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I ustally don't give a fuck about what any of you faggots say but my boy is in trouble with his emotions and I'm not the one to handle affairs of the heart. Long story short dude has a pretty stable set up, wife, two kids, dogs, wtfever else. But him and his wife are shakey at best not a lot of knock down drag outs, but a pretty constant state of never seeing eye to eye on shit. Anyways it's tolerable at home if he makes it so, but not that spark people need in their lives to be whole, just a day to day going thru the motions type shit. Anyway there is a young gorgeous blonde that has been his friend for years now, meet her through work and the relationship kinda started off with her being stuck up and him being his cocky ass jooser self, he is a lot like me. So anyways the relationsip has grown from just a physical attraction and a comment here and there to a very strong friendship, to now they are in love. She's getting a divorce and he wants to as well, and she kinda told El Negro today to shit or get off the pot. Now what to do? He loves her and wants to be with her, but she kinda told him today that it was over till he got his shit together. They just returned from a trip together over the weekend, mind blowing sex and constant touching and kissing and he has never been with anybody that makes the ngr feel like that. Tell me what to tell my boy, cause IDK.
 
well it depends on him still having feelings for his wife or not, if things got better would he prefer to stay with her?
 
Sounds like a lot is going on. And maybe he sd take some time to think about what's best in the long run . Tell him to look at his life 5 yrs from now . New love is always great ! But is it worth losing what u have/had with the person u chose to spend your life with ?
 
"Your boy" should leave his wife if he's really that unhappy and there's no spark left at all and he truly feels he can't get it back. I couldn't live a life like that.

But your boy is also an idiot to think things are going to last with the blonde. There are people who cheat and people who don't. I'm sure he and the adulteress feel right now they're madly in love and always will be but that's not real life and I'm willin to bet when they're no longer sneaking around their spouse's backs and they give it 6 months to a year, they're going to be in normal love and it's going to be same ol same ol.

Then one of them is likely going to cheat. Not tomorrow, but eventually.

I could never be with someone who would cheat on a spouse because it's unacceptable in my book. Anybody who'd do that doesn't hold marriage in as high regard as I do. If you would cheat then you will cheat. Simple as that. Ew to your "friend" and this woman.
 
if he wants her... too bad his kids will pay the price for him being happy...

and no woman "tells/makes" me do anything...
 
You'd be better off with the wife. The new chick probably doesn't realize what a mess you are and won't put up with your broke down ass. She'll be gone as soon as you're off the juice and you're an emotional little bitch.
 
go on vacation with your wife without agenda or baggage and you'll probably have great sex with her too

men really only do think with their dicks huh
 
Also,

Sounds to me like you're creating problems with your wife to justify leaving her for some strange. What happens when you get tired of this new bish? You're going to live a life of regret cuz you through everything away for something "new"? I suggest you think this through ngr before you fully commit to making the decision. Though, seems you're halfway there since you already cheated on your wife and kids.
 
miplank said:
Also,

Sounds to me like you're creating problems with your wife to justify leaving her for some strange. What happens when you get tired of this new bish? You're going to live a life of regret cuz you through everything away for something "new"? I suggest you think this through ngr before you fully commit to making the decision. Though, seems you're halfway there since you already cheated on your wife and kids.
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Threw*
 
nangiggles said:
Threw*
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Fail.

miplank said:
Also,

Sounds to me like you're creating problems with your wife to justify leaving her for some strange. What happens when you get tired of this new bish? You're going to live a life of regret cuz you through everything away for something "new"? I suggest you think this through ngr before you fully commit to making the decision. Though, seems you're halfway there since you already cheated on your wife and kids.
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*threw
 
also, is it weird that when I look at your avatar I first see a guy that is about to smack a bish in the back of the head w/a baseball bat?
 
miplank said:
You're obv still pissed I got more atomic tabs than you...
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Tell your friend not to get tossed around just anywhere by "love". Tell him to anchor himself or the storms will carry his "heart" to dangerous places, because chasing after that spark will cause his whole family to burn.
 
cindylou said:
Tell your friend not to get tossed around just anywhere by "love". Tell him to anchor himself or the storms will carry his "heart" to dangerous places, and his whole family will burn.
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No man in the world is going to know WTF this even means.
 
