Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second date?

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

So I need to ask BM for a couple dollars for lunch? SHIT thanks bro

lol...like when you were a child and asked your mom for allowance

 

[bigmann245]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

One.


My ob/gyn.


LOL.

old dude feeling you up. when i would go to my wifes appointments it was weird seeing another guy doing that right in front of me. but when she started seeing a female ob/gyn that was a whole different story, i would bring the and a towel.

 

[bigmann245]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

lol...like when you were a child and asked your mom for allowance

we have 3 accounts. one for the bills and such, the other 2 one for me and one for her for our spending money. if one of ours runs out then we beg the other for a loan. but we don't always have to repay with cash

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

we have 3 accounts. one for the bills and such, the other 2 one for me and one for her for our spending money. if one of ours runs out then we beg the other for a loan. but we don't always have to repay with cash

uuuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhh.....thats kinky

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

old dude feeling you up. when i would go to my wifes appointments it was weird seeing another guy doing that right in front of me. but when she started seeing a female ob/gyn that was a whole different story, i would bring the and a towel.

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

we have 3 accounts. one for the bills and such, the other 2 one for me and one for her for our spending money. if one of ours runs out then we beg the other for a loan. but we don't always have to repay with cash

Ummmmm....that just majorly turned me on.

Good plan.

 

[Jon79]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

Ummmmm....that just majorly turned me on.

Good plan.

will u b my sugar momma??

 

[bigmann245]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

will u b my sugar momma??

shes gotta get some "sugar" first

 

[Jon79]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

shes gotta get some "sugar" first

oh....

she will get more than sugar

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

will u b my sugar momma??

I'm like dentene, at the moment, sugar free.

You will have to just love me for my sweet disposition and cooking skills.

 

[javaguru]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I'm like dentene, at the moment, sugar free.

You will have to just love me for my sweet disposition and cooking skills.

Get used to being single HR....

 

[Jon79]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I'm like dentene, at the moment, sugar free.

You will have to just love me for my sweet disposition and cooking skills.

......

 

[bigmann245]

when we had our son i was in the navy. us service members do not get paid crap, especially when you first get in. but i was an E-5 and sadly we qualified for wick for my son. free milk, cheese and cereal amongst other things. i was shocked when we filled out the paperwork and they said we qualified. we had so much milk and cheese we had to give some away.

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

Get used to being single HR....

LOL...this is the longest I've gone without a boyfriend since I was in high school. I always have a steady bf.

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

when we had our son i was in the navy. us service members do not get paid crap, especially when you first get in. but i was an E-5 and sadly we qualified for wick for my son. free milk, cheese and cereal amongst other things. i was shocked when we filled out the paperwork and they said we qualified. we had so much milk and cheese we had to give some away.

they are so generous with the milk, cheese and cereal, but they dont even let you get diapers!

 

[javaguru]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

when we had our son i was in the navy. us service members do not get paid crap, especially when you first get in. but i was an E-5 and sadly we qualified for wick for my son. free milk, cheese and cereal amongst other things. i was shocked when we filled out the paperwork and they said we qualified. we had so much milk and cheese we had to give some away.

The military is great if you're single....not a good profession for a family man.

 

[heatherrae]

when we had our son i was in the navy. us service members do not get paid crap, especially when you first get in. but i was an E-5 and sadly we qualified for wick for my son. free milk, cheese and cereal amongst other things. i was shocked when we filled out the paperwork and they said we qualified. we had so much milk and cheese we had to give some away.

HOPEFULLY, I will be able to get full time back into law after the baby is here. My mom did the WIC program for about a year when she had her third child because of some hard times. It did help out lots. If I had to do it, I would. I hope that I'm able to breastfeed okay and that will be all the baby needs to eat for at least several months.

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

they are so generous with the milk, cheese and cereal, but they dont even let you get diapers!

Yeah, you would think they would want to keep those baby bottoms covered!

I would like to put together a place where women can come to get clothing, diapers, wipes, car seats, etc. Maybe some nice companies would donate and then women in the community would supply hand me downs etc.

I think after the baby is here and I have the energy, I would like to do stuff to help other single mommies out.

