you all were right

[markshark]

i really fucked up when i cheated on my girlfriend. this was a good 4 months ago when i did, and i made sure it was with someone from another state i would never see again. the problem has really swelled. ive not done a thing since. i felt sick while goin through with it but that was the decision i made. i want to be a faithful and good guy and treat her good. since then ive told her i love her and i cant imagine being with anyone else. ive got a serious problem though. everytime she goes out (and i never mention this to her) i cant help but think shes going to cheat. she tells me she loves me and will love me forever and that im the best thing thats ever happened to her. i believe her, but because of my stupidity i always think shes gonna cheat on me. its making me insane. everytime she goes out with her friends i get a sick feeling, like shes gonna meet someone. i dont know what to do guys, i know i was wrong. all i can do is admit it and that it was all my fault. help guys./

 

[flex229]

man, just ditch her and start fucking her friends....that always helps...(kidding of course)

serious question though: does she know you cheated, or have you hidden this from her?

 

[lilj888]

did u tell her u cheated on her or u just think she cheats on u since u did it so she must to

 

[markshark]

man, just ditch her and start fucking her friends....that always helps...(kidding of course)

serious question though: does she know you cheated, or have you hidden this from her?

hidden it

 

[markshark]

did u tell her u cheated on her or u just think she cheats on u since u did it so she must to

since i did it. never told her.

 

[lilj888]

then who knows, try to trick her if u think she does i always trick my girlsfriends and it works everytime i get them to admit so much shit. U got to put questions together after what she told u and then the more she tells u u can put things together and bam u have her caught, Like if she goes to a club ask her wat she did and crap and ask her other questions but dont make it like ur interogating her and then u gotta look at the shit that u dont think is that big of a deal and u put it together and if it dont make sense that bitch is done. And i usually have a feeling when something has happend and im usually right everytime i get that feeling

 

[bluetwistedsteel67]

That is what happens bro, trust me. You cheat and your punishment is having a suspicious mind from that moment forward. It's the penalty for putting your dick where you shouldn't have put it. Trust me, this lack of trust that you're feeling right now will never go away. You're pretty much fucked.

 

[markshark]

That is what happens bro, trust me. You cheat and your punishment is having a suspicious mind from that moment forward. It's the penalty for putting your dick where you shouldn't have put it. Trust me, this lack of trust that you're feeling right now will never go away. You're pretty much fucked.

have you went through this? and if so does it go on through all relationships?

 

[bluetwistedsteel67]

Definitely been there and yes, unfortunately you will never trust another woman - at least not completely. I think through time it may get better but there's a price for this particular sin bro and it's the realization that people cheat and if you did it she might as well.

 

[velvett]

usually when one person start to feel or accuse the other of cheating it's usually because they've considered it or have already

 

[Tytan]

She won`t forgive you for cheating on her, and you have become your own problem. Guilt is killing you ,but you can`t take it out on her. If you chose not to tell her, then live with it and not question her about going out w/ her friends. Your the one who needs to forgive yourself and realize that she is worth saying no tothe other slut-puppies that come around.

 

[markshark]

She won`t forgive you for cheating on her, and you have become your own problem. Guilt is killing you ,but you can`t take it out on her. If you chose not to tell her, then live with it and not question her about going out w/ her friends. Your the one who needs to forgive yourself and realize that she is worth saying no tothe other slut-puppies that come around.

ive said no several times since to other girls. i would never do it again and i hate that i did it.

 

[Tytan]

Forgive yourself and let it go the bro, Treat her right. You`ll surely lose her if you say something. You know thats the truth. Good luck.

 

[markshark]

Forgive yourself and let it go the bro, Treat her right. You`ll surely lose her if you say something. You know thats the truth. Good luck.

i think i treat her a lot better than an average guy would just because ive cheated and i think the guilt gives me a reason to eternally treat her as good as i can.