Lol@friend! In layinbacks thread you said you were "almost single", what did you mean by this?
 
fuck that bull shit, you should tell your wife you cheated so she doesn't have to pick up those diseases you picked up from that other bitch, just sayin
 
I didn't do shit this is a buddy of mine no shit, and Pdadddt I'm always almost single bro Ima hard mutha fuckka to gelt long with and Plank I'm hurt you would think this is me.
 
good luck to you. i normally would agree with Afeeds, but there are exceptions and I'm living proof.

Just be very careful is all.

Also, go fuck yourself you stupid hick.
 
smurf2 said:
good luck to you. i normally would agree with Afeeds, but there are exceptions and I'm living proof.

Just be very careful is all.

Also, go fuck yourself you stupid hick.
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Is hat anyway to speak to the father of your child?
 
miplank said:
pretty sure it is you bro...


you still my boy tho
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I would hope so bro, but I'm very confused and I usually have all the answers and this time IDK what to tell my boy.
 
Your friend thinks he is going to walk away from a bad situation and start a new wonderful life with the blonde. It WILL NOT work like that.

You cannot go through a divorce after a long-term marraige; all the guilt of breaking a family apart; seeing everyone's tears and the backlash from the kids...and be the same person after it's over.

He may be better off divorced, but it isn't going to be the easy way out he's thinks it is. It's pain, pain, and more pain for everyone involved. And chances are he will get back together with the wife and try and work things out at least once. Where will that leave him with the blonde?

Whether or not he wants to end his marraige should have been decided before; independently of a new relationship. Now it's just a mess.
 
I'm at IHOP having country fried steak and eggs so fuck all y'all cracka lackas.

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but seriously, are you the person in question?

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Dial_tone said:
I'm at IHOP having country fried steak and eggs so fuck all y'all cracka lackas.

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no Cracker Barrel? Wut?
 
ceo said:
no Cracker Barrel? Wut?
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A brotha can't get service at Cracka Barrel...even if he's with the Secret Service.
 
AFeedz said:
"Your boy" should leave his wife if he's really that unhappy and there's no spark left at all and he truly feels he can't get it back. I couldn't live a life like that.

But your boy is also an idiot to think things are going to last with the blonde. There are people who cheat and people who don't. I'm sure he and the adulteress feel right now they're madly in love and always will be but that's not real life and I'm willin to bet when they're no longer sneaking around their spouse's backs and they give it 6 months to a year, they're going to be in normal love and it's going to be same ol same ol.

Then one of them is likely going to cheat. Not tomorrow, but eventually.

I could never be with someone who would cheat on a spouse because it's unacceptable in my book. Anybody who'd do that doesn't hold marriage in as high regard as I do. If you would cheat then you will cheat. Simple as that. Ew to your "friend" and this woman.
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^^^^ This multiplied by a trillion!

All this blonde is an escape to the life he thinks he wants. Once he has it, he will be jonesin for his wife back.
But we all need to fall to learn lessons.
You cannot tell him anything, you need to just watch it happen and support him.
 
My life sux
 
digimon7068 said:
i too am sleepy as fuck...but not homeless.
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I wish the blonde girl would hurry up and move her husband out, you know my friends girl, he says I can sleep there for a month or two.
 
nydj66 said:
Your friend thinks he is going to walk away from a bad situation and start a new wonderful life with the blonde. It WILL NOT work like that.

You cannot go through a divorce after a long-term marraige; all the guilt of breaking a family apart; seeing everyone's tears and the backlash from the kids...and be the same person after it's over.

He may be better off divorced, but it isn't going to be the easy way out he's thinks it is. It's pain, pain, and more pain for everyone involved. And chances are he will get back together with the wife and try and work things out at least once. Where will that leave him with the blonde?

Whether or not he wants to end his marraige should have been decided before; independently of a new relationship. Now it's just a mess.
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I have hope again in men after seeing a man wrote this!
Good reply!
 
blueta2 said:
Not much, we've had some stress, but it's all good.

