... some people just arent very touchy feely...
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You need to stop posting quality posts like this because I am going to quit my AFF account and just flirt with you! lol
 
Army Vet said:
I recommend to do what I did. Marry her, then be miserable for 14 years, then come back here and bitch about how miserable you are. In the meantime, set up an AFF account, post n00ds to married women who are also unsatisfied, create a thread here telling about your adventures, and then be condemned for being a cuckold sissy that doesn't have the strength to move on with your life. Works for me.
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I'm on that same plan, dont have an AFF account yet though.....
 
Did I mention I hate everything but Army Vet's AVI? :)
 
Army Vet said:
I can throw you on my account and we can e-flirt as couple. :qt:

One thing I have noticed is there are tons of couples. Tons.

If I could only buy a time machine.
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you don't need a time machine my man - you just need to drop the "marriage is meant to be forever" BS and start a new life. Imagine starting fresh... a whole new set of experiences. With time things would be fine...
 
Yea Ima do that shit one day too.
 
I likes dem bishes bout 20, Plank style nugga !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
I love all 36 years of you CW801.
 
cw801 said:
36 and older? Well hell......I am supposed to be falling apart now.....who knew??
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There are always exceptions to everything especially 30+ women who take care of themselves are independent and know what they want! Those rare gems are very hard to find and when you do find them most men wither under they're womanly power. I myself find this type of woman irresistible and am very lucky to have one.
 
V don't love me nomore I don't think, so unless she steps up I'm all Cw801's. Also I have converted to Mormon or WTF ever that religion is in Utah.
 
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