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Strongbow

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About how I abuse the fuck out of relationships. I don't know how to stop this shit. I pour my heart and soul into a women and when I have her hooked I just stop giving a fuck. Im seriously feeling like shit. I wreck the fuck out of good women and I wanna stop this shit. Does therapy help? I've been to them before to help cope with the mental aspects of what I use to do but it was mandatory and I always told them to go fuck themselves. How do you walk into an office sit down and say Im a psychotic piece of shit help me out doc? I know a lot of you weak minded mutha fuckers have therapist. Do they help you guys?
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How old are you? I had the same problem all my life. If a girl made it to a year, she was lucky. I got bored all the time....

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You can't cure the sickness
 
I am actually a very good therapist to a lot of guy friends. It seems to help them. It can be hard for me at times. But I know how to deal
 
SB there is obviously an underlying reason why you get into this pattern. Yes therapy can help.

Serious question, what was your childhood like?
 
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maybe it's guilt that you feel after you blow your load and realize how much of an asshole you're to your wife and kids by acting like a child and cheating on them, just sayin
 
smurf2 said:
SB there is obviously an underlying reason why you get into this pattern. Yes therapy can help.

Serious question, what was your childhood like?
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I knew even after all the shit I give you, you would be real with me and helpful with this. I was raised by a Marine Colonel. I was taught to compete at all costs, show no fear, no mercy and that feelings were for women and homosexuals. Good was never enough. I rushed for 340 yards in a highschool game one time, had 5 touchdowns and fumbled once on a busted play and the only thing that was talked about was that fumble. I loved my father and he loved me, but I was raised in his image, to be like him in his strong points, and to be strong in his weak points. When he died, I lost my guidance. But my childhood was all about being perfect in every aspect of what I did, and to not let my emotions get in the way of things. No crying, no complaining, no sympathy. His favorite saying was if you are looking for sympathy, you can find it in the ditionary between shit and syphillis. I still lol when I think about that.
 
I don't know strongbow at all. But he came on this bored, asked a question and wanted some help. A couple members did give mature answers. BUT half the other members are being childish and trying to start a fight on the internet. Is that how we help and treat people on here? If someone on here has a problem with a member, maybe you should send him a message. Because acting tough on a forum, makes you look weak and sad. Imo

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ppgfreak said:
I don't know strongbow at all. But he came on this bored, asked a question and wanted some help. A couple members did give mature answers. BUT half the other members are being childish and trying to start a fight on the internet. Is that how we help and treat people on here? If someone on here has a problem with a member, maybe you should send him a message. Because acting tough on a forum, makes you look weak and sad. Imo

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Dude honestly, I have asked for all the shit I get here, but you will find that some people are so pathetic that the only joy they find is calling bullshit on others. It's ok thou bro, lots of good peeps here who will give me an honest opinon
 
If you realize you have the problem it's up to you to change. I don't think seeing a therapist would help with this. Just have alot of will power and when you realize your fucking a girl over just stop
 
Strongbow said:
About how I abuse the fuck out of relationships. I don't know how to stop this shit. I pour my heart and soul into a women and when I have her hooked I just stop giving a fuck. Im seriously feeling like shit. I wreck the fuck out of good women and I wanna stop this shit. Does therapy help? I've been to them before to help cope with the mental aspects of what I use to do but it was mandatory and I always told them to go fuck themselves. How do you walk into an office sit down and say Im a psychotic piece of shit help me out doc? I know a lot of you weak minded mutha fuckers have therapist. Do they help you guys?
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Therapists can help tremendously with people who have "relationship" issues...if you're willing to work at it and scrutinize yourself. For example, I was once a very violent person. I grew up in the Barrio as the only white kid and had to become "street smart" very quickly. I walked around with an "attitude" like nobody's business. I then became a white collar professional...and I still had this "attitude". One day I almost got fired because I got pissed at another engineer and told him that I was going to beat his ass. Not really acceptable behavior of a professional. It was then that I realized that I had issues in how I "interact" with others. I sought help and went on a weekly basis to a therapist that helped me look at myself and how I handled relationships. I went for a good year, but it helped tremendously...but only because I wanted to be "the good person" that I had to bury for all those years in order to survive. HTH
 
AFeedz said:
If you can recognize a problem in yourself, you're not too far gone.
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You know when every women you're around spends most of their time crying, it's pretty easy to see what the problem is. It's like I need confirmation that they love me and then I'm on my way looking for the next one to love me. I don't understand cause I was very loved as a child by my mother, and my father in his on special way, but I understood his way.
 
