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Woman's ability to orgasm maybe genetic

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Ability to Orgasm May be Genetic
Wednesday, June 08, 2005
By Miranda Hitti


LINKS
•The Science of Female Orgasms •Prescriptions for Sexual Frustration•Sex Talk Changing With the Times•The Golden Age of Sex •Visit WebMD's Healthy Sexuality Center
A woman's genes might affect her ability to achieve orgasm, British researchers report.

They haven't found an "orgasm gene," and they don't dismiss other influences (such as cultural, social, and psychological traits). They also say they know they're wading into a "highly speculative and controversial" topic.

However, Kate Dunn of London's St. Thomas Hospital and colleagues say science has overlooked female sexuality for too long. "Until recently, little research has explored female sexual function, and yet women commonly report sexual dysfunction," they write in the journal's early online edition of Biology Letters.

The lack of scientific interest in the topic may stem from the previous consensus that the female orgasm plays no role in reproduction, they write. Recent research has challenged this concept, showing that orgasm plays a role in sperm retention.

Click here to read Web MD's "The Science of Female Orgasms."



Not a Secret Anymore

Glance at a newsstand of women's magazines, and the blaring headlines about hot sex tips and steamy affairs may make you think there's no problem in the bedroom. But that's a far cry from real life for many women.


Take the 2003 study cited by Dunn and colleagues. It showed that more than half of British women reported at least one sexual problem lasting a month or more during the previous year, and around a quarter rarely had orgasms, at best, in the previous three months.

Dunn's team sent confidential surveys to women in a U.K. registry of identical and nonidentical twins. That approach has been used in studies on many topics. It's thought that genetic influences would show up in identical twins, who share their genes, as well as upbringing.

Click here to read Web MD's Prescriptions for Sexual Frustration



Study's Findings

About 4,000 women completed the questionnaire. They were about 50 years old, on average.

The survey showed that orgasms were rare for many of the women:

—About 32 percent said they were unable to achieve orgasm during intercourse more than a quarter of the time. Half of those women never reached orgasm during intercourse.

—14 percent said they always achieved orgasm during intercourse.

More women were able to orgasm during masturbation:

—34 percent always reached orgasm.

—21 percent were still unable to orgasm more than a quarter of the time, two-thirds of whom never achieved orgasm during masturbation.

There was no difference between the proportion of identical and nonidentical twins who never or infrequently reached orgasm by either method.

However, there was less variation for the frequency of orgasm during intercourse and masturbation in identical compared with nonidentical twins, suggesting a clear genetic influence for both.

Click here to read Web MD's "Sex Talk Changing With the Times."


Genetic Influence

"We found that between 34 percent and 45 percent of the variation in ability to orgasm can be explained by underlying genetic variation, with little or no role for the shared environment (e.g. family environment, religion, social class, or early education," write the researchers.

"Our data lend support to the idea that variation in female orgasmic ability has a biological basis," say Dunn and colleagues.

Click here to visit WebMD's "Healthy Sexuality Center."


Researcher's Orgasm Advice

Recently, WebMD hosted a discussion with Jennifer Berman, MD, co-founder of the FemaleSexual Medicine Center at UCLA. Berman is also the director of female urology and sexual medicine at the Rodeo Drive Women's Health Center in Beverly Hills, Calif.

During the discussion, a 22-year-old woman said she had never had an orgasm during sex and asked Berman's advice. Here's what Berman said:

"In reality, only 30 percent of women experience orgasm with penovaginal intercourse. If you can experience orgasm through other ways such as oral sex, self-stimulation, or other, that is great and normal. For you to achieve orgasm during intercourse, you are going to need to have sufficient clitoral stimulation.

"If it is important for you to achieve orgasm during intercourse, I would encourage you to focus on increasing the level of foreplay prior to sex and try positions that increase clitoral stimulation and even consider incorporating a vibrator," Berman continued. "That being said, you should not feel pressured to achieve orgasm during sex."

Click here to read Web MD's "The Golden Age of Sex."


