So my wife officially left me yesterday

[Lumberg]

No, I screwed up there. When this first stated she saw a counselor alone for 2 visits, then decided she didn't like her counselor and wanted to find a new one. By the time I tried to get in on it, she said it was too late.

Thanks for the tip.

I've honestly thought about doing pre-counseling for the next person I get seriously involved with. Like before we get married. Have something in the bank strategy wise BEFORE any problems start happening. Or maybe identify incompatibilities that will be deal breakers.

 

[ceo]

you date enough crazy bitches and you'll know when you've found one that's not so crazy. Patterns emerge.

I won't say "not crazy" because they're all crazy ("bitches be crazy!"). Just find the least crazy one you can if you want a long term relationship/marriage/whatever.

 

[WoodyO]

Thanks for the tip.

I've honestly thought about doing pre-counseling for the next person I get seriously involved with. Like before we get married. Have something in the bank strategy wise BEFORE any problems start happening. Or maybe identify incompatibilities that will be deal breakers.

We actually had to do pre-marriage counseling as my wife was Catholic and I am not. The counseling basically said we were not compatible since I wasn't Catholic.

I took a several hundred question test, that I was given 4 hours to complete. It was supposed to be a test that I wasn't graded on, however I completed it in 30 minutes and failed it.

The priest spoke to me after the test and told me that the questions were in a specific pattern that were created by highly paid people and that nobody should be able to figure out the pattern. I remember saying something smart-ass like "no shit, no mathlete or statisticians have ever been married here?"

 

[bigpokey]

that fukn sux woodbro...shirls u better send this ngr noods to make him feel better immedjiately

 

[Strongbow]

Is that your wife in my AVI, if so Ima send the crazy bitch back to you today.

 

[EarthRider]

so when you say she wants to set things up like it was when you were dating, does that mean she wants to try to work things out?

 

[WoodyO]

so when you say she wants to set things up like it was when you were dating, does that mean she wants to try to work things out?

Yeah, but she doesn't want to come home yet. She looked into getting an apartment of her own, which would suck cause she'd need to lease it for a year. One of her sisters has a large home near me, and she offered a couple rooms too.

I also offered the house to her, but that would suck too as the only family I have is my mom and I can't live with her, so I'd need to lease something. My only other option would be to kick the renters out of my 1st house I had before I was married. It's a small 2 bedroom by the beach. It's paid for completely, so I wouldn't need to worry about 2 mortgages, but the renters are ideal and I'd lose the income I make off them each month.

 

[EarthRider]

i know rentals around here are really hot right now. you could kick them out. I am sure you would fill it back up quick

the year lease idea doesn't sound like a good idea. i can't imagine you guys needing that long apart.

 

[WoodyO]

The wife called and asked if she could take a shower at my house as a water main broke in San Marcos where she's staying.

She is bringing my step daughter over tonight so she can show me her prom dress.

So it looks like we are definitely not fighting over the kids right now.

 

[mrplunkey]

The wife called and asked if she could take a shower at my house as a water main broke in San Marcos where she's staying.

She is bringing my step daughter over tonight so she can show me her prom dress.

So it looks like we are definitely not fighting over the kids right now.

Promising signs!

Good luck.