we got 1500 saved up which is enough for now, i live with her mom shes hot and cool. Were gettin our own place after my football season ends
Oh this has bad outcome written all over it.
Why on earth the rush to get married? What's wrong with being engaged for a year or two?
And someone mentioned debt ... I totally forgot about that. Last I heard you had something like $17K in debt ... and weren't you going to school to become a physio therapist or something? Why not complete school, get started in your career, start whittling away at that debt and THEN take the big plunge
Glad, I know WTF I'm talking about. My ex and I got married, I was 18, he was 21. NEITHER of us had a job or a penny in the bank. First we lived with my mom, then we moved in with his. Our first car was a late 1960s Mercury with I don't remember how many miles on it. Within two months of our getting married 1) I was pregnant (and he didn't believe in abortion) and 2) he had suffered an injury that put him flat on his back for three months and took an additional three months to fully recover from.
I realize you want to be easy going and have fun but you need to accept that if you want to do grownup stuff (get married) you can't HAVE that kind of freedom any more, not if you want to be a good husband.
Oh Yeah, AND I had only known him for about three months before marrying him!
The more strikes against you before you walk down the aisle the greater the chances of misery.
I dated my current husband for FOUR YEARS before we moved in together (okay, granted, we were married to other people at the time, but we really did date) and we're STILL happy after all these years.