GF broke up with me over steroids

[Spades24]

My GF of 2 years (now ex I guess) are really into fitness, and she got in great shape because of the education I gave her. I've been researching steroids the past few months, and I know she's opposed to it, which sucks. Anyways, after recently coming to a final decision on what cycle I'm going to do, I sat her down and told her my plans, and that I know she doesn't like it, but I'd rather have her know and be mad than to go behind her back and do it. Well she didn't take it well and basically gave me the ultimatum, steroids or me. I told her she can't control me like that and it's not fair, it's a personal decision with my body that doesn't affect the relationship. Her stance is that her voice isn't heard and I don't care that it hurts her and choose my body over her. So she just broke up with me. I don't know if she'll come around.

Anyone have experience with this kind of thing? I can't get her to listen to one second of education on the matter. She's just attached to the negative stigma of steroids as drugs and will not be with someone on drugs.

 

[-SD-]

Lesson learned:
Never tell ANYONE that youre hitting the roids. EVER. Because even if she is fine with it, later on when the relationship goes to hell, she can use it against you by telling everyone and their fucking family that you used steroids. Or even worse, say you get married and all is well, you are using steroids and have a wife and kids. Oh but then you get a divorce and she tells the judge youve been using steroids and she can prove it. So there goes your ass in divorce and custody battles. Dont think it can happen to you? Ask around here.

It doesnt matter what "facts and scientific evidence" you have in your favor, perception is all that matters. Also the fact that roids are illegal isnt going to help either.

 

[Spades24]

I couldn't not tell her. I'm around her all the time, she'll see me popping pills and at least see me blow up. She knows other people on roids and is aware of the bloat face, acne, increase in size/strength, irritability. I couldn't not tell her.

 

[SouthernLord]

Don't tell anyone shit about your aas use. It will come back to bite your ass.

 

[-SD-]

I couldn't not tell her. I'm around her all the time, she'll see me popping pills and at least see me blow up. She knows other people on roids and is aware of the bloat face, acne, increase in size/strength, irritability. I couldn't not tell her.

Then you made your decision and thats the way it goes. Move on and next time since you know you are going to hit the sauce, dont get so attached at the hip to some GF.

 

[bren565]

i know why u told her, its because communication is the foundation of the strongest relationships,

but id be more hurt by her leaving u over that.... i told my gf about gh , because i was hurt, and that i might do it, she didnt judge..
she said as long as u will be ok and u promise its for healing, i trust you and love u and ill even do a pinning for you in your butt.
perhaps she just doesnt understand? id talk to her again, u shouldnt break up over that... it owuldnt have effected ur relationship negatively...

but getting caught doing it IS BETTER than telling her... ur doing it...

 

[SouthernLord]

Just think of all the strange poos you'll be getting once you blow up on aas

lol

Seriously bro, you fucked up from the start by telling her. Even if she came back around and was cool with your use I'd deny it to the grave. Better yet, I wouldn't take her back to begin with.

 

[Spades24]

Then you made your decision and thats the way it goes. Move on and next time since you know you are going to hit the sauce, dont get so attached at the hip to some GF.

I mean I met her before I was this hard into fitness and decided to go this route. The relationship was solid. She just can't handle a decision that she didn't predict I would ever make.

I didn't want to sacrifice the relationship over it.

 

[mryar]

she was not the one. something similar happened to me. love transcends all shit, through the good times and the bad...

 

[-SD-]

I mean I met her before I was this hard into fitness and decided to go this route. The relationship was solid. She just can't handle a decision that she didn't predict I would ever make.

I didn't want to sacrifice the relationship over it.

You chose roids over your girl, bottom line. It isnt right or wrong but dont deny it.
If she never could have predicted you would ever take steroids then why are you surprised at her ultimatum? Given steroids current status in society, its also a Schedule III Narcotic, its not unreasonable for her to feel that way bro.