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I'm asking this because I want to know if it was ME that was fucked up in the head. Or it was just the whole situation that was fucked up?

One of the reasons why my wife and I ended our relationship was due to lack of sex. I'm a guy...I WANT to fuck. No question about that.

However! I was never able to perform my best. Or I simply would QUICKLY lose interest. Reasons???? I will list them. Tell me if I was too retarded about this. Or anyone of you guys as well would find this as a "turn off".

Reasons...

1- Dog was always around. And I do mean ALWAYS around! All up in our fucking faces! Yet! She didn't mind.

2- Bed (not mine, I had my own separate sanitized bed)was always smelling and feeling like dried up dog pee. Why? Because the dog FREQUENTLY urinated her fucking bed.

3- Bed had remnants of doggy poo scooting POOP!

4- Dog hair

5- Bed smelled like dog and pee and poop

6- Marijuana and ashes crumbs on the bed

7- Food and cookie crumbs on the bed.

8- Bed was WAYYYY toooooo sooooooft. I would get in and literally sink in it!

9- She hardly shaved her legs. Or would wear pants while we had sex. Or long ass socks.

10- She was "hiding" the truths on a lot of things. And instead using reverse psychology on me and "accusing" me of "hiding" the truth on many things. This of course seriously fucked with my mind and emotions.



With all said and done. Was I being bitch about all of this? Or should I have still been "sexually" aroused REGARDLESS of what was all around me????
 
Smokescreen said:
I'm asking this because I want to know if it was ME that was fucked up in the head. Or it was just the whole situation that was fucked up?

One of the reasons why my wife and I ended our relationship was due to lack of sex. I'm a guy...I WANT to fuck. No question about that.

However! I was never able to perform my best. Or I simply would QUICKLY lose interest. Reasons???? I will list them. Tell me if I was too retarded about this. Or anyone of you guys as well would find this as a "turn off".

Reasons...

1- Dog was always around. And I do mean ALWAYS around! All up in our fucking faces! Yet! She didn't mind.

2- Bed (not mine, I had my own separate sanitized bed)was always smelling and feeling like dried up dog pee. Why? Because the dog FREQUENTLY urinated her fucking bed.

3- Bed had remnants of doggy poo scooting POOP!

4- Dog hair

5- Bed smelled like dog and pee and poop

6- Marijuana and ashes crumbs on the bed

7- Food and cookie crumbs on the bed.

8- Bed was WAYYYY toooooo sooooooft. I would get in and literally sink in it!

9- She hardly shaved her legs. Or would wear pants while we had sex. Or long ass socks.

10- She was "hiding" the truths on a lot of things. And instead using reverse psychology on me and "accusing" me of "hiding" the truth on many things. This of course seriously fucked with my mind and emotions.



With all said and done. Was I being bitch about all of this? Or should I have still been "sexually" aroused REGARDLESS of what was all around me????
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1) did y'all own a dog?
2) who makes a list with 9 items?
 
No... Marriage is a Team deal bro... If you voiced what upset you and she basically said "whatever" and wasn't willing to compromise.... I think there was no Team spirit...
And if your Bed was a shit hole...and she didn't care... That's just wrong... My lady doesn't like dogs very much, but I know my dog isn't allowed on the bed/couch because she hates it... I can live with that...
Dude sorry about the ending... But There's better out there.... Someone that knows how to share responsibility and cares about what pisses you off or what makes you happy........
Usually the second marriage is better... Older and wiser... Goodluck

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Brother I found this to be gross. When I think of sex, last thing on my mind is all the gross things I just mentioned around me. Know what I mean? Like having sex in a dumpster.
 
Not to mention... she wasn't giving you the respect of keeping her self groomed for her man... not cool... IMO....

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brownbrown said:
No... Marriage is a Team deal bro... If you voiced what upset you and she basically said "whatever" and wasn't willing to compromise.... I think there was no Team spirit...
And if your Bed was a shit hole...and she didn't care... That's just wrong... My lady doesn't like dogs very much, but I know my dog isn't allowed on the bed/couch because she hates it... I can live with that...
Dude sorry about the ending... But There's better out there.... Someone that knows how to share responsibility and cares about what pisses you off or what makes you happy........
Usually the second marriage is better... Older and wiser... Goodluck

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Actually 2nd marriages have a higher divorce rate
Divorce Rate : Divorce Rate In America
 
I love that dog very much. But I must admit that the dog did kill our sex life HARD! Kill sex...kill the marriage. And I warned her about getting a puppy. I did mention that it "might" kill our sex lives. And IT DID! Damn her! LOL
 
You can beat yourself up over it, or you can realize its a damn good decision to leave someone when the pet becomes more important than the husband
 
superdave said:
Actually 2nd marriages have a higher divorce rate
Divorce Rate : Divorce Rate In America
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That won't be me again brother. Everybody in my family is still together. I'm the VERY FIRST ONE that got a divorce!

