Look at the five people you spend the most time with. If they don't reflect where you want to be, or don't add something to your life that is meaningful, ditch them and spend time with people who are more like you.
It's that crab in a bucket scenario, if they see you heading up to the edge of the bucket to escape, they'll just drag you back down to the bottom of the bucket. If you have no friends, it's probably because you're not putting yourself out there. And I don't mean a bar

Change it up, get excited about something, go do it. Join a fun group of people who do something you like, whether that is a recreational sport league,, poker players, cooking school or a dance class. You'll know it when you find it.