Would You Have Sex With Someone Using A Condom Knowing They Had Hiv?

[VballPlayer]

okay, this is what i know, if it's worth anything.... there are lots of STD'S that can be transmitted through condoms, HIV is passed through fluids therefore you can't catch it with a condom....crabs no no barriers through latex my friends

She is right you can catch other diseases through codoms, but the chances of someone who knows they are HIV + havng those other dieseases is minimal! But they have done studies in England and San Francisco of couples where one had HIV and the other was negative. They all practiced safe sex and had a healthy sex life. Not once was the negative partner infected by HIV.....NOT ONCE. If you are smart about it there is no chance to catch the HIV virus. I know I have done hours and hours of research and spoke to a councelor at the local HIV clinic. I was like you people I was afraid but I really liked this person so I took the time out to talk to professionals about what we can and cannot do. The sex is great and we do just as much as anyone else can but we are just safe all the time that is the diffrence. We have rules like no having sex if we are drunl, because you can make mistakes that way. Always wearing a condom even for oral sex. I get check every 3 months and I am still negative and I will remain so if I am smart about what we do.

 

[Bozzman]

Hmmm... dirty pussy or my life


what kind of question is that?

 

[CoolAssLola]

Wow, I can't get over how uneducated & just plain stupid a lot of people are........

Of course I would.... As long as you are honest, talk about it, ask questions, and are SAFE, there is very very low risk for catching HIV.....

Thanks for the laughs though....

Lola

 

[machaveli]

fuck no.....but its like a catch 22 because i have had sex many times with girls i didnt know w/out a condom. they could of had HIV>

 

[02gixxersix]

no fuckin way. theres plenty of other pussy in the world.

 

[MiniColemans]

with the end of a broomstick maybe !

lol right on

 

[enlightened]

I registered on this board just to throw my measely 2 cents on this topic....

Im 20 going on 21 and I've been HIV+ all my life. I contracted it through a blood transfusion 2 or 3 days after birth. I only found out about this at the age of 16 when I was hospitalized for pneumonia and a couple of other various lung infections.

If I wasnt HIV+ would I fuck a girl who I knew was HIV+ with a condom? Hell no.

Knowing what I know now, and expiriencing HIV first-hand, no amount of sex is worth the 1/1000000000000000th chance of contracting a terminal illness. And thats just real. Im know alot of you are sexually active and willing, but you really have to think about your health in this day and age. I really encourage everyone to go out and get tested BEFORE they start enganging in sex for the first time, and then continuing to get tested every 6 months after. If youre a parent, educating and getting your kids tested at an early age is important, because although my circumstances of contracting HIV resulted from a generational problem (before in the early 80's they had no knowledge of HIV; I wasnt the only one to contract it as a child through blood transfusion - hundreds of people were infected in the same fashion) kids are are becoming more and more sexually active at a younger age.

Its not about discrimination, its not about misunderstanding, its about safety. people have the right to define the level of personal risk theyre willing to take - which is also why I agree with the law in Florida that makes it a felony for an HIV+ person to have sex with someone who is negative without telling them. People who are HIV+ and still participate in high-risk sex without telling their partner are a danger to society, and they should be treated as such.

 

[justyxxxx]

This is a very difficult question to answer, at least for me. Under normal circumstances, I would have to say no. But there is a chance that someone that you have fallen in love with finally tells you that they have HIV. That's a difficult situation. I would obviously be mad if we had sex before they told me that they had HIV - and they knew about it. However, I would have much respect for them if they got to know me, we didn't have sex, but when we decided to - they told me. That would change things. If I felt that this person meant more to me than anyone had before (or ever will), well then there's a good chance that I would want to get more educated on the subject and go from there.

I would hope that no one's response would be HELL NO if someone said that they're HIV+. I think that's just very sad and very ignorant. I can understand why you wouldn't and even on the inside you might be thinking it, but at least be mature about it, give them a hug and show that you care about them. Even though you might end up telling them, I'm sorry, I just can't - at least they should be able to understand this or hopefully will eventually learn to understand this. Give them the respect that they deserve for having told you.

That's how I would handle the situation.

 

[b fold the truth]

enlightened:

Thank you for posting...really means a lot to see a post like that.

B True

 

[satchboogie]

dude....

NO FUCKIN WAY!!!!

even if she was so fine, i'd swallow my ego and walk away to the nearest bathroom to jerk off.