Her?! Shit! The whole family is divorced! NO ONE IS TOGETHER! That woman didn't know what love is/was. Or what a marriage was/is! LOL
Daddy issues as well.

I guess it was my fault. The signs were there. And my dumbass still took the plunge.
 
superdave said:
You can beat yourself up over it, or you can realize its a damn good decision to leave someone when the pet becomes more important than the husband
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I packed up my stuff one Saturday afternoon while she was out. And that was it! Never looked back. Couldn't stand that woman anymore. I always hated her family. And as time went on. I grew to hate her simply because she turned more and more like THEM.
 
Sounds like you were young and made a stupid mistake, happens to the best of us rob
 
Why didn't you guys fuck in your sanitized bed?
 
This obviously goes deeper than an unkempt bed. YOu resented her for other things which is why you didn't want to have sex. It happens. No need to go back and analyze or second guess your decision. Move on.

Did you two have kids?
 
how hot was she? can we get some pics?

I had a girl that always kept these long leggings on during sex, I found it hot and now love it when chicks where thigh highs.

She was hiding track marks though, never a good thing. :eek2:
 
superdave said:
Sounds like you were young and made a stupid mistake, happens to the best of us rob
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I was naive and didn't know such shit people like that even existed. I'm from a loving family. I didn't know what dysfunctional was. Boy did I learn the hard way
 
No kids thank god. Her gene pool was a mess anyways. She WAS hot. But a rotten crazy personality can make the hottest chic look downright fugly.
 
others have said this, but this is really the key point here:
10- She was "hiding" the truths on a lot of things. And instead using reverse psychology on me and "accusing" me of "hiding" the truth on many things. This of course seriously fucked with my mind and emotions.


Something was going on, more than just crumb and dog pissed filled bed.

I am the same way about beds though man, I need a firm bed. I never eat in bed because I hate the idea of crumbs. I am a dog lover and grew up with dogs but never want to sleep in the same bed as a dog. I don't like getting into my own bed unless I've just showered.

My GF likes to eat in bed but doesn't because she knows I hate it. She also understand that I usually wanna fuck on top of the covers, not under them. I like to see what's going on anyway.
 
She did have issues. Here I had this hot chic whom I didn't want to bang nor be around her. Id prefer to stay busy, please myself or play video games.
 
Smokescreen said:
She did have issues. Here I had this hot chic whom I didn't want to bang nor be around her. Id prefer to stay busy, please myself or play video games.
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It happens man. I've tried to force a few relationships because the chick was super hot. never married though.
 
Lestat said:
It happens man. I've tried to force a few relationships because the chick was super hot. never married though.
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Hot chiks are good for one thing. Looking good. THAT'S IT! They have nothing else to offer. High maintenance. No brains. And with issues.

I'm getting me a ugly girl with brains next time. They have more to offer. She can always get a makeover. Lol they usually have high self esteem anyways. A huge plus!!!!
 
there are some hot chicks that are smart too, its just more rare bro! good luck!
 
you suck in bed. also there a million more places in that house to bang her besides just her bed
 
bro i dont blame u at all!

i wouldnt lay in no dog piss either !not for any woman
 
PICK3 said:
How was the dog in the bed and on the couch at the same time :confused:
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Anyways guys. Much thanks for your inputs. I just wanted to know if I was crazy or not for seeing all this as wrong. Guess I'm not.
 
I'm confused...why did you fuck in her bed if it was so nasty? I mean, honestly. You could have used your bed. Or the couch. Or the kitchen table. You could have fucked anywhere but there. Did you ever TRY to change the location of sexy time?

