WTF, i simply just dont get women.

[KillahBee]

LOL@ me *jumping on KB saying something that actually makes sense and DOESN'T belittle women*.

good, cause we both know it's quite a rarity for me to say something that makes sense AND doesn't belittle women. I expect compensation for that.

 

[AztecWarrior]

Perhaps there's other things going on in her life that she can't give you the attention you need. She might need more time for herself or maybe she's feeling unsure about her future with you.

 

[AztecWarrior]

fuck that, how many relationships you know of that have successfully come back from "breaks"?! a break is simply a prelude to ending it all.

move on, brah. or go on a break, but ready your bench for game time.

That is true most of the time. Gotta look at the situation. The break came about for a reason. Things aren't working out. You should be ready to hear something, maybe you don't want to hear. Hopefully, this isn't the case guy.

 

[Kangazoo]

LOL@ me *jumping on KB saying something that actually makes sense and DOESN'T belittle women*.

Paying less attention to what someone says but seriously observing how they behave applies to both genders. You know, like when a guy TELLS you how much he loves you but that he beat the shit out of you because you made him mad? Chances are a woman would do better to pay attention to the fact that he beat her thus negating ANYTHING that ever came out of that man's mouth again... but hey, look at Rihanna.

Women are EXTREMELY emotional creatures, no doubt about that. Many are so driven by their emotions that they lack the ability to properly assess many situations. Men, on the other hand are driven by their INABILITY to feel much of anything except lust (sex) and rage (dominance). <--- not a cheap shot by any stretch.

My first question to the poster would be, "How old are the two of you?" From the sound of this thread it seems you guys are fairly young and just learning what you like/don't like, how to behave and how not to behave while in a relationship. Nothing more and nothing less. As others have said before me, this was a great *training wheels* relationship and the two of you should just part company. Chances are 2/3 years down the road neither of you will remember much about the other. Not a bad thing, just sayin is all.

Needy is VERY unattractive regardless of gender.

im 27 and shes 25, were def not young or inexperienced in relationships. Even tho we have only been dating for 6months now, we have know each other for years and have always had a crush on each other but we both were always un available, but then this summer we were both single and we decided to give this a try. But i think we moved too fast, bc after just a few weeks we were spending everyday together.

 

[Kangazoo]

Perhaps there's other things going on in her life that she can't give you the attention you need. She might need more time for herself or maybe she's feeling unsure about her future with you.

shes been unsure about our future for a lil while now, and she def has a lot going on in her life right now.

 

[Sub-Zero]

No matter how hard I try, I never seem to understand women. Once i think I do, something comes up and smacks me in the face. So i decided to come on here and rant.

So i have been dating this chick for good while now. Our first date was amazing and it got better every day after that. We were beginning to get in a slump and kept talking about things and getting into lil tiffs for the past few weeks. She says she just been having some pessimistic thoughts and doesn't know what to do. It was like we kept picking at a scab, so a few weeks ago i suggested to take a week off and just chill out. She kept saying that's not what she wanted. but we just kept on fighting, so we then decided to just do it.
We didn't talk for a full week and we just went out last friday night for the first time. It was great! had a great dinner, got tipsy, had some great sex. She spent the night, had a great breakfast, and she told me all night that she still loves me and that she missed me all week but still wants more time. WTF!
I just don't understand how she could say i love you, i miss you, and i still need more space all in the same breathe?

I just don't get it.

shes testing the waters. and by testing waters i mean semen. of other guys.

start shopping around in your time off, but maybe u 2 will end up together and get over this bump in the relationship.

goodluck bro

 

[ricco561]

Men, on the other hand are driven by their INABILITY to feel much of anything except lust (sex) and rage (dominance).
Hey, I'm offended by this.
I feel three emotions:
Hungry
Horny
Tired.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Its a lil bit of both, i think. Im not sure exactly where we are, I just know she said she needs some space/time to think about things. All i know is that she says she confused, and i totally see it. She said we can still talk/see each other. but when asked if she was still my girl, she said she dint know what we were at the time. So i ended up giving her some of her stuff back, her cloths/bathroom supplies, and she refused at first, but then wanted to take everything except her toothbrush, bc she said she may still need that here and that everything else she can always bring back. She def seems very optimistic that this time apart is gonna fix things, i disagree. But we said we were gonna talk chill this week, just don't know when. But then gain, i haven't talked to her since sat morn, so i don't know what to think now...

you sound like a faggot, she wants a man, not a clingy boy. goodluck bro

 

[ricco561]

yeah but from what he says, it doesnt sound like she is asking for an actual "break" (breakup?), but rather just not spending so much god damn time together. I can totally relate to that. Ive been there.

Chris smothering you already?

 

[bnutty187]

Man I have been there, trying to "figure shit out". Unfortunately this is not something that can be dissected with logic or reasoning. This is a matter of the heart and unfortunately what has happened to anyone of us in the past or you in the past doesn't really matter. We all do things based on emotion then justify with logic/reasoning.

Do what your heart tells you, it might get hurt worse it might get better but ultimately she is going to do the same and you're either gonna end up together again or not. That's just how it is.