 

[bigmann245]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

The military is great if you're single....not a good profession for a family man.

thats what i said but too bad it was after i got married and had a child. but seriously if your gonna gt married and start a family do NOT do it while in the service. i had some guys wives call the commanding officer and complain that their husband is gone too much and all he says is the navy owns him and he has no choice, but now that you called im gonna send him on another deployment to help you out. yea they are assholes.

 

[BigRupe]

but i do agree that most men do expect SOMETHING from paying. to tell you the truth even if you went dutch they expect things. not all guys but i know a lot of guys that do, and if a woman pays they will keep expecting you too and then become a mooch. i for one would NEVER mooch even if i dated a movie star, id still pay.

What if you dated some rich but low self-esteem chick like Britney Spears?

I know for SURE I'd let her pay just so she can benefit from me not being one of her fucked up loser friends!

I'm sure you'd do the same and tell her she got off cheap. LOL

 

[biteme]

HOPEFULLY, I will be able to get full time back into law after the baby is here. My mom did the WIC program for about a year when she had her third child because of some hard times. It did help out lots. If I had to do it, I would. I hope that I'm able to breastfeed okay and that will be all the baby needs to eat for at least several months.

Keep hunting for a loaded man. You'll get one eventually.

 

[biteme]

If I'm gonna have to buy pussy, I'm not gonna get an old one like myself. I'd get a real young one.

 

[heatherrae]

Keep hunting for a loaded man. You'll get one eventually.

Darling, if I just wanted a loaded man, I could have married one among MANY at any time in my life.

You need to check take your attitude back to the trailer.

 

[gotmilk]

and butt sex would be the cake, icing and a glass of milk?

lol.

Hello?

 

[Bikini Mod]

If I'm gonna have to buy pussy, I'm not gonna get an old one like myself. I'd get a real young one.

LOL and young pussy is more valuable because?

How old is your current lady?

I rest my case.

 

[KillahBee]

Ignorance is runnin amok!!!!!!

 

[Faizakafez]

okay serious question, hopefully i didnt wnat to create a thread hopefully it will get burried in some posts..

say you have been talking to a girl for a while she is real nice girl and wanted to do kinda like a picnic thingy on the beach

is bringing a flower (key word letter A)

is it

a) ghey b) stupid c) douche d) any other words you can think of ?

just to hi-jack ( heather you dont mind )

well this plan went down the crapper...

 

[Bikini Mod]

I have to say that SOME of the men (funny it is always the same ones) getting all defensive and pissy on this thread is not only understandable, but predictable. I am very surprized though at some of the women's responses to SOME of the other women's opinions. It saddens me to see women at odds with one another over something so silly. Why so defensive? If everyone had the same viewpoints then life would be pretty boring. Opposing points of view are WONDERFUL, but the personal attacks the board can do without.

I haven't said anything that degrades a woman who chooses to put out her money or her choochie. It is HERS to put out. Who am I to judge? Hell, I fucked my husband within 5 hours of having met him in the flesh. And? So?

I EXPECT a man to pay - period. How this is offensive to ANY other man or woman is beyond me. If the man who is PURSUING ME has an issue with this then we dont go out and I dont shed a tear. I just shift the focus of my attention to a man whose thinking is more in alignment with my own.

And for the women who think that by PAYING either what they view as *their share* or even ALL they have alleviated the man's sense of entitlement to play - they are mistaken.

All men WANT some touch eventually otherwise they wouldnt be going out with the lady. To deny this is ridiculous and counterproductive as women want touch too.

Everyone need to relax and take deep breaths.

You want to pay as the woman - you go! WE wont be going on any dates, so why should it matter to me?

 

[CrazyRussian]

Amen. I remember when my girl and I went to the beach and she busted out a few tupperware containers of this very simple salad, and some lukewarm drumsticks. And for desert, one Snickers bar. It was by far the most enjoyable meal I've had in my life.

Too bad for you... the most enjoyable meal I have had was prepared for me by MY HUSBAND.

How old are you... 26? At that age the most enjoyable meal prepared for you should have been made by YOUR MOTHER.

When was the last time you put forth the effort? You think that because a wallet is fat that *makes it all ok*?

NOT!

The first person who explains to me how the second post is at all a logical continutation/reply to the first post gets all of my K. I've read it over 10 times and I still don't get it. And I'm far from 26, as a sidebar.

 

[cindylou]

I dont know ; unless she was replying to someone else's post. Thats the only thing I can think of.

