So my wife officially left me yesterday

[theoak01]

fuck bro sorry to hear this,stay strong man,if you need an ear ill listen.

I couldnt even imagine not seeing my kid

 

[princeofsin]

Congrats bro you ARE FREE!!!

 

[Musclemama]

Sorry Woody that's very sad to hear . I know heartbreak all too well . It blows !!

 

[Lumberg]

That totally sucks. Did you guys not try counseling?

 

[caligirl85]

I'm sorry to hear that too Woody. I'm here if you need anything too. Hang in there!

 

[WoodyO]

That totally sucks. Did you guys not try counseling?

No, I screwed up there. When this first stated she saw a counselor alone for 2 visits, then decided she didn't like her counselor and wanted to find a new one. By the time I tried to get in on it, she said it was too late.

 

[WoodyO]

Congrats bro you ARE FREE!!!

I've been married seven years, lived with her for 9 and dated off and on for at least 4-5 years prior to her moving in with me. I don't even know what to do with my time anymore.

I screwed around the house, rearranging stuff until like 2am last night. When I realized how late it was, I layed in bed thinking until 6 am.

 

[SpyWizard]

yea.. umm.. you need to file for divorce before she does, if she has an attorney telling her to not let you have access to your kids it's him putting the wood to you..

and the person that files always has advantage in a court hearing..

sorry for your loss, but it will get better..

 

[SpyWizard]

and have the court order joint or your to have sole custody of the child..

and do it now...

 

[EarthRider]

sorry bro. hopefully she just needs some time away to clear her head. In a week see if you can chat with her again and work things out. It sounds like you don't want this, so tell her that and that you're willing to try to make things work.