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EarthRider
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I am no longer dating someone, but keep bugging them and creating posts about them after they ask me to leave them alone?
no i'm not talking about java
no i'm not talking about java
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EarthRider
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and you have never asked me to leave you alone 
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would you like to expand that, and tell us your opinion of how that would make you feel, if you were in the persons shoes that i am stalking
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EarthRider
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lol, i'd jump off a bridge if that were me
I am no longer dating someone, but keep bugging them and creating posts about them after they ask me to leave them alone?
no i'm not talking about java
It wouldnt just be creepy but flat out embarrasing, if I ever saw u do that Id tell you to get your shit together and stop being so pathetic because it's very disturbing and uncomfortable.
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EarthRider
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dont you think it would be bant worthy if i kept fucking with that said person
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wtf, this thread isn't about me it's about someone else
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wtf, this thread isn't about me it's about someone else
whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat? All this time I thought we were talking about "you"
I've been duped again
I really do fail at the internet. If anyone ever did, it is me. For sure.
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EarthRider
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it's ok cindy, you're still hot
lol thanks. Its all I got so I guess I'll have to keep the barn door painted
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EarthRider
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and stop chasing internet dudes
and stop chasing internet dudes
This^ and stop being a snooty bish too
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are you sure you don't have led in your pants
seemed kinda protective
seemed kinda protective
I haven't had any coffee yet and read this thread and thought...hmmm...I wonder what's going on? but then I scrolled down and figured it out.
I'm in for the yes it's creepy vote!
I'm in for the yes it's creepy vote!
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EarthRider
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he was drunk
when is he not? cant watch 10+ min videos about useless information without a little booze inside yourself..
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lartinos
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That nicka is drunked
In for banning Java!
Uhh I mean ER, cause this is about him right?
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EarthRider
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java is bant woohoo
Lololol
youpissmeoff
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I know, let's talk about how you would all feel if you had some very private and embarrassing things about you that were shared with everyone else and they all started posting that personal shit that you never shared in every thread in C&C. Would that be bant worthy? Let's see...Rule #2...sharing personal information...yeah, that's a BIG ONE. But that person is still here and you all love that person. I should just ban them both.
and he takes it in stride every time. He handles it about as well as I've ever seen anyone here handle much lesser things being said about them.
You know what? I've never even seen a reported post by him about any of it. Come to think of it, he's never sent me a PM complaining either. Nor has he ever publicly called for a banning of anyone that I recall.
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yeah, i didn't think it was right that cindy has asked java to stop messing with her and he kept at it. i don't think what i have said is bannable, what have i done.
What about her sharing his name and mugshots and alleged arrest report? Is that ban worthy? (the correct answer is "yes" and she's god damn fucking lucky she is still here at all and personally for what she did I think she's getting what's coming to her).
And what you are doing is questioning the way the mods are running the forum, when you don't know fuck all about a god damn bit of it. So I suggest (again) that you kindly shut the fuck up.
And what you are doing is questioning the way the mods are running the forum, when you don't know fuck all about a god damn bit of it. So I suggest (again) that you kindly shut the fuck up.
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after this i'm done
i never once said you guys aren't doing your job. where have i ever said you guys aren't doing what you're suppose to be. qt even told java to stop like a few days ago and he didn't. she even warned him,why would i think that he isn't riding the fence bro.
good point about cindy, she shouldn't have done that. I agree. after all that, she did ask him to just leave her alone.
i never once said you guys aren't doing your job. where have i ever said you guys aren't doing what you're suppose to be. qt even told java to stop like a few days ago and he didn't. she even warned him,why would i think that he isn't riding the fence bro.
good point about cindy, she shouldn't have done that. I agree. after all that, she did ask him to just leave her alone.
I can throw out some suggestions...
I can let java say whatever the fuck he wants about cindy and not do a thing.
I can ban cindy and that way she won't have to worry about it and java will stfu about her anyway.
I can ban anyone who talks about personal info that was shared again.
I can ban people for making threads trying to thinly veil their displeasure with how the forums are being run.
I can just ban ER.
I can tell needto that I'm done modding chat and he and BRR will just shut C&C off and wipe it away from the board like they wanted to do before. Or they might keep it and impose the same rules as the rest of the board and let the AAS mods run the place - either way would suck for most of you.
I can let java say whatever the fuck he wants about cindy and not do a thing.
I can ban cindy and that way she won't have to worry about it and java will stfu about her anyway.
I can ban anyone who talks about personal info that was shared again.
I can ban people for making threads trying to thinly veil their displeasure with how the forums are being run.
I can just ban ER.
I can tell needto that I'm done modding chat and he and BRR will just shut C&C off and wipe it away from the board like they wanted to do before. Or they might keep it and impose the same rules as the rest of the board and let the AAS mods run the place - either way would suck for most of you.