I'm not saying she isn't gross lol, all that stuff made my skin crawl. But I just don't see how an issue with a bed would be such an unfixable problem.
 
pick and miplank. Lol what steroids are you taking. Because I noticed both of you are just miserable. Everything bothers miplank as well. Spell checker. Lol
 
the whole seperate beds thing is weird to me....I know some people swear by it, but I would hate to not have that intimacy. I don't even mean cuddling or whatever....I sleep on my stomach at night most of the time. But I'd hate not to be able to wake up whenever and just have random middle of the night or morning sexy time, or even more innocent displays of affection.
 
Smokescreen said:
pick and miplank. Lol what steroids are you taking. Because I noticed both of you are just miserable. Everything bothers miplank as well. Spell checker. Lol
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you gonna ignore my question like you did the person who asked it before? lol
 
Smokescreen said:
pick and miplank. Lol what steroids are you taking. Because I noticed both of you are just miserable. Everything bothers miplank as well. Spell checker. Lol
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they are homosexuals and frustrated at the lack of options out there.
 
nefertiti said:
the whole seperate beds thing is weird to me....I know some people swear by it, but I would hate to not have that intimacy. I don't even mean cuddling or whatever....I sleep on my stomach at night most of the time. But I'd hate not to be able to wake up whenever and just have random middle of the night or morning sexy time, or even more innocent displays of affection.
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I like a shared bed too, BUT there's no way in hell I'd sleep in a bed that an animal had slept in. In his situation, I'd need a seperate bed for sure.
 
Smokescreen said:
The dog went EVERYWHERE we went.
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Also fixable. Put it in a fucking room and shut the door for however long you need to take care of business.

Sounds like you're making a whole lot of excuses and the truth is exactly what smurf said - what really bothered you was something else, because if everything else was gravy, the dog issue could have EASILY been handled.
 
Smokescreen said:
I'm asking this because I want to know if it was ME that was fucked up in the head. Or it was just the whole situation that was fucked up?

One of the reasons why my wife and I ended our relationship was due to lack of sex. I'm a guy...I WANT to fuck. No question about that.

However! I was never able to perform my best. Or I simply would QUICKLY lose interest. Reasons???? I will list them. Tell me if I was too retarded about this. Or anyone of you guys as well would find this as a "turn off".

Reasons...

1- Dog was always around. And I do mean ALWAYS around! All up in our fucking faces! Yet! She didn't mind.

2- Bed (not mine, I had my own separate sanitized bed)was always smelling and feeling like dried up dog pee. Why? Because the dog FREQUENTLY urinated her fucking bed.

3- Bed had remnants of doggy poo scooting POOP!

4- Dog hair

5- Bed smelled like dog and pee and poop

6- Marijuana and ashes crumbs on the bed

7- Food and cookie crumbs on the bed.

8- Bed was WAYYYY toooooo sooooooft. I would get in and literally sink in it!

9- She hardly shaved her legs. Or would wear pants while we had sex. Or long ass socks.

10- She was "hiding" the truths on a lot of things. And instead using reverse psychology on me and "accusing" me of "hiding" the truth on many things. This of course seriously fucked with my mind and emotions.



With all said and done. Was I being bitch about all of this? Or should I have still been "sexually" aroused REGARDLESS of what was all around me????
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Yeah that whole dog piss and shit on the bed is just gross. I wouldn't want to be around that myself
 
Smokescreen said:
There were times when we would close the dog off to another section. But man! What a mission!
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Bull. It's a dog, not a human. You're the master. It should be as simple as putting the dog there and shutting the door, and if it's not, you share blame in that.
 
canadianhitman said:
I like a shared bed too, BUT there's no way in hell I'd sleep in a bed that an animal had slept in. In his situation, I'd need a seperate bed for sure.
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LOL. I would "try" to sleep with her. But how can I when the dog would sleep on the bed as well. And that dog SNORED LOUD!!! Not to mention it would use the floor as it's personal bathroom throughout the night. So hours after sleeping there. I would wake up in the middle of the night. And the room would stink like piss and dog shit. Why? BEcause the dog had pissed and shitted on the floor. Nice huh?
 
Just thought miplank would chime in and mention how much he loves to fuck in a bed with shit and piss. Since he's well known for rolling around in his own poop and pee all day long.
 
About the putting the dog away like you mentioned. That I don't care. Fuck that. What's done is done. I put up a list of things that affected my marriage and well-being. Wanted to know if I was "crazy" for letting these "gross" things bother me. Thought maybe you or someone else would say..."No bro! who doesn't love being in a bed full of pee and poo and dog hair". If it came down to that! Holy shit! I need therapy.
 
