Women at college parties

[Lao Tzu]

I don't really go to parties much, but decided to try one on Halloween, just to see what it was like. I think that was one of the few actual college parties I've ever been in.

Jesus, those women are messed up inside. One girl was a hot asian (Hot + asian + attractive since puberty + no life experience = bad idea. We learned that in math class) was a manipulative bitch. She asked me if I was a cop too.

Then there was another girl who was drunk and as I was walking through a doorway put her leg up to block the door and started slurring some shit about 'how people dont communicate'. I gently grabbed her ankle and moved her leg.

There was one girl I was talking to then I got cockblocked by her friend.

Man. I consider myself pretty well adjusted and internally motivated/driven (today, I wasn't always like that) and I'm just not used to being around insecure, hateful people. It wasn't a whole lot of fun. I wonder if there are any good stories about parties. To me so many are just so full of people I wouldn't want to be around. Insecure, backbiting, rude, belligerant, etc.

I honestly don't know where I'm going with this. Yeah, I am not party material and never will be. But it'd be nice if there were gatherings that were filled with more mature people I could frequent instead.

 

[Smurfy]

I think you may be out of your element there. That's not necessarily a bad thing of course.

 

[-SD-]

Why do you think everyone gets drunk at college parties on shitass beer? To mute the effects of all the insecure douchebags and snobby bitches around them.

 

[Lao Tzu]

I'd like to find a setting where I can talk to a large amount of women though. I don't really like approaching them on the streets or in class anymore. The women at parties are totally fucked up inside and I have no desire to hit on most of them. I'm trying to find my element.

 

[SgtSlaughter]

try the library.

 

[-SD-]

I'd like to find a setting where I can talk to a large amount of women though. I don't really like approaching them on the streets or in class anymore. The women at parties are totally fucked up inside and I have no desire to hit on most of them. I'm trying to find my element.

Internet dating sites. The ones you meet you know are looking and you can see all of the compatibility generalities on paper upfront before you meet and find out she has 3 kids from 2 guys an hour into the conversation.

 

[Lao Tzu]

Alot of people complain they never get replies on dating sites. WHat are the most effective ways to overcome this?

I think the problem is that on the streets or class, the women aren't really looking so they'll get flattered, but that is about it. At parties the women are looking, but the women are total mental cases so it isn't something I'd want anyway.

 

[SgtSlaughter]

volunteer work (aka outside your regular job if you have one) = another outlet and possible source for good people to meet.

 

[HumorMe]

Was there anyone there filming those College Fuckfest videos?

 

[Matthew_31]

I would definitely recommend internet dating sites. There aren't a lot of quality girls, but there are definitely a few and th best part is they are meeting people with the idea of starting a relationship.

3 of my best friends are girls I met off of lavalife or plentyoffish.com and I met my g/f off of there too. All 4 are spectacular and I wouldnt have met them without 'net dating.

Of course, ive met some complete losers as well. BTW, the 4 girls are all cute to hot in terms of looks.

Matt