This very thread. You are questioning the way the mods are running the forum. You have it in your mind that java should be banned and you just can't imagine why he isn't. You created this thread to express your displeasure with staff decisions.
I know exactly how it feels. HE had it coming when he posted what he did about me, personal, private, EMBARRASSING and SHAMEFUL things about me on the open FORUM that I didn't even DO; I was an innocent victim, that a family member read.
He had it coming and it felt damn good to do it.
We are even.
He had it coming and it felt damn good to do it.
We are even.
I vote for ER to be bant lololol
he said something about cindy, then cindy said something about him, let's assume that they are even, after that all she requested was that he left her alone and yet he makes threads with her actual name on it and telling people cindy doesnt understand him, she stopped talking about him, he hasnt stopped about her, I'm not questioning how mods do their job and if they decide to keep java around I respect that, but as ER mentioned QT told him to knock it off and he keeps going at it.
EarthRider what you are doing is inflaming a situation that we have been trying to put the flames out on. Every time anyone makes a comment about it they are making the situation far worse. Just let all of this shit die out. There is not enough hours in the goddam day to edit each person’s post that are directed at him about choking a bitch out.
Some of you people can be so goddam ungrateful it makes me sick. You have no idea the work that the mods do behind the scenes trying to iron out shit between supposed grownups.
Some of you people can be so goddam ungrateful it makes me sick. You have no idea the work that the mods do behind the scenes trying to iron out shit between supposed grownups.
What I don't get is why the people that saw it didn't PM me give me a heads up rather than starting something like this thread.
There was one reported post by no one that posted in this thread or the other one. I missed it but if people really feel that strongly about these things why not report the post and/or PM a mod.
Oh and just an FYI mods can see and read all deleted posts.
There was one reported post by no one that posted in this thread or the other one. I missed it but if people really feel that strongly about these things why not report the post and/or PM a mod.
Oh and just an FYI mods can see and read all deleted posts.
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I did not know you guys were doing that and I do not want to add more stuff for you guys to do so I'll knock it off and refrain from quoting those who post about it.
bigpokey
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fuk ur dumb nan i wish java would choke the fuk out of u, they obviously don't do that cause there's no way they could...
I'm going to choke something right now
Well your LOL's brought to light the fact that I was wrong and CEO was right. I don’t mind being wrong just makes you learn from your mistakes.
Where you been nan? This has been going on between them for about a year and a half.
Maybe you only see her side because you're female and you can empathize, but it's been back and forth for a long time now. She says stop then she says something to or about him. Then he says something back, then she says something, then he says...then she says stop. Then she says something about him, then him, then her, then "stop". Then repeat. For a year and a half.
What about posting in this little "teehee, undercover, we're not really talking about java" thread? Does that not count as her talking about him?
Whatever you want to do CEO.
Look, that guy is a total fraud and I exposed him. If you think I should be banned, or that I deserve what's coming to me and has come to me maybe I should be banned I suppose.
I am trying to help smother the fire by ignoring him. I will continue to ignore him if you want me to stay, right now I'm not sure if I want to be here, I have no clue how you could sympathize with him CEO. I know you have to be fair, but I don't understand. I've asked him twice to leave me alone; he never does it, at least I TRY. He will never do it. I don't report posts because I get the vibe from mods that I deserve his harassment, I deserved the past year of ongoing harassment from him because I simply respond to defend myself. So I stopped responding. I was told to stop reporting posts by a mod...I can't win. I deserve what I'm getting, right? What's the point.
I asked ER to delete the entire thread, at the very least asked him to delete specific posts because I knew this wasn't something we should have been posting about.
I've had myself banned so I wouldn't respond to him in the past.
I don't know cause when you search threads it wont search deleted posts and I don't have enough time to read every thread on C&C.
youpissmeoff
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We can't lose Cindy. She is a lady and we need as many of those as we can get around here.
Java needs to stay as well and they both just need to ignore each other. Cindy, there is no reason to respond to Java to leave you alone. Enough people here have you covered in that regard.
Java needs to stay as well and they both just need to ignore each other. Cindy, there is no reason to respond to Java to leave you alone. Enough people here have you covered in that regard.
You don't think these made things worse at all?
ran into some legal trouble.... any law specialists here? - Page 2
I hope you s are happy - Page 62
The Book of ekiel - Page 5
Is bullying that bad? - Page 17
Did you go and read those? Did you look at the dates? The first one was deleted quickly right away when better judgement prevailed. All of them are old, over a month old.
He has made multiple threads about me, followed me and quotes my posts trying to bait me, posts in threads I make and I have ignored them and have not responded.