Just wish more men would think like NYDJ66.
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NYDJ is a fucking homo
 
SB stop it. So what if you're "miserable" with no spark and no love? I would love to defiantly live miserable till the day I die with someone just to have one marriage. It's nonsense to think you're always going to be "happy" or have a spark. You made a deal, signed a contract and you have to follow through on your part, at least. Let her leave you if it needs to be that way. She will be the one with regrets, not you. Go see a therapist. If you've really been married as many times as you say you have you really should. :heart: I say that with love.
 
Doesn't matter who he "nails", he has the through process that I wish more people had.

I also like what Cindy said, SB if this is about you, figure out why you always need that high. I can assure you, you're not in love, but just needing some high. It's like any addiction, it's there to numb, avoid and not feel real life.
 
Cindy I can't stop it, it's what I do. My mind is fucked up, and my wife probably actually loves me for more than the fact that I'm muscular and take 2 hours to bust a nut, but I can't stop this downward spiral anymore. I wanna be alone when I die, it's my punishment for myself. I know none of you ngrs could ever understand me, but I will never stop till I completely destroy myself, it's my destiny, I'm ready to die, I can't explain it I just am. I have never known anyone like me.
 
Oh STOP THAT! Come on, you can get help and you can change. Maybe time to get into a group or therapy.
Depression is an ugly thing that can be overcome.
 
About five mins after they get together they will realize that what attracted them was the excitement of a naughty affair and that shit will be over. If he's unhappy with his wife, he should leave, but not for another woman.


He really needs to stop being a pussy assed selfish fuck and quit dicking with the emotions of those around him.
 
SB stop being an ediot and snap out of this bro. EF Jesus has no emotion and always does the right thing and continues to nail his wife
 
Strongbow said:
Cindy I can't stop it, it's what I do. My mind is fucked up, and my wife probably actually loves me for more than the fact that I'm muscular and take 2 hours to bust a nut, but I can't stop this downward spiral anymore. I wanna be alone when I die, it's my punishment for myself. I know none of you ngrs could ever understand me, but I will never stop till I completely destroy myself, it's my destiny, I'm ready to die, I can't explain it I just am. I have never known anyone like me.
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lol @ this block of shit. sounds like someone can't handle their tren.
 
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Strongbow said:
Cindy I can't stop it, it's what I do. My mind is fucked up, and my wife probably actually loves me for more than the fact that I'm muscular and take 2 hours to bust a nut, but I can't stop this downward spiral anymore. I wanna be alone when I die, it's my punishment for myself. I know none of you ngrs could ever understand me, but I will never stop till I completely destroy myself, it's my destiny, I'm ready to die, I can't explain it I just am. I have never known anyone like me.
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There's something peaceful in what was said here
 
Strongbow said:
Cindy I can't stop it, it's what I do. My mind is fucked up, and my wife probably actually loves me for more than the fact that I'm muscular and take 2 hours to bust a nut, but I can't stop this downward spiral anymore. I wanna be alone when I die, it's my punishment for myself. I know none of you ngrs could ever understand me, but I will never stop till I completely destroy myself, it's my destiny, I'm ready to die, I can't explain it I just am. I have never known anyone like me.
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As much as I appreciate what Blue said about me (and I sincerely do) I cringed when I read it because I knew the homo and tranny comments would be coming next.

Truth is, I understand much more than you give me credit for. How many people you think I've met who are like me?

I've been married to the wrong woman (thank God no kids). I've been unfaithful and in love with another woman, and felt the guilt and the need to punish myself. I told a beautiful, good woman that I didn't love her any more (over a bowl of Lucky Charms) and watched her fall apart.

I punished myself hard, drank too much, survived a horible drunken car accident that should have killed me (thank God I hit a tree and no one else.) Somehow, I've always been lucky.

Ultimately, I was with the wrong woman; but I also didn't appreciate what I had and completey misjudged how hard it would be to untangle myself from someone I had built my entire life around.

Took more than a year before i felt any joy in my life again. Not long after that, I got a second chance at love and did a much better job this time. I don't feel the need to punish myself any more.

