So my wife officially left me yesterday

[RippedRetard]

Woody, I dont even know what to say. Your my fav EFer. Seriously bro, we're all here for you.

 

[wootoom]

Sorry to hear that brother

 

[obsessedwliftin]

Sorry to hear this Woody.

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[WoodyO]

She took the kids to Disneyland today and sent me pics and videos all day. She told me my step daughter was crying all day and she said she'd call me tonight.

Now i really don't know what to do.

 

[smurf2]

She took the kids to Disneyland today and sent me pics and videos all day. She told me my step daughter was crying all day and she said she'd call me tonight.

Now i really don't know what to do.

Follow your heart dude. You can fix whatever the problem is if youre both willing

 

[EarthRider]

try to make things work with her bro. tell her you're open to marriage counseling. You guys have had the worst thing imaginable to any parent, and you guys need each other to get through it. I pray you guys can work things out as I am sure it would be better for the two of you, and the kids

 

[wootoom]

She took the kids to Disneyland today and sent me pics and videos all day. She told me my step daughter was crying all day and she said she'd call me tonight.

Now i really don't know what to do.

How long has this been going on for dude? Sorry I haven't read the whole thread I've been busy today. Was this just out of the blue?

 

[Energy3]

Sorry to hear that and I don't know you! Tuff situation!

Depending on your history together you will most likely settle out of court if you both reach an agreement on custody. if you can't resolve it - then the matter will be put before a magistrate to make a ruling etc!

Focus on the kids mate and hope you can work it out to the best for both of you!

 

[WoodyO]

How long has this been going on for dude? Sorry I haven't read the whole thread I've been busy today. Was this just out of the blue?

Its been going on off and on for about six months. We got really bad around easter. It really goes back to november 28 2010, when our oldest kid killed himself. For about six months we supported each other, but we suddenly turned against each other, and our families got involved and made things worse.

 

[Energy3]

She took the kids to Disneyland today and sent me pics and videos all day. She told me my step daughter was crying all day and she said she'd call me tonight.

Now i really don't know what to do.

It's hard for anyone to say how things are going to progress but you have a long history together which is good and I'm sure she is still receptive to change! I think that from what I have read I feel that communication was the concern but isn't that the case for most relationship issues - difference of opinion unmet expectations.

Dig deep mate!