By Miranda Hitti, reviewed by Brunilda Nazario, MD

SOURCES: Dunn, K. Biology Letters, early online edition. WebMD Live Events Transcript: "Secrets of the Sexually Satisfied Woman." News release, The Royal Society.
 
how did parents get into this? Just bang your girl or watch her bang her self! Either way it is win win.
 
So, two shots of 151 and circles on the on switch and problem solved?
 
chesty said:
So, how do we fix the problem?

i read a study showing orgasm is 90% mental and 10% stimulation.. takes very little to orgasm.. shit i've heard girls claim they orgasm by sucking on their tits just b/c they are so into it!
 
chesty said:
So, two shots of 151 and circles on the on switch and problem solved?

No. Why do men feel that they have to "bring a woman" to orgasm? Believe it or not, we have more control over it than our partners. Also, please tell me what do you think an orgasm for a woman is. Because, for me, there are two (yes, I know TMI). Yes, positions and techniques can help a woman achieve the physiological orgasm. However, there is the "nirvana" like orgasm that I feel can only be achieved if the woman is relaxed, comfortable with herself and views sex as a beautiful thing (instead of an act designed to please him and not the both of them).
 
Talk to her


Tell her how beautiful she is



LOTS of kissing





thats 90% of it
 
nycgirl said:
No. Why do men feel that they have to "bring a woman" to orgasm? Believe it or not, we have more control over it than our partners. Also, please tell me what do you think an orgasm for a woman is. Because, for me, there are two (yes, I know TMI). Yes, positions and techniques can help a woman achieve the physiological orgasm. However, there is the "nirvana" like orgasm that I feel can only be achieved if the woman is relaxed, comfortable with herself and views sex as a beautiful thing (instead of an act designed to please him and not the both of them).


stamp of approval
 
I know about the two kinds. I personally equate it this way. There is sex and then there is making love.

I like to make sure that the woman is satisfied, etc. I'll get there every time. Why shouldn't the woman have the same?

I had one gf, that was so into it that if she didn't get an orgasm she got pissed off at the world for hours. Well, she is an ex now. Good friend but way too psychotic.
 
You don't have to make love to have the 2nd orgasm (in my opinion). Futhermore, you can do every position and technique in the world, but in the end (provided she doesn't have a medical reason), she may be the reason why she isn't getting the orgasm. Lets say she is relaxed and all of the other things I mentioned, if there is something he can do differently, tell him (instead of being pissed off about it for hours). I think women should take some responsibility over the sexual needs and desires.

Just my .02 :rose:
 
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I agree with communication. I think it has a lot to do with personality as well.

I don't believe it is all our responsibility, but guys too often don't take the time to do the "work" necessary.
 
i dont lke to think of my mom having an orgasm and stuff
 
who cares as long as you get yours?

i sure as shit don't

wait.. my girlfriend cares..

who cares about that?

i sure as shit don't
 
Agree.

But, does the guy know he is being lazy? Lack of knowledge about someone else's needs does not mean the guy is lazy. Does he know where she likes to be touched and kissed? Does he know that position doesn't work for her? Does he know her fantasies and dreams? If she doesn't share the information, she is as much to blame.

Now, if he does and doesn't care; well then, that is another topic for another thread.
 
nycgirl said:
Agree.

But, does the guy know he is being lazy? Lack of knowledge about someone else's needs does not mean the guy is lazy. Does he know where she likes to be touched and kissed? Does he know that position doesn't work for her? Does he know her fantasies and dreams? If she doesn't share the information, she is as much to blame.

Now, if he does and doesn't care, well then that is another topic for another thread.

Agree tuts

and there's a thread out there for the later... Not my situation personally but someone one I knew.
 
that is why I like to practice as often as possible. Practice makes perfect. Or in this case makes for plenty of fun.
 
maybe its just most men arent big enough to get it on the right way....if it dont hurt afterwards.....you didnt do it right....make em walk funny...
 