And at 26 I am cooking for my husband, thank god his mom still does not cook for him LOL

what page in this thread is that on?

 

[Bikini Mod]

The first person who explains to me how the second post is at all a logical continutation/reply to the first post gets all of my K. I've read it over 10 times and I still don't get it. And I'm far from 26, as a sidebar.

You are a 26 year old cocky male that is so busy wrapped up in YOUR OWN HEAD that you couldnt BEGIN to understand my words. Not a personal attack, but merely an observation.

Lets just say that you look at life from your place (which is hardly having lived it on your own - not a cheap shot, just sayin) and I am looking at it from just the other side meaning, I still have a loooooooooooong way to go. The difference is that I realize my station, while you are so full of bravado that you CAN'T.

One is not better than the other. It just is what it is.

Be happy with YOUR reality and I continue to be happy in mine (the one that my husband and I have created for ourselves and our family).

 

[CrazyRussian]

I dont know ; unless she was replying to someone else's post. Thats the only thing I can think of.

And at 26 I am cooking for my husband, thank god his mom still does not cook for him LOL

what page in this thread is that on?

My post = last one on Page 30.
Her reply = post #306, in the middle of page 31.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I dont know ; unless she was replying to someone else's post. Thats the only thing I can think of.

And at 26 I am cooking for my husband, thank god his mom still does not cook for him LOL

what page in this thread is that on?

It is not so much the age, but rather the station in life.

At 26 I was married, self-employed and had 2 children.

 

[jd_uk]

The first person who explains to me how the second post is at all a logical continutation/reply to the first post gets all of my K. I've read it over 10 times and I still don't get it. And I'm far from 26, as a sidebar.

Bmom doesn't tend to do logic. She does however reply with ridiculously long and slightly unrelated replies.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Bmom doesn't tend to do logic. She does however reply with ridiculously long and slightly unrelated replies.

LOL

Interesting that only the young men who take offense about being called to task feel this way.

Amazing, I can run an oil and gas company but I am not *logical* enough for the 20 something year old posters on the chatboard at elite.

Good thing oil and gas is so simple. eh? Or is it that the investors' attention span is longer than TITS and ASS?!

 

[jd_uk]

LOL

Interesting that only the young men who take offense about being called to task feel this way.

Amazing, I can run an oil and gas company but I am not *logical* enough for the 20 something year old posters on the chatboard at elite.

Good thing oil and gas is so simple. eh? Or is it that the investors' attention span is longer than TITS and ASS?!

You've got me all figured out Bmom. Well done. Exactly my point btw.

 

[cindylou]

My post = last one on Page 30.
Her reply = post #306, in the middle of page 31.

She must know your character from other posts and is commenting on that I guess. But you say you are not 26>???

Hell I have no idea I'm lost.

Sorry!

 

[cindylou]

It is not so much the age, but rather the station in life.

At 26 I was married, self-employed and had 2 children.

all good. If DH's mom had been cooking for him still....the attraction would not have been there for sure. lol!!!

 

[CrazyRussian]

You are a 26 year old cocky male that is so busy wrapped up in YOUR OWN HEAD that you couldnt BEGIN to understand my words. Not a personal attack, but merely an observation.

Lets just say that you look at life from your place (which is hardly having lived it on your own - not a cheap shot, just sayin) and I am looking at it from just the other side meaning, I still have a loooooooooooong way to go. The difference is that I realize my station, while you are so full of bravado that you CAN'T.

One is not better than the other. It just is what it is.

Be happy with YOUR reality and I continue to be happy in mine (the one that my husband and I have created for ourselves and our family).

Uhhh, I'm not 26. I must have been far too sublte in my last post when I said "I am not 26." So let me say it again, I'm not 26. Let's just say you're about 7 and a half years off. And I still have no idea what you're talking about.

But I am glad that you are all grown up. Enjoy it. I'm enjoying living the "young life". Because i know that at 26 I will be successful, maybe married and maybe not, and probably making...say...4 times as much money as both you and your husband were at that age.

 

[Bikini Mod]

You've got me all figured out Bmom. Well done. Exactly my point btw.

I gave you a rather well-versed well thought-put reply to your last questions to me specifically. Never heard a reply...

The fact is men like you get your underoos in a wad because YOU take offense to being called cheap.

But I NEVER called a man like you cheap. I just said that WE would never go out because neither of us meets the others' dating criteria.