Evan Tipps said:
If you realize you have the problem it's up to you to change. I don't think seeing a therapist would help with this. Just have alot of will power and when you realize your fucking a girl over just stop
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have you ever been to therapy? why do you think a therapist cant help him?
 
Strongbow said:
You know when every women you're around spends most of their time crying, it's pretty easy to see what the problem is. It's like I need confirmation that they love me and then I'm on my way looking for the next one to love me. I don't understand cause I was very loved as a child by my mother, and my father in his on special way, but I understood his way.
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Doesn't matter. There are people that are so far gone, so detached from feelings or reality that they can't see what they're doing, no matter how obvious the pain they cause.

Like I said, I think you're fine if you see the problem and care to fix it, not to say fixing it would be easy. But it's not as of there's no hope for you.
 
It might sound stupid, but what kind of chick are you always going for? If you find ones that are already full of issue then add your own nothing good will happen.

If you find a level headed chick (good luck with that) then actually be honest. As in I will get you to love me then drop you because I get bored and the challenge is over, some will run some will take it as a challenge.

It sounds like your just in for the chase dude. No challenge, no fun, next.
 
Sounds cliche but it all sounds like low self esteem. You need the self validation that youre "the man" after hooking a woman, then its on to the next one because you have to keep stroking that fragile ego with woman after woman after woman. Also the non stop juicing= low self esteem as well. Obtaining that body all ties into hooking the women also. Same with all the blustering hot air you spew on the internet with the fake pics. All linked to low fragile self esteem and the need for self validation.
 
jayzapper said:
It might sound stupid, but what kind of chick are you always going for? If you find ones that are already full of issue then add your own nothing good will happen.

If you find a level headed chick (good luck with that) then actually be honest. As in I will get you to love me then drop you because I get bored and the challenge is over, some will run some will take it as a challenge.

It sounds like your just in for the chase dude. No challenge, no fun, next.
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Who the fuck do you think you are giving advice
 
smurf2 said:
SB there is obviously an underlying reason why you get into this pattern. Yes therapy can help.

Serious question, what was your childhood like?
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Yes.

SB please...get into therapy and work through those things. Don't go do the self help route...you want to work through things in a place with a therapist trained to help you deal with some upsetting emotions, you may not even remember without someone guiding you through and talking with you.

A lifetime of unstable relationships are not a good sign. Temporary unstable relationships happen to anyone but if what you've said here is the truth then its a lifetime SB. You could be Borderline personality or it could be PTSD. It does not matter if it has a label, but wouldn't you like to be able to understand yourself a little better and stop making bad choices? Don't you want a healthy relationship?
 
SB I decided to go into therapy when I was driving around aimlessly crying and I was disassociated a lot where I couldn't remember how I got places. I made a phone call and went in. It was that easy.

I think he does need therapy. I've heard him talk about things that bother me...I don't care if he was faking, its not normal to even pretend or joke about some of the things he's said/done. Plus the unstable relationships...I think he needs extra help on this one.
 
cindylou said:
SB I decided to go into therapy when I was driving around aimlessly crying and I was disassociated a lot where I couldn't remember how I got places. I made a phone call and went in. It was that easy.

I think he does need therapy. I've heard him talk about things that bother me...I don't care if he was faking, its not normal to even pretend or joke about some of the things he's said/done. Plus the unstable relationships...I think he needs extra help on this one.
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Boo Hoo
 
cindylou said:
SB I decided to go into therapy when I was driving around aimlessly crying and I was disassociated a lot where I couldn't remember how I got places. I made a phone call and went in. It was that easy.