My best advice; throw youself into your current marraige. You have talents, use them to the benefit of the woman who you know loves you. You may find that the life you always wanted is right there under your nose.

If you can't make it work, then you have to go down the painful road.
 
Strongbow said:
Cindy I can't stop it, it's what I do. My mind is fucked up, and my wife probably actually loves me for more than the fact that I'm muscular and take 2 hours to bust a nut, but I can't stop this downward spiral anymore. I wanna be alone when I die, it's my punishment for myself. I know none of you ngrs could ever understand me, but I will never stop till I completely destroy myself, it's my destiny, I'm ready to die, I can't explain it I just am. I have never known anyone like me.
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If you know how you are and you know you wont change then you might as well keep this wife, you know the blonde will just turn into another wife that turns into another ex-wife and so on, put the cycle to rest here with this one you have kids and a family with, that damn "spark" and eternal happiness myth will make us do stupid things, yes I do strongly believe it's a myth, people change, prople grow, people fall in and out of love with people all the time, marriage is something you work on, you're not happy 100% of the times, hell you're not even supposed to be happy 10% of the time, because it's not just about you, it's about your significant other, and your kids and sometimes you need to ride in the back seat so it's their turn to be happy, then you go back in front while one them is in the back seat STOP trying to hog the seat bro, think about others
 
nydj66 said:
As much as I appreciate what Blue said about me (and I sincerely do) I cringed when I read it because I knew the homo and tranny comments would be coming next.

Truth is, I understand much more than you give me credit for. How many people you think I've met who are like me?

I've been married to the wrong woman (thank God no kids). I've been unfaithful and in love with another woman, and felt the guilt and the need to punish myself. I told a beautiful, good woman that I didn't love her any more (over a bowl of Lucky Charms) and watched her fall apart.

I punished myself hard, drank too much, survived a horible drunken car accident that should have killed me (thank God I hit a tree and no one else.) Somehow, I've always been lucky.

Ultimately, I was with the wrong woman; but I also didn't appreciate what I had and completey misjudged how hard it would be to untangle myself from someone I had built my entire life around.

Took more than a year before i felt any joy in my life again. Not long after that, I got a second chance at love and did a much better job this time. I don't feel the need to punish myself any more.

My best advice; throw youself into your current marraige. You have talents, use them to the benefit of the woman who you know loves you. You may find that the life you always wanted is right there under your nose.

If you can't make it work, then you have to go down the painful road.
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You're awesome!
Baggage builds character
 
nangiggles said:
If you know how you are and you know you wont change then you might as well keep this wife, you know the blonde will just turn into another wife that turns into another ex-wife and so on, put the cycle to rest here with this one you have kids and a family with, that damn "spark" and eternal happiness myth will make us do stupid things, yes I do strongly believe it's a myth, people change, prople grow, people fall in and out of love with people all the time, marriage is something you work on, you're not happy 100% of the times, hell you're not even supposed to be happy 10% of the time, because it's not just about you, it's about your significant other, and your kids and sometimes you need to ride in the back seat so it's their turn to be happy, then you go back in front while one them is in the back seat STOP trying to hog the seat bro, think about others
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Holy fuckin big block of shit. You do know there is more to punctuation than just a comma, right?

Fuck I hate you.
 
I have no idea how anybody could fag up a perfectly good SB thread, but somehow, someone did it.
 
I don't speak fucking gay mushy homo faggot, will somebody translate all this bullshit for me?
 
Ima God damn Gangsta this is just what mutha fucking gangstas do my hommie told me that I'ma triple OG and he looks up to me cause my pimp hand is strong.
 
Strongbow said:
I don't speak fucking gay mushy homo faggot, will somebody translate all this bullshit for me?
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Cliff notes: you leave your wife, you'll be unhappy.

Personally I think you should stick it out for your kids especially. They don't deserve to be unhappy. I know you love your son.

So keep them happy.
 
Strongbow said:
I don't speak fucking gay mushy homo faggot, will somebody translate all this bullshit for me?
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Pretty much you're being a selfish tool, you're never happy with any woman so you might as well stick with the one that you are for your kids and because life sucks and then you die, no one is fucking happy 24/7 bish, stop chasing a dream.
 