I was watchin this one show. Man this guy could make ANY girl orgasm in under 30 seconds, that man is a god. He showed how he did it to....if we have any takers I'd be happy to demonstrate.
 
ceasar989 said:
I was watchin this one show. Man this guy could make ANY girl orgasm in under 30 seconds, that man is a god. He showed how he did it to....if we have any takers I'd be happy to demonstrate.


Is his name Mark J? he was my best student.
 
The Shadow said:
Do a search for any Velvett post


CLick her OH MY YES link

Holy crap!! ;)

Ummmmmmmm..............be back later...........

:lmao:
 
ceasar989 said:
I was watchin this one show. Man this guy could make ANY girl orgasm in under 30 seconds, that man is a god. He showed how he did it to....if we have any takers I'd be happy to demonstrate.

I know a guy like that :p
 
ceasar989 said:
I was watchin this one show. Man this guy could make ANY girl orgasm in under 30 seconds, that man is a god. He showed how he did it to....if we have any takers I'd be happy to demonstrate.
dang does he promote a dvd or anything?
 
SoKlueles said:
dang does he promote a dvd or anything?

lol I'm not to sure. But it's not really all too complicated to be honest. It may not even be that much of a secret to some people. The technique is just stellar though. A good way to avoid breakups with the gf or wife.

It was cool though, because women that could never orgasm before, were able to orgasm within seconds because of him...lol, and they would just be convulsing for minutes afterwards. It was really quite a site.
 
ceasar989 said:
lol I'm not to sure. But it's not really all too complicated to be honest. It may not even be that much of a secret to some people, but the technique is stellar.

It was cool though, because women that could never orgasm before, were able to orgasm within seconds because of him...lol, and they would just be convulsing for minutes afterwards. It was really quite a site.

Is that guy that Japanese guy who just places his hands just over the woman?? That guy??
 
jenscats5 said:
Is that guy that Japanese guy who just places his hands just over the woman?? That guy??

This guy looked pretty american me. But yeah, it did involve placement of hands over the women and in the women. I could get into details, but that would be bts material I think.
 
ceasar989 said:
This guy looked pretty american me. But yeah, it did involve placement of hands over the women and in the women. I could get into details, but that would be bts material I think.

eh..

just go ahead.. details!

Somebody will move it if they see fit. ;)
 
ceasar989 said:
This guy looked pretty american me. But yeah, it did involve placement of hands over the women and in the women. I could get into details, but that would be bts material I think.

Well, I saw something similar done on TV, but the guy was Japanese.....
 
Frisky said:
eh..

just go ahead.. details!

Somebody will move it if they see fit. ;)

Ummm ok.

So basically, the key to the whole operation "gone in 30 seconds" is relaxing muscles.

Essentially, the male or who ever, or yourself (though its prolly best if someone else does it because it would be more relaxing...like, you would never massage yourself, would you?) and using your ring and middle finger, extend them out as far as they can go. Gently insert them and only them into the vagina, have your palm facing up. You pinky and index fingers should look curled back. Now, force these fingers as far up as you can, gently though, for this is key. Reason being, these two fingers are extremely strong as opposed to the usual index-middle finger combination. Now, without doing anything with the hand inside the woman except having the fingers inside her placed against the upper wall of her vagina, place your other hand over the abdominal region which is adjacent to the g-spot. Slowly and gently massage the area, pressing down on the muscle, rubbing it and thus creating friction (heat). This will create for more blood flow to that area and is essential to bringing the woman to orgasm. And also, having massaged her muscles and the area above the g-spot will make it so the muscles less tense and more loose...primed and ready to be worked. Continue the massage using a fair amount of force to the surface of the skin and do so for approximately a minute or two. Do it longer if necessary. Then once you have finished massaging the area, its time to go to school. Begin now by having the middle and ring finger press up as hard as they can and as fast as they can against the g-spot/upper wall of the vagina. And because we primed the area up for stimulation in advance, she will be stimulated significantly more. While doing the doing the "come here" motion/ pressing up with your middle-ring fingers, continue to have a slight massage going on her muscles like you were before. Within a very short amount of time, she will orgasm and orgasm HARD. The key to the second part of the technique, the part where you begin using the the two fingers inside her, is to go as hard and as fast as you can. Because she was primed in advance, she can handle the vigorous activity.

