Would you go to all the Bars on your own?

[riverrock]

Well, its 10pm on a Saturday night here in the UK and I'm on elitefitness! There has to be more to life than this and seeing as I'm 30 years old, I haven't got too many party years left. Everyone I know is out of town. Do I got out and hit all the Bars anyhow? Thing is though, I don't want to look like the losers I used to see when I was 18 who came into Bars with a loud shirts on my themselves, propped the Bar up, eyed up all the young ladies who also thought you were a loser, and it was dead obvious you were on your own! On the other hand, come 2am, everyone is too drunk to even notice, loads of people have been split up from their groups anyhow, and you blend in perfectly well!!

Do I go out and risk looking like a loser?

 

[mustang_00]

i'd rather go to a bar by myself than go to the movies by myself. imo you're more of a loser doing that shit. plus you could always run the "i'm meeting someone" line and THEN play the "pitty" card when they don't show up haha

 

[Humble Pride]

You're only a loser if you think you are..............

Now go hit those bars!

 

[PICK3]

I'm old ... I usually go to the same neighborhood bars, so I always know someone when I get there

 

[riverrock]

i'd rather go to a bar by myself than go to the movies by myself. imo you're more of a loser doing that shit. plus you could always run the "i'm meeting someone" line and THEN play the "pitty" card when they don't show up haha

Thats right!! Going to the movies alone, now thats the pits! However, when I was having problem with my ex-girlfriend I always took her to the movies as it meant not having to talk to her for a couple of hours!!!

 

[hurricane]

1 of my friends from work does this .. a few times other work friends have caught him in clubs by himself .. they make fun of him and call him lonely .. i wouldnt do it .. maybe a local town bar, where i know the regulars

 

[gonelifting]

Yeah, why not. I've never done it because there was always someone to go with, but I would if i had to. Even at the clubs, I never really stayed with my friends. we all went our separate ways and did our thing. mine was breakdancing of course. ha jk.


I've met girls in clubs that went alone. That was HOTTTTT. Something about a chick going out alone is sexy to me. No BS She knows what she wants and does it.

 

[hardrock]

I walk up to the bar alone often. Last night in fact. i don't know hardly anyone in this godforsaken state and get bored sitting home alone. I just belly up to the bar and start chatting with whomever is next to me. Lastnight me and the dude next to me went to play some pool. Along the way i noticed 2 ladies sitting at a table and asked them to join us. The hotter chick and I ran the fuckin table. Unfortunately they were both married, so that's about as far as it went.

Prolly do it again tonight if I can't find somewhere to watch the UFC fight.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

i did last night.

my theory is that if youre a normal, socially lazy person, you get to know people who 1) went to school with you 2) were family friends 3) worked with you 4) friends of friends and thats pertty much it - which means that if xyz really hot chick or xyz interesting guy didnt fit into teh above (and there are lots of them in the 6 500 000 000 strong human population) then you never get to know/meet them - so its up to you to go out and meet new people

last night was a disaster thoguh. i was in a small town (still am actually) where people are poorly socialized and overall, not very nice to be around. im confident that iw as one of the best looking, most amusing people there (i got called stupid stuff like pretty boy and the usual stuff that you get when youre dealing with yobbo heathen ferals) but got discouraged with how eluctant peopel were to actually have a chat outside of their normal social modality

 

[javaguru]

I only hit up the sports bars...night clubs piss me off.