Strongbow said:
Cindy I can't stop it, it's what I do. My mind is fucked up, and my wife probably actually loves me for more than the fact that I'm muscular and take 2 hours to bust a nut, but I can't stop this downward spiral anymore. I wanna be alone when I die, it's my punishment for myself. I know none of you ngrs could ever understand me, but I will never stop till I completely destroy myself, it's my destiny, I'm ready to die, I can't explain it I just am. I have never known anyone like me.
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You always said that I know you better than just about anyone. Your problem is you think the bad out weighs the good in you. I'm not gonna get to change your mind about the bad, baby. Your too stubborn to let it go. Hell, I've been kicking you in the balls for weeks cause you do some less than desirable stuff.

But I can honestly tell you that you are not a bad man. I just fucking wish you would at least look at the good stuff too. You don't see yourself very clearly. You love kids, you see good things in people when the rest if us dwell on the bad, you are encouraging when it's needed, you give everyone more than one chance. There's so much more, SB.

You have to learn to appreciate the fact that you have an unusual perspective on life. And you're right, it's not like any other man's. And that isn't a bad thing, Darlin.
 
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sterolizer said:
Cliff notes: you leave your wife, you'll be unhappy.

Personally I think you should stick it out for your kids especially. They don't deserve to be unhappy. I know you love your son.

So keep them happy.
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Well said.

Put all that effort into your marriage.

Remember the promise you made to all those people at your wedding.
 
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just...v said:
You always said that I know you better than just about anyone. Your problem is you think the bad out weighs the good in you. I'm not gonna get to change your mind about the bad, baby. Your too stubborn to let it go. Hell, I've been kicking you in the balls for weeks cause you do some less than desirable stuff.

But I can honestly tell you that you are not a bad man. I just fucking wish you would at least look at the good stuff too. You don't see yourself very clearly. You love kids, you see good things in people when the rest if us dwell on the bad, you are encouraging when it's needed, you give everyone more than one chance. There's so much more, SB.

You have to learn to appreciate the fact that you have an unusual perspective on life. And you're right, it's not like any other man's. And that isn't a bad thing, Darlin.
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ahahahhahahahahhahhahahahhahahahhaa
 
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Cindy I can't stop it, it's what I do. My mind is fucked up, and my wife probably actually loves me for more than the fact that I'm muscular and take 2 hours to bust a nut, but I can't stop this downward spiral anymore. I wanna be alone when I die, it's my punishment for myself. I know none of you ngrs could ever understand me, but I will never stop till I completely destroy myself, it's my destiny, I'm ready to die, I can't explain it I just am. I have never known anyone like me.
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I can't control me anymore, but Kaylyn can, she has this calming power over me that noone else has, and it's not sexual it's just the feeling that I can sleep and she watches over me, so that I can close both eyes and sleep finally.
 
Strongbow said:
I can't control me anymore, but Kaylyn can, she has this calming power over me that noone else has, and it's not sexual it's just the feeling that I can sleep and she watches over me, so that I can close both eyes and sleep finally.
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What in Jesus fuck are you talking about?
 
Strongbow said:
I can't control me anymore, but Kaylyn can, she has this calming power over me that noone else has, and it's not sexual it's just the feeling that I can sleep and she watches over me, so that I can close both eyes and sleep finally.
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that fades, it always fades, you of all people should know that.
 
I hate 54 people in this bish
 
nydj66 said:
Your friend thinks he is going to walk away from a bad situation and start a new wonderful life with the blonde. It WILL NOT work like that.

You cannot go through a divorce after a long-term marraige; all the guilt of breaking a family apart; seeing everyone's tears and the backlash from the kids...and be the same person after it's over.

He may be better off divorced, but it isn't going to be the easy way out he's thinks it is. It's pain, pain, and more pain for everyone involved. And chances are he will get back together with the wife and try and work things out at least once. Where will that leave him with the blonde?

Whether or not he wants to end his marraige should have been decided before; independently of a new relationship. Now it's just a mess.
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