Thats about it. lol. Its a tried and tested method, and it works.
 
ceasar989 said:
Ummm ok.

So basically, the key to the whole operation "gone in 30 seconds" is relaxing muscles.

Essentially, the male or who ever, or yourself (though its prolly best if someone else does it because it would be more relaxing...like, you would never massage yourself, would you?) and using your ring and middle finger, extend them out as far as they can go. Gently insert them and only them into the vagina, have your palm facing up. You pinky and index fingers should look curled back. Now, force these fingers as far up as you can, gently though, for this is key. Reason being, these two fingers are extremely strong as opposed to the usual index-middle finger combination. Now, without doing anything with the hand inside the woman except having the fingers inside her placed against the upper wall of her vagina, place your other hand over the abdominal region which is adjacent to the g-spot. Slowly and gently massage the area, pressing down on the muscle, rubbing it and thus creating friction (heat). This will create for more blood flow to that area and is essential to bringing the woman to orgasm. And also, having massaged her muscles and the area above the g-spot will make it so the muscles less tense and more loose...primed and ready to be worked. Continue the massage using a fair amount of force to the surface of the skin and do so for approximately a minute or two. Do it longer if necessary. Then once you have finished massaging the area, its time to go to school. Begin now by having the middle and ring finger press up as hard as they can and as fast as they can against the g-spot/upper wall of the vagina. And because we primed the area up for stimulation in advance, she will be stimulated significantly more. While doing the doing the "come here" motion/ pressing up with your middle-ring fingers, continue to have a slight massage going on her muscles like you were before. Within a very short amount of time, she will orgasm and orgasm HARD. The key to the second part of the technique, the part where you begin using the the two fingers inside her, is to go as hard and as fast as you can. Because she was primed in advance, she can handle the vigorous activity.

Thats about it. lol. Its a tried and tested method, and it works.

;)

hmmmmmmm we shall see :evil:
 
ceasar989 said:
Alright. Well when you find out, you'll be very happy.

So, see you back here in 10? ;)

I'm ALWAYS very happy... Never any problems here! But I'll try it of course ;)
 
ceasar989 said:
Ummm ok.

So basically, the key to the whole operation "gone in 30 seconds" is relaxing muscles.

Essentially, the male or who ever, or yourself (though its prolly best if someone else does it because it would be more relaxing...like, you would never massage yourself, would you?) and using your ring and middle finger, extend them out as far as they can go. Gently insert them and only them into the vagina, have your palm facing up. You pinky and index fingers should look curled back. Now, force these fingers as far up as you can, gently though, for this is key. Reason being, these two fingers are extremely strong as opposed to the usual index-middle finger combination. Now, without doing anything with the hand inside the woman except having the fingers inside her placed against the upper wall of her vagina, place your other hand over the abdominal region which is adjacent to the g-spot. Slowly and gently massage the area, pressing down on the muscle, rubbing it and thus creating friction (heat). This will create for more blood flow to that area and is essential to bringing the woman to orgasm. And also, having massaged her muscles and the area above the g-spot will make it so the muscles less tense and more loose...primed and ready to be worked. Continue the massage using a fair amount of force to the surface of the skin and do so for approximately a minute or two. Do it longer if necessary. Then once you have finished massaging the area, its time to go to school. Begin now by having the middle and ring finger press up as hard as they can and as fast as they can against the g-spot/upper wall of the vagina. And because we primed the area up for stimulation in advance, she will be stimulated significantly more. While doing the doing the "come here" motion/ pressing up with your middle-ring fingers, continue to have a slight massage going on her muscles like you were before. Within a very short amount of time, she will orgasm and orgasm HARD. The key to the second part of the technique, the part where you begin using the the two fingers inside her, is to go as hard and as fast as you can. Because she was primed in advance, she can handle the vigorous activity.

Thats about it. lol. Its a tried and tested method, and it works.

