Why is it that people with kids

[canadianhitman]

maybe. . .but there's a lot of guys that have that attitude. . .i'm not one of them, but i know some. . .

I've heard it from a lot of guys I know...so that's why I brought it up. Granted, most of em are living in an 'entrapment' situation, not a good relationship where they mutually decided that they want children.

 

[miplank]

maybe. . .but there's a lot of guys that have that attitude. . .i'm not one of them, but i know some. . .

I wouldn't consider them "men"...bunch of pussies if you ask me. I fucking hate guys that have that attitude. Man the fuck up and take care of your responsibility!

 

[digimon7068]

I wouldn't consider them "men"...bunch of pussies if you ask me. I fucking hate guys that have that attitude. Man the fuck up and take care of your responsibility!

every once in a while, one of those kids turns into michael phelps. . .karma's funny like that.

 

[heatherrae]

i wouldn't consider them "men"...bunch of pussies if you ask me. I fucking hate guys that have that attitude. Man the fuck up and take care of your responsibility!

amen!

 

[miplank]

amen!

seriously...if your man enough to have sex and don't use protection..then be man enough to take care of your child.


I got my wife pregnant when she was 16...I did what any real man would do. I took care of her and my son, and still do to this day.

It wasn't planned, but it still happened and just sped up the process a little bit. I busted my ass to give them everything I possibly could, and still made the time to make sure i was there for them phsically and emotionally.

I sold all my toys, (cars, motorcycle, etc) and did what I had to do to make everything right.

My wife is now 19...I bought us a house when she was 17, and we lived there for about a year. It was a nice house, but kinda small (1300 sq ft).

I sold it and had a brand new house built. Its 3000 sq. ft, and has everything my wife wanted. Why...because she deserves it!

Moral of the story...take care of what's yours!

 

[mrplunkey]

seriously...if your man enough to have sex and don't use protection..then be man enough to take care of your child.


I got my wife pregnant when she was 16...I did what any real man would do. I took care of her and my son, and still do to this day.

It wasn't planned, but it still happened and just sped up the process a little bit. I busted my ass to give them everything I possibly could, and still made the time to make sure i was there for them phsically and emotionally.

I sold all my toys, (cars, motorcycle, etc) and did what I had to do to make everything right.

My wife is now 19...I bought us a house when she was 17, and we lived there for about a year. It was a nice house, but kinda small (1300 sq ft).

I sold it and had a brand new house built. Its 3000 sq. ft, and has everything my wife wanted. Why...because she deserves it!

Moral of the story...take care of what's yours!

You left out the part where you are 53!

Kidding!!!! Grats on doing the right thing. Well done.

 

[miplank]

You left out the part where you are 53!

Kidding!!!! Grats on doing the right thing. Well done.

haha...

Thanks...My father has never been around, so it's been a learning experience to say the least.

 

[digimon7068]

seriously...if your man enough to have sex and don't use protection..then be man enough to take care of your child.


I got my wife pregnant when she was 16...I did what any real man would do. I took care of her and my son, and still do to this day.

It wasn't planned, but it still happened and just sped up the process a little bit. I busted my ass to give them everything I possibly could, and still made the time to make sure i was there for them phsically and emotionally.

I sold all my toys, (cars, motorcycle, etc) and did what I had to do to make everything right.

My wife is now 19...I bought us a house when she was 17, and we lived there for about a year. It was a nice house, but kinda small (1300 sq ft).

I sold it and had a brand new house built. Its 3000 sq. ft, and has everything my wife wanted. Why...because she deserves it!

Moral of the story...take care of what's yours!

unfortunately, you're not going to get any pats on the back or any "atta-boys" for doing the right thing. . .but. . .i'm guessing that you (like me) don't really need any. . .i'm rewarded everyday in ways that those other people would never understand. . .

in this selfish "me, me, me" world that we live in "doing the right thing" is becoming very uncommon. . .thank God there's still some of us left. . .

 

[miplank]

unfortunately, you're not going to get any pats on the back or any "atta-boys" for doing the right thing. . .but. . .i'm guessing that you (like me) don't really need any. . .i'm rewarded everyday in ways that those other people would never understand. . .

in this selfish "me, me, me" world that we live in "doing the right thing" is becoming very uncommon. . .thank God there's still some of us left. . .

yeah..I don't need any "atta-boys"...


Being able to provide the things I can for my wife and son are far more rewarding than anything else. The fact that i've beaten the odds that were stacked up against us (for being so young) and knowing that i've done the right thing is all I need.

Matter of fact..

My birthday was this past sunday...I told my wife I wanted nothing for it, just quality time with her...then I actually ended up buying her stuff on my birthday.

I know I spoil her, but damn...she's been through a lot at such a young age, takes care of me and my son, the house. She deserves far more than I can give her, but damn I try.

 

[digimon7068]

yeah..I don't need any "atta-boys"...


Being able to provide the things I can for my wife and son are far more rewarding than anything else. The fact that i've beaten the odds that were stacked up against us (for being so young) and knowing that i've done the right thing is all I need.

Matter of fact..

My birthday was this past sunday...I told my wife I wanted nothing for it, just quality time with her...then I actually ended up buying her stuff on my birthday.

I know I spoil her, but damn...she's been through a lot at such a young age, takes care of me and my son, the house. She deserves far more than I can give her, but damn I try.

atta-boy!






















i'll give you one.