Wife found my stash

[heavy_duty]

Maybe she spent it because she was pissed that you had a secret stash. I mean how would you feel if she had one? I have only heard of people having a secret stash for two reasons. Men it's usually because they need funds to do things on the down low from the wife. Women it's because they are saving up funds before they tell their hubby they want a divorce.

Not saying that is your case I just know shady people that have saved for those reasons.

next time read everthing I posted in the thread

 

[heavy_duty]

thats some bullshit...find money so you spend it?
thats why you keep your money seperate form the wife...
i have seperate accounts for everything...she spends hers..i spend mine...
we go out i usually pay etc etc... but for normal every day spending she needs to stay away from my shit...some people have no respect for money and will blow every last bit of it without even considering when more will come

I gots the cash back for my trip.

 

[NEO1]

HOW?!?!?! We wanna know? Did she have it? Did she borrow to repay? Damn it the suspense is killing me!

 

[lartinos]

good stuff

 

[Mr. dB]

it wasnt all that "secret" like super duper hidden.
and she should have known (knows now) its a stash for my asian trip in the fall.

Gonna hit up the underage tranny prostitutes, huh?

 

[mustang_00]

thats grounds for a domestic right there....

 

[calveless wonder]

at least she didn't find the dead hookers

 

[mustang_00]

what is she doing snooping anyways???? or is it different when a wife goes through your shit vs a girlfriend. here in the states we call that being a noisey bitch either way

 

[Dial_tone]

Her spending it on 'this and that' is worse than your stashing, IMO. She spent it , possibly on unnecessary stuff. In an emergency you theoretically could have pulled it out and spent it on something important to both of you.

 

[heatherrae]

I wouldn't have thought too much about my hubbie having some cash around. I wouldn't have spent it but I would wonder a bit if he felt he had to hide money.