im 27 and shes 25, were def not young or inexperienced in relationships. Even tho we have only been dating for 6months now, we have know each other for years and have always had a crush on each other but we both were always un available, but then this summer we were both single and we decided to give this a try. But i think we moved too fast, bc after just a few weeks we were spending everyday together.
Believe it or not 27/25 is pretty young still. Not knocking either one of you, just saying that from where us OLD PEOPLE are sitting the two of you have all the time in the world.
Just take it for the learning experience that it was.
This stuff works both ways. No man-hating or woman-hating. If both parties aren't equally into the relationship, no need to get any underpants up in a wad. Just move on to someone who you are as into as they are into you.
She came over this afternoon and said she is still confused on what she wants and doesn't like being in this gray area. So she wants to just end it before we both end up in some HUGE fight and hating each other.
Which I totally agree with. She is someone whom I don't want to end in some fight that will both make us bitter for a long time.
Meh... it wasn't working out. She is exploring other options. Trust me. If you leave her alone, she'll be back telling you how much she loves and misses you. Hopefully by then you will have gotten way more game and she will be a distant memory.
Guy I used to date quite seriously emailed me out of the blue last month. I'd only seen the email accidentally as I was retrieving a password. Thought it was fukkin hysterical. So I messed with him for a minute before I nailed his ass to the wall for having THE BALLS to contact me after all of this time.
He said, "I think about you all the time. Regretably far too often as of late."
To which I replied, "Funny, when you had me all you could think about was a drunken Guatemalan broad and everyone else who was NOT ME. C'est la vie. So tell me about your project as clearly you want to so desperately. Though I can't imagine why."