Would You Have Sex With Someone Using A Condom Knowing They Had Hiv?

[babybodybuilder2.5]

Boy, these posts sure are awful.

I've had HIV for 23 years. In that time, I've had a number of HIV-negative boyfriends and had a TON of sex with them. They are all still negative.

Why did they take such a "horrible" risk? Because I'm smart, funny, attractive and WORTH IT! And because they didn't live in fear.

Using a condom isn't rocket-science, people - you put it on, use the right lube, and it doesn't break.

The really stupid guys are the starngers who ask my HIV status before sex, like that's going to protect them! If you believe what a stranger tells you about their HIV status, you really are a dolt.

I agree with you. Asking what their status is will not help you decide if you want to have sex with that person. If you are already at that stage of " Sex" then you are already invested. If you have feelings for a person, then what their status is should not matter. If you do use it as a tool , as to who you will be involved with, then I pitty you, you might be passing up on your soulmate. Just use a condom, after all it's use is not only to protect you from HIV, there are many other STD's in this world.
here's to you Mark

 

[*MissFit*]

I think it would depenend on circumstances. I'm not sure if im supposed to write here ..i'm straight but i was curious to see what was in this section.

I think if i developed a relationship with someone and had real feelings for them I would. If i just meet a guy and he said.,"hey babe i got aids, wanna F**K".. no way..

I also think alot of ppl have trouble admiting what theywould do.. half the time people don't even bother asking these important questions to potential partners..

 

[babybodybuilder2.5]

I think it would depenend on circumstances. I'm not sure if im supposed to write here ..i'm straight but i was curious to see what was in this section.

I think if i developed a relationship with someone and had real feelings for them I would. If i just meet a guy and he said.,"hey babe i got aids, wanna F**K".. no way..

I also think alot of ppl have trouble admiting what theywould do.. half the time people don't even bother asking these important questions to potential partners..

ok...I dont want you take this the wrong way ....your sexual preference has nothing to do with this issue. AIDS attacks everyone. I can tell you , a person that has AIDS would never be so rude to tell a potiential sex partner in such a way as you suggested. It is a very unnerving thing to tell a person that you have it. If that person felt enough for you, to tell you about it. Then consider yourself very lucky. I do agree with the rest of your statement.
I hope I wasn't to harsh,

 

[*MissFit*]

ok...I dont want you take this the wrong way ....your sexual preference has nothing to do with this issue. AIDS attacks everyone. I can tell you , a person that has AIDS would never be so rude to tell a potiential sex partner in such a way as you suggested. It is a very unnerving thing to tell a person that you have it. If that person felt enough for you, to tell you about it. Then consider yourself very lucky. I do agree with the rest of your statement.
I hope I wasn't to harsh,

Hahahhaa well.. i didn't mean anything about the me being straight comment i know aids has no barriers.. and speaking froma girl.. u wouldn't beleive some of the shit guys have said when asking to sleep with u .. so

 

[babybodybuilder2.5]

Hahahhaa well.. i didn't mean anything about the me being straight comment i know aids has no barriers.. and speaking froma girl.. u wouldn't beleive some of the shit guys have said when asking to sleep with u .. so

Ok...all is cool.....

 

[ghettostudmuffin]

There is truth to that saying you've slept with everyone they've slept with and the people those people slept with. Along the line there can be fuck ups and people do get HIV/AIDS.

I think people that go clubbin on a weekly basis and sleep with a different person at least 2x per month on average over several years span have slept with someone that was HIV positive and didn't know and the person who had it may or may not have known they had it.

The reason these people don't have HIV at this point is that they either used a condom 100% of the time that didn't break or slip off, they used a condom most of the time and are lucky, or they rarely used a condom at all and are blessed by god, but are still complete assclowns for even taking the risk.

I remember hearing something that 1 or more people in a hundred is HIV positive. It's probably more than that.

Imo, anytime you sleep with a man or woman, even if using a condom, not having had them tested, then you are essentially poking around in the great unknown because you do not know if they have it or not. It doesn't matter how healthy or clean they look. And condoms can and do break or slip off so you're not exactly 100% protected.

 

[Kroliczek]

For me, the chance is not worth it. Sex is important and sex is fun...but not worth risking my life and my dreams for a few moments of pleasure.

 

[L_Seven]

I agree with you. Asking what their status is will not help you decide if you want to have sex with that person. If you are already at that stage of " Sex" then you are already invested. If you have feelings for a person, then what their status is should not matter.

Agreed.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Agreed.

Hi, L_Seven

 

[L_Seven]

They Had HCv?

Hi, L_Seven

awe hi sweetie