WTF!!!!!!Who's wedding is this,anyway?

[myway]

My mom just called and said we need to trim our invitation list. She said the reception site can only comfortable hold 100 people and we have 130 on the list. The thing is, I only put a grand total of 19 people on that list. My fiance only put around 40 and that includes family. So that means my parents are inviting over 70 people. I don't even know half the people. WHY is she telling us we need to trim people? WTF!!??????!!!!!

 

[Smurfy]

tell her to trim her list down.

 

[myway]

tell her to trim her list down.

it won't happen. Sounds good, but it won't happen. That's why she called.She thinks that since they are paying for it, they should get to decide.
Vegas is sounding real good right about now.

 

[Gymgurl]

Oh I do not envy you at all....I had 250 and that was after triming and fighting about who would be left off the list lol

 

[myway]

I am so pissed. I am so about to change EVERYTHING and make it one of those immediate family only weddings.And that's EXACTLY what mommy the tea party tosser does not want.

 

[Gymgurl]

Just relax...it will all work out in the end.....really it does!

 

[H_T_]

who's paying for it?

 

[myway]

Just relax...it will all work out in the end.....really it does!

Thanx. I hope so.
I'm gonna go write her a letter.I'll be back,later.

 

[pdaddy]

Is that a crotch in front of the dog in your avatar?

 

[uryan]

when my brother got married, they had ~300 people. There was no guest list fighting. There was an expensive wedding. His wife is fairly well-off though.

What your parents are doing is wrong. It is akin to giving a gift with conditions: here is a video game, but you can only play with me.

If they are going to pay for a wedding for you, then they should assemble their guest list after you assemble yours. As your thread said "Whose wedding is this, anyway?" You don't offer to pay and then tell someone "I don't like what you did".

Your parents are immature. I hope you remember this if you have a daughter, and be better than your parents are.

 

[H_T_]

Is that a crotch in front of the dog in your avatar?

is that peanut butter?

 

[AAP]

You still do what mommy says?

 

[Smurfy]

Id just go elope. fuck that. the wedding day comes and goes and other than some pics and maybe a video, gets forgotten. your life will not be determined by your wedding festivities.

 

[AAP]

Id just go elope. fuck that. the wedding day comes and goes and other than some pics and maybe a video, gets forgotten. your life will not be determined by your wedding festivities.

His mom said 'no'.

 

[Smurfy]

His mom said 'no'.

right.

 

[foxxie]

wtf!!

 

[pdaddy]

Id just go elope. fuck that. the wedding day comes and goes and other than some pics and maybe a video, gets forgotten. your life will not be determined by your wedding festivities.

You give really good advice

 

[Gambino]

just think bor, the divorce will be a lot easier

 

[SheDragon]

when my brother got married, they had ~300 people. There was no guest list fighting. There was an expensive wedding. His wife is fairly well-off though.

What your parents are doing is wrong. It is akin to giving a gift with conditions: here is a video game, but you can only play with me.

If they are going to pay for a wedding for you, then they should assemble their guest list after you assemble yours. As your thread said "Whose wedding is this, anyway?" You don't offer to pay and then tell someone "I don't like what you did".

Your parents are immature. I hope you remember this if you have a daughter, and be better than your parents are.[/QUOTE]

that is so true

 

[myway]

You still do what mommy says?

No...but they are paying for it.If you are just getting here, i mentioned that part earlier.

 

[myway]

I am trying to be reasonable.I know she is excited.Im an only child,plus, she helped plan weddings for all of her friends' daughters.
BUT... this is MY wedding. It's not a show for her friends. I have been letting her do everything else she wants.
I had to draw the line with the list.
I sent her an email saying if I need to cut anymore people then we will cut out ALL friends(mine and hers...she would HATE that) and just make it immediate family. She wanted to cut some from my fiance's family list. That's NUTZ.

 

[WODIN]

No...but they are paying for it.If you are just getting here, i mentioned that part earlier.

The fact that they are footing the bill, and its their responsibility to do so, shouldn't be a point of consideration in deciding your wedding guest list.

 

[alien amp pharm]

lol @ people who have big weddings.

 

[AAP]

What you have to do is take your mom aside and tell "Listen Mom, I know you are paying for this because *insert reason your broke ass can't afford to marry your own wife* (maybe your Mom picked out the bride???) but still, whether you like it or not I am the one that has to live with this cunt. So pleeeasse let me invite all my friends. Okay? Mom? Okay, lemme do this, cause everyone else is doing it. But Mommmmmmm!!"


(luv ya hon)