I love having this personal freedom that I have now since I've been seperated......

[seaking420]

just saying......I dont know if I will ever get married again. I do what I want when I want without anyone saying boo to me. Not sure if its all just a novelty and it'll get old quick, but its been 6 months and hasent gotten old.

 

[curvymommy]

Re: I love having this personal freedom that I have now since I've been seperated....

Wow! That's the silver lining right there. Or maybe the whole thing's just silver. Glad you're having fun! What about your ex? Is she having fun or do you even care?

 

[fistfullofsteel]

Re: I love having this personal freedom that I have now since I've been seperated....

just tell all the moron guys who are getting married not to get married too

 

[seaking420]

Re: I love having this personal freedom that I have now since I've been seperated....

Wow! That's the silver lining right there. Or maybe the whole thing's just silver. Glad you're having fun! What about your ex? Is she having fun or do you even care?

I guess that is the silver lining there....Re: my ex - she's not where I am because I was the one who wanted out so she has had some trouble dealing with it all. Dont get me wrong, its effected me too.....but having all this freedom is really nice, but like I said in my 1st post not sure if itll get old quick and ill get bored.

 

[seaking420]

Re: I love having this personal freedom that I have now since I've been seperated....

just tell all the moron guys who are getting married not to get married too

I think everyone has to go through with the marriage thing at least once to understand it

 

[cindylou]

Re: I love having this personal freedom that I have now since I've been seperated....

well, if you ever get married again, dont ever marry someone who does not give you personal freedom or space


marriage shouldnt make you feel like that

I know I dont feel that way

I probably have too much space. lol

 

[BBR100]

Re: I love having this personal freedom that I have now since I've been seperated....

I guess that is the silver lining there....Re: my ex - she's not where I am because I was the one who wanted out so she has had some trouble dealing with it all. Dont get me wrong, its effected me too.....but having all this freedom is really nice, but like I said in my 1st post not sure if itll get old quick and ill get bored.

Six months is long enough to know. I'm sure you have or will miss certain things in the relationship but it seems, if you're being honest, to be working out for the better.
I'm guessing no kids involved here?

 

[lartinos]

Re: I love having this personal freedom that I have now since I've been seperated....

well, if you ever get married again, dont ever marry someone who does not give you personal freedom or space


marriage shouldnt make you feel like that

I know I dont feel that way

I probably have too much space. lol

I had an ex tell me I gave her too much freedom once, she has changed her tune since then.

 

[seaking420]

Re: I love having this personal freedom that I have now since I've been seperated....

Six months is long enough to know. I'm sure you have or will miss certain things in the relationship but it seems, if you're being honest, to be working out for the better.
I'm guessing no kids involved here?

Its funny you say 6 months is long enough to know, i thought that too, but unfortunately I dont think you will ever know for sure until everything is said and done. I do have a 3 year old boy, but even when I have him, I feel free. I do what I want with him and have a great time. There are times where I miss the relationship end of it, maybe its the companionship, but for now, most of the time.....i like it. I just hope it dosent effect my son much in the future.

 

[ortiz34]

Re: I love having this personal freedom that I have now since I've been seperated....

Just think of how good your life would be if you weren't a Jet or Yankee fan