So now, what was your point exactly?

 

[KillahBee]

"At 26 I was married, self-employed and had 2 children" ......yeah, I'm sure everything was rosy cause it seems like you haven't had any issues that relate to immaturity over your life.

lmfao

 

[Bikini Mod]

"At 26 I was married, self-employed and had 2 children" ......yeah, I'm sure everything was rosy cause it seems like you haven't had any issues that relate to immaturity over your life.

lmfao

I made a TERRIBLE choice in whom I married the first time. But I didn't pussy out and just call it quits. I busted MY ASS for my family. You wouldnt BEGIN to know about maturity or responsibility as you have only to be responsible for yourself. And from what you post up, that is a VERY GOOD THING. <--- kudos for you to know your limitations.

The *issues* that you speak of have less to do with *maturity* and EVERYTHING to do with how MY ENTIRE FAMILY is getting fucked by the system.

So what is your point? And what is so funny?

 

[Bikini Mod]

Uhhh, I'm not 26. I must have been far too sublte in my last post when I said "I am not 26." So let me say it again, I'm not 26. Let's just say you're about 7 and a half years off. And I still have no idea what you're talking about.

But I am glad that you are all grown up. Enjoy it. I'm enjoying living the "young life". Because i know that at 26 I will be successful, maybe married and maybe not, and probably making...say...4 times as much money as both you and your husband were at that age.

My bad, you are 7 and a half years YOUNGER.

Conversation over... you have NO FUCKING CLUE what you are talking about. You *think* you know something about me and you know NOTHING about the man who married me.

 

[crazyjoe]

Jesus christ! I can't believe this thread is still going.

 

[jd_uk]

I gave you a rather well-versed well thought-put reply to your last questions to me specifically. Never heard a reply...

The fact is men like you get your underoos in a wad because YOU take offense to being called cheap.

But I NEVER called a man like you cheap. I just said that WE would never go out because neither of us meets the others' dating criteria.

So now, what was your point exactly?

Once again Bmom completely misses the point. I haven't been called cheap by anyone...ever and also i have not taken offence to anything on this thread (and prob in my time spent on ef). What exactly makes you assume that i've personally taken offence to anything?

Only real points i've made on this thread are:

1) Most men would appreciate a woman much more if she didn't "expect" to be paid for.

2) In reply to someone else: Bmom isn't very good at logic. To which you then replied something along the lines of '...but i deal with oil and gas and i'm older than you so i must be good at logic', therefore proving my point that you aren't good at logic. Do you see that point now Bmom?

 

[CrazyRussian]

My bad, you are 7 and a half years YOUNGER.

Conversation over... you have NO FUCKING CLUE what you are talking about. You *think* you know something about me and you know NOTHING about the man who married me.

DING DING DING! You'd think that the same intuition that allows you to spar with oil executives over multi billion dollar contracts (and blame the "system for all of your problems) would allow you to see that you're talking to someone half your age.

Regardless I don't care about you or any of your husbands. Thankfully I come from a respectable, stable family (look it up online) where no one's ever heard of daddy touching someone, or custody battles, or divorces. But hey I admit, you have been through more than me. Thank god...

 

[KillahBee]

2) In reply to someone else: Bmom isn't very good at logic. To which you then replied something along the lines of '...but i deal with oil and gas and i'm older than you so i must be good at logic', therefore proving my point that you aren't good at logic. Do you see that point now Bmom?

lololol

DUDE! People have been trying for ions to get her to just communicate directly and logically. You should know by now that you will only get some longwinded diatribe meant to hide the fact that she is not directly responding to you and instead, going off on a completely random tangent. And she'll throw in a few "hunny" and "dawlin" comments to try and speak down to you without having the balls to truly put it out there.

You're too smart for that bor.

 

[jd_uk]

lololol

DUDE! People have been trying for ions to get her to just communicate directly and logically. You should know by now that you will only get some longwinded diatribe meant to hide the fact that she is not directly responding to you and instead, going off on a completely random tangent. And she'll throw in a few "hunny" and "dawlin" comments to try and speak down to you without having the balls to truly put it out there.

You're too smart for that bor.

I'm not going to stay for the 2 page long reply that awaits me. I hope not to anyway. Must.. have.. the.. willpower.