:heks:
 
it works. But I have had a few girlfriends that prefer to get off with the mans thingy in her as opposed to the fingers and such.
 
chesty said:
it works. But I have had a few girlfriends that prefer to get off with the mans thingy in her as opposed to the fingers and such.

lmao @ thingy
 
chesty said:
i get so embarrassed at saying penis :)

lol

I don't say the p word much either.. penis I do.. but that other kitty cat word I don't.

I just thought thingy was cute.. hee hee
 
The Shadow's first post was the best, relaxation.

The woman must be comfortable, able to let inibitions go.
 
nycgirl said:
Oh, SoKlu. :rose:

Frisky, I think we need to swing by Tennessee, pick this lady up and take her out.

OH yes we do :rose:
 
Do you guys think alcohol helps? girls? for relaxation purposes obviously.

And what happened to every girl is different, I tried to use that similar method and she usually wants cock within a minute or two.

by the way, by abdominal region do the mean slighty above the pubic region?

I need some enlightment
 
alcohol will remove inhibitions, so you don't need a lot. I believe it means just above the pubic bone more or less over where your two finger tips are whilst inside the love cave.
 
so just massage that area from both sides and if she is relaxed it will happen?

She said she doesnt get turned on by oral or by hand just feels more intimate with the thingy inside of her.

I have to learn this
 
the reason i mention alcohol is cause she always gets wilder after a drink or two. In bed of course. And sex is great for both of us.
 
Agathe said:
Do you guys think alcohol helps? girls? for relaxation purposes obviously.

I would say it depends on the woman......If I drink it means NO GO....erm, to completion....
 
nycgirl said:
Watched HBO recently?

I know who you are talking about.

Not recently, but I've seen that episode.....Real Sex, right??
 
that whole technique is not magic nor something new. i have been using it for over 20 years. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't. Really depends on the woman and her state of mind.
 
lol @ SoKlu.. i get the feeling hammy has no clue what he's doing over there
 
chesty said:
that whole technique is not magic nor something new. i have been using it for over 20 years. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't. Really depends on the woman and her state of mind.

agreed.

And yeah, it really does depend on a womans state of mind. But that goes with out saying. It's not like there is some magic switch inside her and when switched on she'll just orgasm. But it really cuts out alot of time and inefficient tactics that a lot of people normally attempt and fail with.


...you just had to have seen this guy...he was ridiculous. He did that stuff like it was nobodies business.
 
it would be funny to watch. ever seen that video of the girl who squirts like 3-5 feet when she cums? And she can do it like within a minute with a minute of rest. Craziest shit I have ever seen.
 
chesty said:
it would be funny to watch. ever seen that video of the girl who squirts like 3-5 feet when she cums? And she can do it like within a minute with a minute of rest. Craziest shit I have ever seen.

yup. Infact, she was one of the girls participating. She came in 15 seconds and was quivering for 15 minutes. TMI?
 
nope. I'll bet the whole thing was set up. from my experience i have only been with a couple of girls that could ratchet up that quick. most usually took between 10 and 20 minutes. sometimes longer if they were diggin being pumped.
 
jenscats5 said:
Did you see the one with the life-like dolls you can custom order?? They kinda creeped me out.....

Yeah I saw that one. I thought it was funny and sad at the same time.
 
Raina said:
If I never discuss orgasms with my parents I'll be a happy happy woman.

Seriously.

When I was like 19 my mother saw my cosmo mag on the cocktail table and she asked, "what's the BIG O".


UGHHHHH

:worried:
 
velvett said:
Seriously.

When I was like 19 my mother saw my cosmo mag on the cocktail table and she asked, "what's the BIG O".


UGHHHHH

:worried:
OH Man! that sucks
 
velvett said:
Seriously.

When I was like 19 my mother saw my cosmo mag on the cocktail table and she asked, "what's the BIG O".


UGHHHHH

:worried:

OOOOverstock.com



LOL
 
read reports like these a long time ago.
I assumed women achieved orgasm like men.
I was surprised at the data.
 
So where the hell's that evansteve guy? He totally needs this thread.

well, and a girl to practice on too, I suppose.



:cow:
 
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