Women

[Grumpy Old Man]

Perhaps the word "Nice" is wrong. Reading yours and Nef's posts I realized that the word can have different connotations to different people. I too, have met people who are artificial and saccharine.

Instead of Nice, insert the words "Decent and Kind."

My husband is the first and only man I've ever had a personal relationship with whose ever been absolutely decent to me, never hurt me, never lied to me, never used me and never emotionally manipulated me.

However, I don't consider calling a spade a spade being anything other than forthright, whether you're a man or woman (in fact, we consider honesty 100% critical). And as for occasionally being in a bad mood, that's being human. Since both he and I were abused children it's easy for us to blame ourselves if our s/o is upset or angry. We have a deal, if you're in a bad mood just tell the other that you're in a bad mood and they didn't cause it. Needing that reassurance may be hard to understand but it goes back to some of the emotional manipulation I've lived with. My ex (and my father) were very good at making me feel like their bad mood was my fault, like I failed or fucked up somehow. It's very hard to break out of something that you grew up with and then went and married yourself into, rationalizations and therapy aside, sometimes you just need a little reassurance.

It's pretty simple, either you respect and care for your mate or you don't. Respect gets you respect and caring/loving gets you the same back. Unless you are looking for empty headed idiots both come male and female. Then please do not breed and when you are old, single, bitter, alone then either eat a bullet or in oceanos case use a short rope.
I agree with MM velvet, tat, smury and the old hag.

 

[Bikini Mod]

It's pretty simple, either you respect and care for your mate or you don't. Respect gets you respect and caring/loving gets you the same back. Unless you are looking for empty headed idiots both come male and female. Then please do not breed and when you are old, single, bitter, alone then either eat a bullet or in oceanos case use a short rope.
I agree with MM velvet, tat, smury and the old hag.

Hey Old MAN!... Did you read what MM said in the post that you responded to?

Denying that you are irritated with *the rest of the world* does not = you not being in a bad mood. So, all you gotta do is TELL ME, "Baby - the world got on my one last nerve today, so go easy on me. It isn't YOU..." ... so I won't feel like I did do something to tick you off, when I didn't. But when you are short w/me I still assume blame.

Now you gettin why I just turn off my cell or walk out of the room or leave the house when I can tell you are irritated by something? .... Doesn't matter that I wasn't the one who did it to you. I still feel like I am being blamed because you are in a bad mood and just won't TELL ME.

If you TELL ME about it, maybe the feeling of irritation will leave you sooner?

I am not asking anything that I don't do myself.

Now I have to go out and buy a fucking pencil. I can't believe THAT BITCH stole all of my freaking pencils! oi

 

[chris302001]

Now I have to go out and buy a fucking pencil. I can't believe THAT BITCH stole all of my freaking pencils! oi

Are ya'll still finding shit missing?

 

[bw1]

Hey Old MAN!... Did you read what MM said in the post that you responded to?

Denying that you are irritated with *the rest of the world* does not = you not being in a bad mood. So, all you gotta do is TELL ME, "Baby - the world got on my one last nerve today, so go easy on me. It isn't YOU..." ... so I won't feel like I did do something to tick you off, when I didn't. But when you are short w/me I still assume blame.

Now you gettin why I just turn off my cell or walk out of the room or leave the house when I can tell you are irritated by something? .... Doesn't matter that I wasn't the one who did it to you. I still feel like I am being blamed because you are in a bad mood and just won't TELL ME.

If you TELL ME about it, maybe the feeling of irritation will leave you sooner?

I am not asking anything that I don't do myself.

Now I have to go out and buy a fucking pencil. I can't believe THAT BITCH stole all of my freaking pencils! oi

Don't call him old man...I'll get you in a head lock...Us men have to stick together in defense of the "Dragon Women"

 

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[Grumpy Old Man]

Are ya'll still finding shit missing?

Yeah, she must have needed this stuff more than us. The cases of lamps we bought things that we bought to do our remodel. But hey she has them we just get more to replace what she decided she had to have. Just a bit irritating to pay someone $25 an hour to go get what we already had.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Are ya'll still finding shit missing?

Shit, I needed a stinking PENCIL.

For fuck's sake... it was a fucking PENCIL. You think that the dumb thieving C&NT could have left me ONE stinking pencil.

*sigh*

I guess she needed my pencils more than I did.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

Shit, I needed a stinking PENCIL.

For fuck's sake... it was a fucking PENCIL. You think that the dumb thieving C&NT could have left me ONE stinking pencil.

*sigh*

I guess she needed my pencils more than I did.

Geezzzz so go buy a pencil factory. We are still looking for a creative logo. AAP and leto are in

 

[Bikini Mod]

Geezzzz so go buy a pencil factory. We are still looking for a creative logo. AAP and leto are in

Dammit old man, you are supposed to be feeling MY pain.

 

[bw1]

Dammit old man, you are supposed to be feeling MY pain.

I'm going to shove a whole box of pencils up your butt