 

[Bikini Mod]

DING DING DING! You'd think that the same intuition that allows you to spar with oil executives over multi billion dollar contracts (and blame the "system for all of your problems) would allow you to see that you're talking to someone half your age.

Regardless I don't care about you or any of your husbands. Thankfully I come from a respectable, stable family (look it up online) where no one's ever heard of daddy touching someone, or custody battles, or divorces. But hey I admit, you have been through more than me. Thank god...

Dude - amazing isn't it. That I can successfully navigate such deals (not easy for a woman to do in a man's world as it is VERY "Good Ole Boy") but I am *clueless* when it comes to what goes on in a court of law?

Hell one of the O&G companies that my husband does consulting for (with my input) said that I should broker for them.

Did the thought EVER occur to young little snot-nosed you that *perhaps* THE FACT that I am happily married to an amazing man and the fact that I can and do run OUR businesses (yes, there is more than one) successfully is an indication that maybe - just maybe... I am telling... THE TRUTH?

please... you are making yourself look even worse.

 

[Bikini Mod]

lololol

DUDE! People have been trying for ions to get her to just communicate directly and logically. You should know by now that you will only get some longwinded diatribe meant to hide the fact that she is not directly responding to you and instead, going off on a completely random tangent. And she'll throw in a few "hunny" and "dawlin" comments to try and speak down to you without having the balls to truly put it out there.

You're too smart for that bor.

As if *this* makes sense?

Dude, why dont you just make a little cartoon of a piggie and draw an arrow pointing at is calling it *me*.

 

[crazyjoe]

As if *this* makes sense?

Dude, why dont you just make a little cartoon of a piggie and draw an arrow pointing at is calling it *me*.

Don't forget the pig would be going "MOO"!

 

[CrazyRussian]

Dude - amazing isn't it. That I can successfully navigate such deals (not easy for a woman to do in a man's world as it is VERY "Good Ole Boy") but I am *clueless* when it comes to what goes on in a court of law?

Hell one of the O&G companies that my husband does consulting for (with my input) said that I should broker for them.

Did the thought EVER occur to young little snot-nosed you that *perhaps* THE FACT that I am happily married to an amazing man and the fact that I can and do run OUR businesses (yes, there is more than one) successfully is an indication that maybe - just maybe... I am telling... THE TRUTH?

please... you are making yourself look even worse.

Yes, it is amazing that you can be succesful in the business world and be clueless in a court of law. And no the fact that you have any semblence of intelligence never even once crossed my mind. If you are telling the truth, the fact that you were able to attain such a position both boggles me and encourages me. And I think you're delusional. But please keep typing long, impassioned responses to the "young little snot-nosed" kid.

 

[Bikini Mod]

DING DING DING! You'd think that the same intuition that allows you to spar with oil executives over multi billion dollar contracts (and blame the "system for all of your problems) would allow you to see that you're talking to someone half your age.

Regardless I don't care about you or any of your husbands. Thankfully I come from a respectable, stable family (look it up online) where no one's ever heard of daddy touching someone, or custody battles, or divorces. But hey I admit, you have been through more than me. Thank god...

LOL @stable and respectable. As if a divorce/custody battle/or having been a child that was molested makes them less respectable.

WHO THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?

The difference between you and me is that I am not one for sweeping shit under the carpet to protect abusers. And if tragedy like that has never touched your life then one would think that would make you MORE HUMBLE, NOT MORE JUDGMENTAL.

But seeing as how you are a snotty child (based on your behavior here), that would defy logic... would it not?

 

[Bikini Mod]

Yes, it is amazing that you can be succesful in the business world and be clueless in a court of law. And no the fact that you have any semblence of intelligence never even once crossed my mind. If you are telling the truth, the fact that you were able to attain such a position both boggles me and encourages me. And I think you're delusional. But please keep typing long, impassioned responses to the "young little snot-nosed" kid.

You can think what you like. It only reinforces your silliness and your impudence.

I thought that needto explained that to you the other day.

Maybe not...

You have NO CLUE who you are talking to or about, either me or my husband - I have only ONE.

I can be successfull in my business and personal relationships but I am *delusional* when it comes to the system?

Now who lacks logic... puh-lease.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Don't forget the pig would be going "MOO"!

Oh yea, THAT was real classy.

 

[CrazyRussian]

LOL @stable and respectable. As if a divorce/custody battle/or having been a child that was molested makes them less respectable.

