Cindy; yep! I've been really unlucky with men! I was with this guy 11 yrs, we owned a renovation business together and had a really happy/good life for the first 10 yrs.
Then found out he was cheating, he moved out, got a new house. Then he begged for me back. I was weak and took him back (we had a lot to lose and I thought I could get over the cheating) and things were going well, then the Taint he was cheating on me with confronted me to tell me he was still seeing her (the entire time he was back with me) and that she has hiv.
She told me they were having an affair the entire last year we were together and he knew she was infected. Then she hits me with "And we have been having sex unprotected the entire time"
Yep.....anyway, confronted him with her and he looked at her and said "I cannot believe you told her" meaning me
I ended up speaking to her husband who told me she was infected by his brother. Her husband died of aids and this guys brother married her. She's been married 3 times.
When my ex and I met her (she was a client), we thought she was a trannie. She really does look like a man.
Long story short, I walked away, he tried to come back time and again and when I finally told him to really F off, he married his taint (He is husband #4) and I believe he now has aids. I was numb for an entire year and waiting for hiv results for 6-9 months was PURE HELL!
Woot, good story eh?! ;-)
Moral of the story, you never really know someone. Then I got into relationships with 2 other cheating sociopaths after him. My last ex was fucking all kinds of women (got himself a case of herpes) and I left him when I caught him cheating with an obese married crazy with 3 kids who stalked and crank called me for 6 months after I left him and my ex knew she was doing this and was still seeing her, along with many other women.
When I tried to be his friend again last summer, he was showing me txt\s from this slob he was cheating with and she was saying how she gave him herpes and she was going to get her new bf to beat the shit out of him. He was laughing when he showed me these.
He told me he was banging women unprotected even though he has herpes. Typical narc, he can do whatever he wants, who cares who he give herpes to. He got it, so everyone is going to pay. Loser x 1000000!
I have a great angel cause I didn't get hiv or herpes!
I suck at picking men!