In the past two weeks he has made four threads about me, one that sorta implied that we might still be communicating (weird) quoted two of my posts, and posted twice in a thread I made, posted once about me in a thread I didn't make saying I was off my meds after I asked him to leave me alone the second time on April 15th.
Ok so the rule is he can talk about you if he's quoting people? Or if he deletes his posts about you soon after he posts them?
Even my deleted post was over a month old QT. All of those are old.
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sticky???
Yes and you said it was 6 weeks it was not.
I told you I would try to handle things why didn't you PM me or report the post if you knew about the 2nd thread the next night?
You can't have it both ways you want help or you don't. If you want help then don't encourge the situation to be inflammed.
So is your fucking alter life
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pwned
Okay, so it's been at least four weeks then since I ever so much as lol'd at anything anyone said about him.
I am trying to get it to stop and I'm sorry for the trouble I caused. If I leave I know it will stop and maybe thats what I should do. I don't report posts because I get the vibe that means I'm being a huge pain in the ass. Javaguru, with all the posts and threads he made about me is good to go because he never reports posts, and I'm a huge pain in the ass because I have. If I, in a moment of weakness break down and respond or lol at something (even if I delete it right away) that's a sign that I'm free game even though I'm the only one making an effort between the two of us. At least I'm trying. I even asked ER to delete this thread yesterday.
then let's all agree for changes to start happening as of now, cindy is doing better, hasnt posted about him in about a month, lets just give this thing some time, she stops talking about him and he stops talking about her and we all try to simmer down and not talk about bishes being choked.
Mods must take into consideration some of us push Cindy to talk about java when we poke fun of the situation, so it's not just them talking about each other, other people arent helping, as I said I'll try to stop it on my end.
Mods must take into consideration some of us push Cindy to talk about java when we poke fun of the situation, so it's not just them talking about each other, other people arent helping, as I said I'll try to stop it on my end.
the deleted posts in this thread aren't.
What about all the posts where you don't mention his name, but it's clear that you are referring to him by what you're saying?
Those are what stand out the most to me TBH, because I seem to see them fairly often. I'm not about to go search through your posts right now because I am busy, but I've followed along closely enough for the last year and a half to know it when I see it.
Others here catch it too, only it just makes them continue to drag things on as well. Then you're not really the one perpetuating things, at least not directly, really...maybe...sort of.
I like you cindy. I really do. I'm sure you're not liking me much at all right now, and I'm sorry for that. But we've been through this before at least a couple times. I'm not saying anything new to you, but I am saying it in front of everyone this time.
If I can see a true pattern from you of not responding to him or talking about him or referring to him in some sort of passive way, then I will consider that you are sincerely trying to ignore him and get him to leave you alone too by not providing any fodder for him.
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so this means java is coming back huh
bigpokey
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how bout people not give a fuck bout wtf some retard says about them on a fukn joos board, like about as much fuk i give about these fukn horrible retarded posts of yours.. like about the same fuk i would give if a down syndrome kid was tryin to teach me fukn calculus...
lolol @ everyone agreein to not talk about chokin a bish ahahahha nan like 14 out of 8 of your posts are worthy of you gettin the brain matter choked out your fuckin ears
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lmao omg
i do feel nan should lose her privledge to hit the "New Thread" button
i do feel nan should lose her privledge to hit the "New Thread" button
lately your posts towards women in general have been more than offensive(towardsme, blueta, cindy, just V and others), I dont now if you're kidding or not but I am starting to seriously not like it regardless of it's nature. I may not be a cry baby that reports your posts but Ill be fucking damned if you keep talking to me like this and I dont say dick.
youpissmeoff
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you don't know dick
No, not really because even though I know you have to be fair to everyone I will never understand how you would think that I would deserve anything from him, I didn't deserve ANY of the things he said to and about me in the past year up until I posted that police report. According to you, I did. To you tit for tat means calling someone vapid off the form means they can expose sexual abuse. To not return a phone call right away means they can post my job. To side up with Mitch on an issue means he gets to post vulgar things about my breasts. I don't deserve that, I don't care what you think I deserve, I don't deserve that. Nope. He's called me crazy, said I was abusive, said I was an alcoholic, called me a snake, made posts about family members, thew everything at me and the kitchen sink all before I posted that report. Funny how what he said I was, he was. But whatever...it wouldn't have been so confusing if I knew he was an abuser.