WHO THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?

The difference between you and me is that I am not one for sweeping shit under the carpet to protect abusers. And if tragedy like that has never touched your life then one would think that would make you MORE HUMBLE, NOT MORE JUDGMENTAL.

But seeing as how you are a snotty child (based on your behavior here), that would defy logic... would it not?

Ah so now apparently I like to "sweep shit under the carpet to protect abusers"?

Anyways I'm not going to keep arguing with you. You're so below me intellectually that I actually have nothing more to say. You're a mess lol

 

[Bikini Mod]

Ah so now apparently I like to "sweep shit under the carpet to protect abusers"?

Anyways I'm not going to keep arguing with you. You're so below me intellectually that I actually have nothing more to say. You're a mess lol

I am far below you intellectually?

WERD

Game, set, match = the CRAZY snot-nosed russian.











Did your winkie just grow a 6th of an inch. I *let you* win.

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

My IQ just dropped by 20 points

 

[alien amp pharm]

So let me get this straight. After 40 some years of being a complete and utter fuckup in every aspect of life, BM goes on sugardaddyforme.com and stumbles on her doormat of a husband and now she's suddenly the guru of the relationship and financial world ?

BAWAHAHAHAHAHAHA

That is beyond comical!

Anyone who takes anything she says seriously has to be a dumbass.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

So let me get this straight. After 40 some years of being a complete and utter fuckup in every aspect of life, BM goes on sugardaddyforme.com and stumbles on her doormat of a husband and now she's suddenly the guru of the relationship and financial world ?

BAWAHAHAHAHAHAHA

That is beyond comical!

Anyone who takes anything she says seriously has to be a dumbass.

Dude, you really need to get laid. Or at least if your mommy lets you use the computer please be polite.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

Jesus christ! I can't believe this thread is still going.

That's two of us!



I gotta get back to the drive up window the cars are backing up and I am making HR's extra thick shake!

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

LOL...this is the longest I've gone without a boyfriend since I was in high school. I always have a steady bf.

So what am I chopped liver?

 

[heatherrae]

Okay, boys.

This wasn't a jump on bikini mom thread.

Honestly, who cares what my preference is, or bikinimom's preference is, or superqt's, or blueta's, or stilleto's , etc, etc. You aren't going to be dating us. It won't be an issue. There are plenty of women who fall on each side of the fence about what they feel is comfortable/appropriate for a first date situation. There wont be any trouble in everyone finding the perfect guy/gal that fits their ideal.

Soooo, can we PLEASE limit the conversation to the cordial debate at hand rather than taking stabs at painful areas of bikinimom's life? Seriously.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

I have to say that SOME of the men (funny it is always the same ones) getting all defensive and pissy on this thread is not only understandable, but predictable. I am very surprized though at some of the women's responses to SOME of the other women's opinions. It saddens me to see women at odds with one another over something so silly. Why so defensive? If everyone had the same viewpoints then life would be pretty boring. Opposing points of view are WONDERFUL, but the personal attacks the board can do without.

I haven't said anything that degrades a woman who chooses to put out her money or her choochie. It is HERS to put out. Who am I to judge? Hell, I fucked my husband within 5 hours of having met him in the flesh. And? So?

I EXPECT a man to pay - period. How this is offensive to ANY other man or woman is beyond me. If the man who is PURSUING ME has an issue with this then we dont go out and I dont shed a tear. I just shift the focus of my attention to a man whose thinking is more in alignment with my own.

And for the women who think that by PAYING either what they view as *their share* or even ALL they have alleviated the man's sense of entitlement to play - they are mistaken.

All men WANT some touch eventually otherwise they wouldnt be going out with the lady. To deny this is ridiculous and counterproductive as women want touch too.

Everyone need to relax and take deep breaths.

You want to pay as the woman - you go! WE wont be going on any dates, so why should it matter to me?

Well yeah everyone wants a lawn gnome we are hot!

 

[Tytan]

Does Bikinimom always wear a bikini?

 

[Faizakafez]

just to hi-jack ( heather you dont mind )

well this plan went down the crapper...

back to my failed hi jack

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

Does Bikinimom always wear a bikini?

At home no and then only when we have company. Other wise she dresses in a bandana harley boots and a smile. Hardly ever see her with any clothes on.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Does Bikinimom always wear a bikini?