Smokescreen said:
LOL. I would "try" to sleep with her. But how can I when the dog would sleep on the bed as well. And that dog SNORED LOUD!!! Not to mention it would use the floor as it's personal bathroom throughout the night. So hours after sleeping there. I would wake up in the middle of the night. And the room would stink like piss and dog shit. Why? BEcause the dog had pissed and shitted on the floor. Nice huh?
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Easy, shut the dog out of the room. Or fuck somewhere else, and shut the dog out of the room.

Jeez dude, at least accept that you could have done more, found alternatives. If a dog is running your life, you are part of the reason that is happening. That dog should respect you, respect your commands, and recognize you as pack leader (which it clearly doesn't, if you have to struggle to get alone time from it). If it doesn't, you have no one to blame but yourself.
 
BRAH serious question here

do u think there is anything going on with her and your dog?
 
Smokescreen said:
About the putting the dog away like you mentioned. That I don't care. Fuck that. What's done is done. I put up a list of things that affected my marriage and well-being. Wanted to know if I was "crazy" for letting these "gross" things bother me. Thought maybe you or someone else would say..."No bro! who doesn't love being in a bed full of pee and poo and dog hair". If it came down to that! Holy shit! I need therapy.
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You wanted to be affirmed that you were right in your gripes.

You are, but you ARE crazy if you think you are blameless in why this was a problem. It's gross as hell but you're no victim. If that dog didn't respect you, that's YOUR fault, not your wife's.
 
nefertiti said:
Easy, shut the dog out of the room. Or fuck somewhere else, and shut the dog out of the room.

Jeez dude, at least accept that you could have done more, found alternatives. If a dog is running your life, you are part of the reason that is happening. That dog should respect you, respect your commands, and recognize you as pack leader (which it clearly doesn't, if you have to struggle to get alone time from it). If it doesn't, you have no one to blame but yourself.
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Hence why I packed my stuff and left. I simply had enough. It wasn't just me vs. the dog. It was me vs. the dog. vs wife who loves dog.
 
Smokescreen said:
Hence why I packed my stuff and left. I simply had enough. It wasn't just me vs. the dog. It was me vs. the dog. vs wife who loves dog.
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Again, bullshit.

My roommates dogs won't get up on my bed even if I call them up because he trained them not to.

You're not a victim, you let this shit go on and you didn't assert yourself enough.
 
Now teh dog is watching some other dood bang her.

And that dood brings him Milk-Bones and scratches his belly and shit.
 
when i lived in a cold mountain area and bought a french bulldog the little shit had to sleep inside until the winter passed and she would never STFU she had her own bed but we needed to be at work at 6:30a.m. so sometimes we would just let the little shit in the bed so she'd shut up, HOWEVER we had a special plastic cover just in case she did have any kind of accident so it wouldnt ruin the mattress, she was semi potty trained but accidents happen with puppies, however, there was no way in FUCK we were gonna let our dogs ruin the mattress, if she did have an accident we would IMMEDIATELY wash our sheets and even if she didnt we would also wash them frequently due to general hygiene, being a dog owner doesnt mean neglecting hygiene, health and common sense, but I do know what it's like to try to set boundaries with your dogs and have your partner sabotage your authority and I feel for you, if both of you arent on board it isnt that easy...
 
nefertiti said:
Easy, shut the dog out of the room. Or fuck somewhere else, and shut the dog out of the room.

Jeez dude, at least accept that you could have done more, found alternatives. If a dog is running your life, you are part of the reason that is happening. That dog should respect you, respect your commands, and recognize you as pack leader (which it clearly doesn't, if you have to struggle to get alone time from it). If it doesn't, you have no one to blame but yourself.
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She's right, you know. You should have kicked both dog and wife in the fucking head repeatedly until they learned who the fuck was in charge. :evil:

J/K


sorta
 
nefertiti said:
Again, bullshit.

My roommates dogs won't get up on my bed even if I call them up because he trained them not to.

You're not a victim, you let this shit go on and you didn't assert yourself enough.
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Seriously though, what was he supposed to do if she refused to participate in training that dog properly? If only one person is trying to train a dog, it just doesn't work, because in the hours that person isn't around...the other undoes all the work that's been put into training. It was choke a bish or leave, and he left...he did the right thing.

Not to mention that you're just glossing over her obvious hygeine issues.
 
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