Women: would you marry a guy without a diamond ring?

[Bikini Mod]

How about the best year of his life, father to your children and his fidelity if you are lucky.
Since those things obviously merit equal worth to a woman, the woman still nets a diamond ring from the deal. So we are back to square one and why the ring is still a big deal.

Nope - an older man's value INCREASES and he does not NEED to be faithfull in order to secure his progeny.

Sorry, but the double standard bites men in the ass.

Men value beauty and women value security. When men regularly start valuing women for MORE than *just* their external beauty, maybe. Till then sorry, you boyz are left slaves to your drives.

 

[-SD-]

Gotta agree....

Funny though gold-digging materialistic skank bitch ME married a man with NO ASSETS... be married near a year and I am STILL waitin on that diamond ring.

I guess I just can't do ANYTHING *right*.

Youre like barry bonds and need an asterisk every time you say that.
*old grump was former ceo and happened to be broke when we got married, broke is temporary while poor is forever. therefore by anyones reasonable estimation, old grump was going to rebuild all assets in a matter of time anyway.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Youre like barry bonds and need an asterisk every time you say that.
*old grump was former ceo and happened to be broke when we got married, broke is temporary while poor is forever. therefore by anyones reasonable estimation, old grump was going to rebuild all assets in a matter of time anyway.

If you only knew the insurmountable walls in front of him. It went waaaaaaaaaaay deeper than losing money... waaaaaaaaaay, waaaaaaaaay deeper. But that is for HIM to share.

Suffice it to say... I firmly believe that men are best measured like trees: when they are fallen.

 

[Lumberg]

I'll be sure to get you platinum.

Dude, I am pretty sure she has free plat for life. So, like, save your money.

 

[-SD-]

If you only knew the insurmountable walls in front of him. It went waaaaaaaaaaay deeper than losing money... waaaaaaaaaay, waaaaaaaaay deeper. But that is for HIM to share.

Suffice it to say... I firmly believe that men are best measured like trees: when they are fallen.

Obviously its not so insurmountable based on the bragging on the absolutely huge rock he is going to cough up for you soon. You keep forgetting success is a mindset that he has in spades and you knew it. So after hes made bigshit ceo then he really doesnt have a lot of insurmountable walls when he decides to make some money after losing it. Dont mistake what Im saying for accusations that youre a golddigger or anything, I think its great youve found a nice successful man but if I hear you say "I married him with absolutely NO assets and we were all starving" like you are all noble and innocent without any security motive whatsoever Im going to puke.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Obviously its not so insurmountable based on the bragging on the absolutely huge rock he is going to cough up for you soon. You keep forgetting success is a mindset that he has in spades and you knew it. So after hes made bigshit ceo then he really doesnt have a lot of insurmountable walls when he decides to make some money after losing it. Dont mistake what Im saying for accusations that youre a golddigger or anything, I think its great youve found a nice successful man but if I hear you say "I married him with absolutely NO assets and we were all starving" like you are all noble and innocent without any security motive whatsoever Im going to puke.

Who said the word, "SOON?!"

 

[-SD-]

Who said the word, "SOON?!"

Come on, regardless of timing you know its going to happen, which is way more than the vast majority of women could hope to expect from their husbands who are just trying to make ends meet every month after putting a 3k rock on plastic.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

OK Superdavedude,,

A ring cause it is pretty, a wife cause she is a human being beyond compare,faithful- not a problem where can I go and find a woman that married me when I lost everything.

Once ya make it it is easy. But that was in my 30's now as I am almost 60 recouping is not so simple.

Luckily I am one of the top 1% in my field, or I would be working at the drive-up a little longer, now that HR had her beautiful baby I am no longer in demand.

SO a ring is just something to wear, she already has more rings than fingers, each one of a kind. You don't even want to know what the ring I am going to get her looks like.... only buy diamonds in Russia....

What is exactly your issue? I am confused.

 

[-SD-]

OK Superdavedude,,

A ring cause it is pretty, a wife cause she is a human being beyond compare,faithful- not a problem where can I go and find a woman that married me when I lost everything.

Once ya make it it is easy. But that was in my 30's now as I am almost 60 recouping is not so simple.

Luckily I am one of the top 1% in my field, or I would be working at the drive-up a little longer, now that HR ad her beautiful baby I am no longer in demand.

SO a ring is just something to wear, she already has more rings than fingers, each one of a kind.

What is exactly your issue? I am confused.

My point is everytime i read a bmom post she touts how she married you when you had nothing, which is all well and good until we find out that you were a former ceo and were highly successful the whole time, and just happened to be broke right now. She knows and I know that people who are successful dont stay broke long, even Trump has declared bankruptcy before but doesnt matter look at him now. Broke is temporary, poor is forever. A successful mindset is forever also, and I think bmom knew this all along and wasnt taking some noble blind leap of faith on you. Once again I dont think any of that is bad but wish she would put that caveat every time she says "I married old grump when he had zero assets and was living in his office, etc etc" She is proving what I am saying with you two talking about the huge rock you are going to get and your connections to the russian dealer and all that other high brow stuff that unsuccessful people without means just cant say. I think its great you are able to do all of that by the way, nothing like a comeback story

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

My point is everytime i read a bmom post she touts how she married you when you had nothing, which is all well and good until we find out that you were a former ceo and were highly successful the whole time, and just happened to be broke right now. She knows and I know that people who are successful dont stay broke long, even Trump has declared bankruptcy before but doesnt matter look at him now. Broke is temporary, poor is forever. A successful mindset is forever also, and I think bmom knew this all along and wasnt taking some noble blind leap of faith on you. Once again I dont think any of that is bad but wish she would put that caveat every time she says "I married old grump when he had zero assets and was living in his office, etc etc" She is proving what I am saying with you two talking about the huge rock you are going to get and your connections to the russian dealer and all that other high brow stuff that unsuccessful people without means just cant say. I think its great you are able to do all of that by the way, nothing like a comeback story

Ya gotta love youngsters! As I said, when I was in my 30's it was easy. People that are/were successful seldom fail perpetually. Although she had no idea if I would or would not survive. She and her family/friends supported me on her word alone. Of course they met me and believed what I said, this was due to BM's representations no more no less. I could have been a huge con and a loser.

She made a decision based on her heart. Ya get it now? She is an awesome human being, gives of herself without question and has supported me through all that I have had happen.

You have no idea what the last women did to me. A few million was nothing compared to her sickness and black heart.

I am blessed to have a lady like my wife to walk by my side. I have to say I am not religious, but holistic so blessed is a strong word for me.

Any other questions please refer to the second paragraph or PM me and I will give you all the dirty details of how badly I was fucked.