If you consider a woman looking GOOD being in full makeup with her hair done ALL THE TIME, then you need to revise what looks good.
For you, looking good is being showered, face shaved and in clean, pressed, matching clothes with no holes in them that are relatively in style.
FOR A WOMAN, you have to upgrade everything. She has to go from shaving ONE place to FOUR places. After the shower there's approximately 30 minutes of time blow drying and styling hair, then another 20 to 30 minutes for clothes and makeup and maybe even changing handbags to coordinate the outfit/bag/shoes/makeup. Oh, and don't forget the joy of spending AN ENTIRE EVENING in fucking high heels.
You think that shit all magically happens? It takes time, planning, effort and supplies to do it EVERY DAY.
But apparently if she does EXACTLY the same thing YOU do, that's not enough.
So, again, I tell you, prioritize. Pretty and shallow with nothing better to do or think about than fucking with her appearance, or a woman of substance who doesn't feel like screwing with that bullshit just to go to the supermarket or laundromat