You guys are bad influences

[theoak01]

but thank you, Ive been tappin my ex on a regular basis ever since you fuckers gave me the advice to go after it, shes just a fuckin fiend for the shit,and its not even like shes weird,we fuck she leaves Im happy.

its a nice little thing we got goin here,however I think because Im getting all the perks of a relationship without the bullshit its stopping me from pursuing other relationships and such.

for example there is this really cool girl ive been into for a while ,the one I slept with a few weeks ago ,anyway I ended up drinking with her and some friends and it ended up in a nice night,blow job before bed which was at 5am,technically when I was suppose to be getting up for work but that didnt happen. but then come morning im like meh this girl is gonna want a committment and I already got the side action goin from the ex why do I want a relationship.

any advice from the bro's who have been here

 

[canadianhitman]

Enjoy the no-strings attached stuff AND continue to date. You can do both, as long as you stay focused. But you're right about turning down a girl that wants a commitment right off the bat...whatever happened to dating for awhile and seeing how it goes first?

 

[theoak01]

I didnt mean she wanted to jump right into it,but she isnt the kinda girl to put out without wanting a relationship,we have known each other for a while so I think being friends first could in her mind bypass that whole early dating crap

 

[Lestat]

my advice is to milk it for everything its worth right now!!!!

 

[theoak01]

ya im thinking that will end up being what I do, Im such a manwhore

 

[Gambino]

blow that shit out oak, take no prisoners.
but don't be a pussy and start liking this trick-ass hooker

 

[lardo5150]

ride her hard and put it away wet.

 

[theoak01]

blow that shit out oak, take no prisoners.
but don't be a pussy and start liking this trick-ass hooker

no way in hell ill ever get back with my ex lol,its just free wild sex,nothing more

 

[GrandMaster]

your ex with that guy still?

dont let the 2 of them meet either, , hopefully thats of the obvious lol

 

[nycgirl]

Is she having sex with you and her boyfriend?

 

[theoak01]

Is she having sex with you and her boyfriend?

yes

I know it seems pretty bad that Im letting it happen,but I dont really care for the guy to begin with so Im going to allow this.

 

[Gambino]

yes

I know it seems pretty bad that Im letting it happen,but I dont really care for the guy to begin with so Im going to allow this.

Oak I've been there...except that i was a major dumbass, and fell for this skanky ex...don't be a pussy like me

 

[theoak01]

I def wont bro ,I see how bad of a mind trip she has been and def couldnt be with someone who cheated on another person to be with me

 

[GrandMaster]

Bro, i dont like what your doing, its pretty Cold, but then again i know the whole story as we've spoked aboutthis b4 im sure u remember.

Do what u please, BUT, do not under any circumstance date her ever again!!!

 

[biteme]

Yeah. The right woman can enhance your life dramatically. I hope and pray that you find that special someone for you.

 

[Gambino]

Bro, i dont like what your doing, its pretty Cold, but then again i know the whole story as we've spoked aboutthis b4 im sure u remember.

Do what u please, BUT, do not under any circumstance date her ever again!!!

if the table was turned her boyfriend would do the same thing to oak, he should feel no pity

 

[GrandMaster]

if the table was turned her boyfriend would do the same thing to oak, he should feel no pity

hmm possibly thats a good way of putting it.

 

[Gambino]

hmm possibly thats a good way of putting it.

I don't advocate tagging people's ladies...but one has certain rights to a ex that supercede her new bf

 

[slat1]

Go for the nice girl. The ex is the ex for a reason. don't pass up a good opportunity when you have it.
BTW. keep hitting the ex while you work on the new one.

 

[theoak01]

Go for the nice girl. The ex is the ex for a reason. don't pass up a good opportunity when you have it.
BTW. keep hitting the ex while you work on the new one.

this guy is totally reading my mind, new girl is awesome but has issues with the distance(1hr drive) and is worried I will hurt her. so much beyond a physical thing when I go down there I doubt it will go anywhere.

for now im content with my love life,and Im gonna sit back and wait till the right one comes along,while of course tagging the ex

 

[GrandMaster]

for now im content with my love life,and Im gonna sit back and wait till the right one comes along,while of course tagging the ex

I'll Drink to that! lol

 

[RADAR]

When i left my Ex after finding she was cheating on me-i realized i really hadn't lived until i started getting it every night! I agree with the bro's here Enjoy it while it lasts,because something always comes up down the road that screws everything up!


RADAR

 

[Lestat]

where are the pics bro!!!

 

[pintoca]

I don't advocate tagging people's ladies...but one has certain rights to a ex that supercede her new bf

DAMN IT Gambino...Stop posting sig material man...

 

[theoak01]

where are the pics bro!!!

she said I can take some pics next time,but I wont go to far with what I post without her permission

 

[GrandMaster]

she said I can take some pics next time,but I wont go to far with what I post without her permission

Be a Mang! Do da Right Fing!

Permittion my ass....lol

 

[slat1]

Trust me. Go for the new girl but keep hitting the ex until things take off with the new one!

 

[GrandMaster]

Trust me. Go for the new girl but keep hitting the ex until things take off with the new one!

Well said, best advice!
thats what i've always done lol

 

[GoldenDelicious]

if you liked the new girl enough, you wouldnt be doing what you are with the ex. then, when youre young, you dont know a good thing until its long gone anyway.

good luck, hope it turns out

 

[theoak01]

if you liked the new girl enough, you wouldnt be doing what you are with the ex. then, when youre young, you dont know a good thing until its long gone anyway.

good luck, hope it turns out

so your saying I should totally dive in and put all my efforts into a girl who isnt to sure about what she wants? throwing away free sex,which is something all people crave,some more then others.

makes sense to me

 

[nycgirl]

if you liked the new girl enough, you wouldnt be doing what you are with the ex. then, when youre young, you dont know a good thing until its long gone anyway.
good luck, hope it turns out

I agree.

Don't let this situation turn into an 8-month booty call liason (ala SoreArms) and keep you from finding a good woman.

 

[theoak01]

I agree.

Don't let this situation turn into an 8-month booty call liason (ala SoreArms) and keep you from finding a good woman.

thats what im worried about

 

[nycgirl]

thats what im worried about

Why do I have a feeling this isn't your kind of thing?

If this girl (the "good" one) isn't for you find, leave it alone. Go out and socialize. Another one will cross your path. But don't keep yourself in something that isn't healthy because it is "free & erotic sex." (No, I'm not saying NSA situations aren't healthy, I just get a feeling that this situation is bothering you).

Just my .02

 

[theoak01]

Why do I have a feeling this isn't your kind of thing?

If this girl (the "good" one) isn't for you find, leave it alone. Go out and socialize. Another one will cross your path. But don't keep yourself in something that isn't healthy because it is "free & erotic sex." (No, I'm not saying NSA situations aren't healthy, I just get a feeling that this situation is bothering you).

Just my .02

you get the right feeling,after we split I only slept with 3 girls and that was more encouragment from buddies to help me move on,I felt weird every time and none of those flings lasted long.

as for this situation I dunno what to take on it,I know I have no feelings for her,other then that im going with the flow

 

[rnch]

something about tappin' the ex is a big turn on for many of us.....grudge sex can be the best sex!