CAPTAIN ,you said that men are suppose to do half the womans duties,but who are you to say what duties are who's? In a marriage you should be able to do it all and not complain about it! I cook ,clean,and everything else that I can to help my wife and she for me.I am not bashing you but it's 50/50 and some people have wifes who make a lot more money than them but it shouldnt bother them if the relationship is strong. If you are both working than you each pick up the slack when you can and I never EXPECT my wife to do anything we are a team and we in turn look out for one another,ALWAYS!!