I think he does need therapy. I've heard him talk about things that bother me...I don't care if he was faking, its not normal to even pretend or joke about some of the things he's said/done. Plus the unstable relationships...I think he needs extra help on this one.
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One percenters arent allowed to drive around aimlessly crying.
 
simply dave said:
Therapists can help tremendously with people who have "relationship" issues...if you're willing to work at it and scrutinize yourself. For example, I was once a very violent person. I grew up in the Barrio as the only white kid and had to become "street smart" very quickly. I walked around with an "attitude" like nobody's business. I then became a white collar professional...and I still had this "attitude". One day I almost got fired because I got pissed at another engineer and told him that I was going to beat his ass. Not really acceptable behavior of a professional. It was then that I realized that I had issues in how I "interact" with others. I sought help and went on a weekly basis to a therapist that helped me look at myself and how I handled relationships. I went for a good year, but it helped tremendously...but only because I wanted to be "the good person" that I had to bury for all those years in order to survive. HTH
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I liked you better when you was a street thug. Just Saying
 
Cindy, Feedz and Smurf thanks for the input. I honestly do want a relationship that works. I cant talk to women in a non sexual sense. I can't be honest about my feelings. It's like I went in this constant protective state of mind, I am trained to react, no emotion, no regret, and steer clear of situations that involve emotional attachment. It's like you see a bunch of dead kids, you ignore it cause it makes you weak and consumes your thoughts and you have no room for anything but acheiving the mark. I brought this shit back with me and I view everybody in my life as an obstacle to avoid, but there is really not a mark or a misson here to achieve. I understand things like this but my mind doesn't work like a normal every day persons. My mind doesn't even work like an average military persons mind, this is why I was able to do what I done, it's a fucked up state of being that not everyone can get to. Thats why there I was special, here I'm just a fucked up guy looking for the one person to love me past what I am. I don't know sometimes I think I'm just an asshole cause I have a half ass excuse to be one. regardless I don;t wanna hurt the people in my life anymore. I've all but stopped joosing and I'm serious about changing before it's too late.
 
I also bought me another 4door white z71 and a new F150 sitting on 20's. My whips ease my pain and Lil Beezy likes picking which whip to drive . I've pretty much put my heart and soul into my kids, they are the things that never get old to me. I enjoy watching them achieve their goals and become talented humble young adults. They have every aspect of their father that is good, and not one aspect of what is bad. I am thankful for that.
 
needtogetaas said:
I thought it did too damn it
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Glad to see you're here watching me break down emotionally while I'm not joosed to the gills. You got any Beastdrol I can have?
 
This event will forever be known as the fall of strong bow

Elders will talk about this for many generations to come
 
bigbassturd said:
This event will forever be known as the fall of strong bow

Elders will talk about this for many generations to come
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I am not about to become warm and cuddley or let my bench fall under 500 pounds, so don't get this too twisted.
 
God damn it can'y I just wanna be a better person, without being a poosie>
 
Strongbow said:
...I just wanna be a better person, without being a poosie>
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And therein lies the rub...You firmly believe that if one is a "good person", then one is a pussy. If you are to succeed, then for starters I'd suggest shitcanning the dogmatic belief that has been drilled into your brain for all those years.
 
simply dave said:
And therein lies the rub...You firmly believe that if one is a "good person", then one is a pussy. If you are to succeed, then for starters I'd suggest shitcanning the dogmatic belief that has been drilled into your brain for all those years.
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Dude who the fuck are you really? And why am I willing to listen to you? You bother me, yet I want to hear what you have to say.
 
He's funny looking lil fucker too, with his bald head and big ass ears, but I sense something in him, like I've seen him before. It's like I am Skywalker and he is master Yoda. He actually looks like the Jedi master Yodi. I feel the force around him.
 
bigbassturd said:
Simply dave said shitcanning

Lololololol

And I think he called you a poosie SB
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I hope he didn't call me a poosie, cause growing up fighting a buncha negros has not prepared him for the ass whooping I will apply firmly to his ass.
 
WoodyO said:
You need to embrace who you are and just go with it.
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I'm a Recon Marine bro, i can't just go around killing people cause its who I am. Or can I?
 
I want Master Yoda to speak more on this.
 
Strongbow said:
Dude who the fuck are you really?
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I'm "simply" an old guy that has been around the block many more times than some of you young folks. My demeanor gives testimony to the many years I've helped people out of bad situations (I've taken in about 18 teenagers in trouble with the law or from bad homes to help them and "show them" what a good family is all about).