No, actually I am nekkid most of the time.

As for the rest, we have a handfull of men that take offense when a woman expects a man to pay for a date. Why they would take offense to this is beyond me.

But I am the one who is - a trainwreck, arrogant, stupid, etc...



Funny, they put so much effort into so many posts to try and TELL ME about MY LIFE while I could GIVE A SHIT about theirs. Methinks they should get lives of their own and mine would seem so much less interesting... or dare I say, ENVIABLE? I mean damn, I know my garage is intimidating, but come on boys... relax. Maybe if your girlfriends pay ya'll enough then someday you will be able to save up your pennies and be able to live in one that is just as nice.

How fuckin ridiculous the lot of those small minds are...

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

So what am I chopped liver?

I was just being a milkshake digger. (my version of a gold digger).

 

[Bikini Mod]

At home no and then only when we have company. Other wise she dresses in a bandana harley boots and a smile. Hardly ever see her with any clothes on.

Stop yer lyin... you know damned well that I leave my boots at the entrance way in the washroom at the back of the house.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I was just being a milkshake digger. (my version of a gold digger).

Yeah but all I can say is HOT TUB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



(plus I ALWAYS have delivered, that's cause I love ya)

 

[Bikini Mod]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I was just being a milkshake digger. (my version of a gold digger).

LOL

Yea, amazing how only guys with NO MONEY label women like us gold-diggers.

Now if only I could suck the chrome off a bumper like little aap's girl maybe my boyfriend *cough* husband would buy me something nice.

Oh wait, he got me a Jaguar for Valentine's Day.

Nevermind.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Dude, you really need to get laid. Or at least if your mommy lets you use the computer please be polite.

No honey I think he is just challenged or lying because he said so himself - his gf can suck the chrome off a bumper. Didn't you read that thread?

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

LOL

Yea, amazing how only guys with NO MONEY label women like us gold-diggers.

Now if only I could suck the chrome off a bumper like little aap's girl maybe my boyfriend *cough* husband would buy me something nice.

Oh wait, he got me a Jaguar for Valentine's Day.

Nevermind.

I suck at gold digging. I waited until I was 30, and then I was the one with the larger income. I missed that day in gold digging 101. lol.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I suck at gold digging. I waited until I was 30, and then I was the one with the larger income. I missed that day in gold digging 101. lol.

When you visit we'll move right on to your Ph.D in gold digging the art of seduction of cash

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

When you visit we'll move right on to your Ph.D in gold digging the art of seduction of cash

cash, milkshakes and backrubs! I have high standards...lol.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I suck at gold digging. I waited until I was 30, and then I was the one with the larger income. I missed that day in gold digging 101. lol.

Me too. I start dating a guy who spends 30K A MONTH at strip clubs and by the time we get around to getting married he's fucking homeless.

Well hell.... I married him (truth be told) cause he kooks good and has major mad skillz. All the other neat stuff we have bought TOGETHER since then is just the icing on the cake.

Damn the haters.

 

[bigmann245]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I was just being a milkshake digger. (my version of a gold digger).

VINCENT: Did you just order a five-dollar shake?

MIA: Sure did.

VINCENT: A shake? Milk and ice cream?

MIA: Uh-huh.

VINCENT: It costs five dollars?

MIA: Yep.

VINCENT: You don't put bourbon in it or anything?

WAITOR: Nope.

VINCENT: Just checking.

VINCENT: Can I have a sip of that? I'd like to know what a five-dollar shake tastes like.

MIA: Be my guest. You can use my straw, I don't have kooties.

VINCENT: Yeah, but maybe I do.

MIA: Kooties I can handle.

VINCENT: Goddamn! That's a pretty fuckin' good milk shake.

MIA: Told ya.

VINCENT: I don't know if it's worth five dollars, but it's pretty fuckin' good.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

cash, milkshakes and backrubs! I have high standards...lol.

Ok, I make a gret double milkshake... When you get here it will be a single. ass gone boobs stay....

Now, backrubs, BM has a couple girls that give awesome massages... Your standards will be upheld, just don't leave me with a child that can't use the potty and make a drink.....

 

[Jon79]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I suck at gold digging. I waited until I was 30, and then I was the one with the larger income. I missed that day in gold digging 101. lol.

die gold digger