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Would Marriages Be Better If People Stayed Virgins?
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PinK233
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The problem here is that if the sex is bad, that's considered grounds for divorce?? That's a pretty warped image of marriage...if the sex is bad you work on it, if you really love the person! This is why the divorce rate is 50% b/c more and more people are thinking with their crotch, everyone just wants to get off 
PinK233 said:The problem here is that if the sex is bad, that's considered grounds for divorce?? That's a pretty warped image of marriage...if the sex is bad you work on it, if you really love the person! This is why the divorce rate is 50% b/c more and more people are thinking with their crotch, everyone just wants to get off
I see working on bad sex and making it better...but what about a stinky box. (box being guy or girl). Can you really show devotion to the funk?
i thought the first time for a woman always hurt like fuck....
anyhow...would the marriage be better if people were virgins....it seems all the isuues you put foward againt having sex before marriage can be countered by a degree of maturity when having sex, if both partners are loving sexual performance shouldnt be a huge issue, which ever one is at fault would get better if they had a good teacher
by not having sex just to counteract those things, it seems extreme. you CAN have sex freely and still be able to marry someone successfully. on that basis no
but do i think that an awful lot of marriages mightbe better......yes
anyhow...would the marriage be better if people were virgins....it seems all the isuues you put foward againt having sex before marriage can be countered by a degree of maturity when having sex, if both partners are loving sexual performance shouldnt be a huge issue, which ever one is at fault would get better if they had a good teacher
by not having sex just to counteract those things, it seems extreme. you CAN have sex freely and still be able to marry someone successfully. on that basis no
but do i think that an awful lot of marriages mightbe better......yes
Good thread curling! I think morals are really bad in this country and that's why so many people get divorced. I think people would ideally wait until marriage, but that seems kind of unrealistic. People should DEFINITELY wait until they are in some kind of relationship. I think one-night stands, sex on the first date, etc. is really pathetic and just shows how cheap you consider yourself to be. Also, most babies killed by abortion are as a consequence of people having meaningless sex outside of marriage
I mentioned the topic of premarital intercourse once before, on the thread about homosexuality, because the bible passage that someone quoted against sodomy also mentioned fornication. So I'm glad someone finally started a thread on this!
I mentioned the topic of premarital intercourse once before, on the thread about homosexuality, because the bible passage that someone quoted against sodomy also mentioned fornication. So I'm glad someone finally started a thread on this!
huntmaster
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Yes---marriages consisting of two individuals who are sexually pure from the beginning are much more successfull.
great thread curling!
great thread curling!
As with everything else, it is an individual thing... I honestly believe that you should live with someone before you get married, how do you not know that you aren't going to drive eachother insane? I come from a fairly strict Catholic upbringing, and my parents lived together before marriage, and so did my older sister, and my older brother, live with their fiances before they got married.
as for the sex, I can only speak from personal experience. I was not an ugly person, nor was I the best looking... I think a little better than average.... I had chances for sex, many, but I never did. I finally met the woman I believed I was going to marry (in fact, I was actually engaged to her). She is still the only woman I have ever had sex with. But... as Curling said about STD's... I found out she was cheating on me because they found out at my Army physical that I had Chlymidia. (sp?) So... basically, I took all the precautions I thought were necessary, only had sex with the woman I thought I would marry, and still wound up with an STD. I can't really say I regret waiting now, and not nailing everything I could, but in a way, I wish I would have taken more chances and enjoyed more than I did...
as for the sex, I can only speak from personal experience. I was not an ugly person, nor was I the best looking... I think a little better than average.... I had chances for sex, many, but I never did. I finally met the woman I believed I was going to marry (in fact, I was actually engaged to her). She is still the only woman I have ever had sex with. But... as Curling said about STD's... I found out she was cheating on me because they found out at my Army physical that I had Chlymidia. (sp?) So... basically, I took all the precautions I thought were necessary, only had sex with the woman I thought I would marry, and still wound up with an STD. I can't really say I regret waiting now, and not nailing everything I could, but in a way, I wish I would have taken more chances and enjoyed more than I did...
