If you really believe all this, then you are in the tiny minority of men. I was 16 not that long ago, and I certainly wasnt a "kiddie".
Consider this: if you are a 16 yo girl, are you going to be interested in having sex with a guy that almost certainly has less experience than you and probably will not have a clue as to how to please you physically, or are you going to choose a hot, older guy who probably has years of sexual experience, is way more confident around you, and last but not least, can buy booze? MANY girls are going to choose the latter of the two.
This part's a typical dad comment though. I'm sure mine would've literally shot more than a few guys I used to see.