I tend to not offer advice unless it is on a topic where I truly have "walked the walk". I may not have relationship issues with women such as you do, but I did have my fair share of relationship issues in my late teens and twenties. It was pretty bad and all someone had to do was to look at me sideways and I'd be on them. I needed help before I ended up dead or in jail.

So who am I? Just an old guy willing to share some of my experience.
 
So is Simple Dave Jerry Sandusky?
 
simply dave said:
I'm "simply" an old guy that has been around the block many more times than some of you young folks. My demeanor gives testimony to the many years I've helped people out of bad situations (I've taken in about 18 teenagers in trouble with the law or from bad homes to help them and "show them" what a good family is all about).

I tend to not offer advice unless it is on a topic where I truly have "walked the walk". I may not have relationship issues with women such as you do, but I did have my fair share of relationship issues in my late teens and twenties. It was pretty bad and all someone had to do was to look at me sideways and I'd be on them. I needed help before I ended up dead or in jail.

So who am I? Just an old guy willing to share some of my experience.
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PM me your phone number I wanna talk to you
 
simply dave said:
Done...Gotta run to interview a candidate right now though. BBIAB
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Ill holla tomorrow bro thanks

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Strongbow said:
Ill holla tomorrow bro thanks

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Ima go to town right now and shove old people off the sidewalk into on coming traffic. Gotta get my rep back up round here

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WoodyO said:
Throw some sweet tea in peoples faces.
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I want to kill someone not give them a refreshing treat

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bigbassturd said:
Fuck. Woot let's meet and fight for fun. Winner buys drinks/provides hide rows
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I love this bass turd guy

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Evan Tipps said:
Nah. I just feel like a therapist wouldn't help him. Seems like this is something he needs to do
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So you're pretty much saying you're making an unedicated guess at what may or may not be good for a stranger online, someone needs help and you tell them not to get it because it "seems" like something he has to do... nice life.

SB, try looking for a behavior therapist or a cognitive therapist, the issue is in your thought process and the association and meaning you give o woman, love and relationships, gotta start by working on those, let me know if I can be of assistance.
 
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nangiggles said:
So you're pretty much saying you're making an unedicated guess at what may or may not be good for a stranger online, someone needs help and you tell them not to get it because it "seems" like something he has to do... nice life.

SB, try looking for a behavior therapist or a cognitive therapist, the issue is in your thought process and the association and meaning you give o woman, love and relationships, gotta start by working on those, let me know if I can be of assistance.
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Nan stop picking on a 16 year old.

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sounds like mommy issues.. you a trick baby or what???

jk.. not really, the issue is you are young and you are under the assumption that unless you are in a relationship with a woman you have no value.. once you get the woman you become dis satisfied..

get a vasectomy and whore away your life, then when you are 42 or so you will be settled enough and able to find a woman that is worthy of you and you will be happy..

or gay either way you will be out of the gene pool so it's a win win..
 
SpyWizard said:
sounds like mommy issues.. you a trick baby or what???

jk.. not really, the issue is you are young and you are under the assumption that unless you are in a relationship with a woman you have no value.. once you get the woman you become dis satisfied..

get a vasectomy and whore away your life, then when you are 42 or so you will be settled enough and able to find a woman that is worthy of you and you will be happy..

or gay either way you will be out of the gene pool so it's a win win..
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I thought we was boys. Man ill buss a cap in yo ass

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rollergirl2 said:
I am actually a very good therapist to a lot of guy friends. It seems to help them. It can be hard for me at times. But I know how to deal
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sex therapy? SB might be interested.
 
Dont listen to all the Freuds up in here trying to diagnose you without knowing your personal, medical and family history bro, look for a therapist who's experienced and trained to help you

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nangiggles said:
So you're pretty much saying you're making an unedicated guess at what may or may not be good for a stranger online, someone needs help and you tell them not to get it because it "seems" like something he has to do... nice life.

SB, try looking for a behavior therapist or a cognitive therapist, the issue is in your thought process and the association and meaning you give o woman, love and relationships, gotta start by working on those, let me know if I can be of assistance.
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Nice life? Lolol. I was just giving my 2 cents shut the hell up
 
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