I think he's dangerous, I truly believe that he is, I am not the first person he manipulated to meet him off of the forum w/o telling them the truth about himself. Your perception of what I'm doing and what happened is totally bizarre to me. My couple of lol's here and there and whatever I'm implying in my posts when I'm supposed to be referring to him are tit for tat? He makes threads about me and posts in my threads and quotes posts trying to bait me calling me needy etc. He posted twice in my ledhead thread, he has not left me alone, doesn't matter if he does but I have been ignoring him just fine so he can say what he wants whatever, that's fine but I did not deserve bad treatment from him. Nope. I lost it when he told Lambruh to kill himself, I messed up there and I was wrong but he had it coming. He deserved it. He lied to you all for almost 10 years.
If you ask me, I deserve a medal for holding back over the past year.
He is so beneath me that I couldn't care less what he said about me now. What I would actually like is for him to never come back here ever again. Since it appears that is not what everyone else here wants, then there isn't anything I can do about it, I either leave or ignore him. Well, I've been ignoring him except the minor slipup here and there for over a month; I'll consider both options. If I stay I'll ignore him. I always held hope that he would leave on his own out of embarrassment or be perma banned. That's not going to happen, but I will always think he is dangerous, even if I'm the only one that believes it.
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I do now...
I knew this wouldn't go well. Yes, I am so smitten by java that I'm blind.
You two have been going at each other for over a year and it has been pretty nasty at times on both parts. I don't know why there are still apparently feelings there, but there must be in order for it to be like this.
I do try to be fair. Unfortunately that means when I have to judge I am sometimes hated by both parties for at least a period of time. Like I've said, modding here is not an easy job. Anyone want to apply?
You two have been going at each other for over a year and it has been pretty nasty at times on both parts. I don't know why there are still apparently feelings there, but there must be in order for it to be like this.
I do try to be fair. Unfortunately that means when I have to judge I am sometimes hated by both parties for at least a period of time. Like I've said, modding here is not an easy job. Anyone want to apply?
I do not have feelings for him unless you just count disgust since that's a feeling but its pretty much apathy at this point, and I do not hate you. I just don't understand how you could say I deserved that, or how you could say that I was still responding to him as some sort of justification to allow him to continue to be weird.
The threads with him posting the weird vids and continuing to try and get my attention is creepy. The Mark Ruffalo thread was disturbing, and the Battlestar threads...you die for the one? What the fvck? That's not creepy? I have moved on, I want him to do the same. Its been long enough.
The threads with him posting the weird vids and continuing to try and get my attention is creepy. The Mark Ruffalo thread was disturbing, and the Battlestar threads...you die for the one? What the fvck? That's not creepy? I have moved on, I want him to do the same. Its been long enough.
I once tried it when Spart was getting on my nerves with his rambles, it hides the post content but not the poster it self, so you can see their thread titles and you can see them posting in your threads but not the post itself, which actually made me curious, lol I suck
I once tried it when Spart was getting on my nerves with his rambles, it hides the post content but not the poster it self, so you can see their thread titles and you can see them posting in your threads but not the post itself, which actually made me curious, lol I suck
Oh ok, i never really have used it or had to....this is getting out of hand...if this keeps on going on the outcome is going to be very bad
yeah I know
I dont want to see bantings
you should take her out for a viper and a mustache ride, I know I'd feel better after that 
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I said you deserved what you got for passing around his mugshots and arrest record(s). But then he posted some personal and very private stuff about you too.
The difference is one garners empathy and support on part of the victim (though still very embarrassing), while the other garners hatred and resentment in others against the offender. And I honestly don't know the details about his arrest for assault (or whatever the charge(s) were). For all I know he could have turned around quickly while pointing a finger at someone who he thought was across the room and hit her accidentally, or maybe he tried to push her away in self defense and hit her, or maybe he just said, "fuck you bitch," and cold punched her in the face. I don't know. He plead out so I don't know if his account is available. I'm not defending him either, I'm simply saying I don't know the details enough to make a judgement. I do know the court made a judgement and handed him a sentence which he served, so I guess I don't need to judge him anyway. Given his past in the matter though, I wouldn't be comfortable letting him date my sister, let's say.
I don't read all those battlestar and other threads for the most part.
You held back on the forum but offline how would so many people know about how many mug shots he had? Seems to me when that came out a lot of people already knew about it. At least my K message would state that more people than I thought knew the mans full name to find them.
Has he lied to others on the forum yes. Manipulate them? If you are referring to me no I don't believe he manipulated me. I am not a victim I choose to meet him. If he was damaged that was my choice to meet him and I accept responsibility for the choices I make.
We did not have some messy drama but it wasn't a grand romance either. I slept next to him on multiple occasions lived to tell not once was I choked.
I am not saying the mans a saint but he's not the devil either. I have no idea what exactly went down in his past and I really don't care. It wasn't your place to share those details of his life period. You are not his judge and jury I believe he has already been through that, it's not your place to make sure he is rehabilitated.
I don't think it was right of him to share any details of your life either but you both seemed to fight dirty with each other.
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