Why the hell does it piss me off so much to hear that my ex...

[resqguy]

Shit...I couldn't WAIT for my ex to start fucking someone else so she'd leave my ass alone!!!

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Is getting action, with two guys already. I shouldnt be pissed off, I'm getting phenomenal pussy otherwise.

WTf is wrong with me?

Why did she answer my questions too, goddamnit.

Dont ask things that you dont want to know the answer to.

nothing is wrong with you, you invested emotionally in this girl, and part of your male brain circuitry is to be territorial/possessive over your sexual partners. other males having sexual access to a girl tied into this emotional circuitry trips off negative feelings - then factor in that our existing brain circuitry isnt geared for large, sexually progressive societies where switching partners is socially acceptable, and you feel undermined/confused/tormented ans your "KILL THE COMPETING MALE" circuitry goes to war with your rational "thinking" brain

plus without thinking about it, lots of people subconciously judge their own value by looking at the partner theyre with (the better she is, the better you too must be) and other males easily having access to that woman undermines your self worth, and makes you feel insecure

oh. the reason she told you that shes doing these guys is because of the above - shes trying to devalue you in her own mind (showing her greater value through ability to hurt you) so that she doesnt feel as bad because of the breakup. women are designed to feel a lot better when the upgrade their man than when they downgrade - an easy way to feel like theyve upgraded is simply to devalue you in the first place. my major ex systematically went through her memories of me and i quote "focussed on all the bad things" so as to devalue me and get over me faster, feeling good about getting with guys that i VASTLY outclass.

if your ex had any understanding of what shes doing, she would have kept her new BFs on the low, since shes building some serious barriers to you two getting back together, which is dumb. (my latest fave ex is doing the same thing. shes also 19. bitch! biiiiitch!! lol)

 

[UA_Iron]

nothing is wrong with you, you invested emotionally in this girl, and part of your male brain circuitry is to be territorial/possessive over your sexual partners. other males having sexual access to a girl tied into this emotional circuitry trips off negative feelings - then factor in that our existing brain circuitry isnt geared for large, sexually progressive societies where switching partners is socially acceptable, and you feel undermined/confused/tormented ans your "KILL THE COMPETING MALE" circuitry goes to war with your rational "thinking" brain

plus without thinking about it, lots of people subconciously judge their own value by looking at the partner theyre with (the better she is, the better you too must be) and other males easily having access to that woman undermines your self worth, and makes you feel insecure

oh. the reason she told you that shes doing these guys is because of the above - shes trying to devalue you in her own mind (showing her greater value through ability to hurt you) so that she doesnt feel as bad because of the breakup. women are designed to feel a lot better when the upgrade their man than when they downgrade - an easy way to feel like theyve upgraded is simply to devalue you in the first place. my major ex systematically went through her memories of me and i quote "focussed on all the bad things" so as to devalue me and get over me faster, feeling good about getting with guys that i VASTLY outclass.

if your ex had any understanding of what shes doing, she would have kept her new BFs on the low, since shes building some serious barriers to you two getting back together, which is dumb. (my latest fave ex is doing the same thing. shes also 19. bitch! biiiiitch!! lol)

I appreciate that explanation bro, it makes sense.

I have to say I'm pretty much over her. This new girl I'm with is so much fun, I dont ever think of her. I'm not sure if this is a rebound thing, or just another relationship forming, but I'm having a lot of fun.

 

[velvett]

Dont ask things that you dont want to know the answer to.

From your lips to God's ears...

 

[Spartacus]

nothing is wrong with you, you invested emotionally in this girl, and part of your male brain circuitry is to be territorial/possessive over your sexual partners. other males having sexual access to a girl tied into this emotional circuitry trips off negative feelings - then factor in that our existing brain circuitry isnt geared for large, sexually progressive societies where switching partners is socially acceptable, and you feel undermined/confused/tormented ans your "KILL THE COMPETING MALE" circuitry goes to war with your rational "thinking" brain

plus without thinking about it, lots of people subconciously judge their own value by looking at the partner theyre with (the better she is, the better you too must be) and other males easily having access to that woman undermines your self worth, and makes you feel insecure

oh. the reason she told you that shes doing these guys is because of the above - shes trying to devalue you in her own mind (showing her greater value through ability to hurt you) so that she doesnt feel as bad because of the breakup. women are designed to feel a lot better when the upgrade their man than when they downgrade - an easy way to feel like theyve upgraded is simply to devalue you in the first place. my major ex systematically went through her memories of me and i quote "focussed on all the bad things" so as to devalue me and get over me faster, feeling good about getting with guys that i VASTLY outclass.

if your ex had any understanding of what shes doing, she would have kept her new BFs on the low, since shes building some serious barriers to you two getting back together, which is dumb. (my latest fave ex is doing the same thing. shes also 19. bitch! biiiiitch!! lol)

most impressive post of the week

 

[Spartacus]

however I will argue woman are wired to be possesive too
I remember this line by sissy spacek in the Loretta Lynn story
Loretta Lynn: "girl you need to learn how to hold onto your man!"


actaully it was "Coal Miner's Daughter"

 

[UA_Iron]

There's only one thing I regret....


FUCKEN DELETING THE NAKED PICS

WTF WAS I THINKING

HIT ME WITH RED, DO IT DO IT DOIT

 

[Spartacus]

2 guys like fingercuffs? Or just been with 2 guys since?

Pics.

And the why already got covered.

Bunch of crazy bitches talking about how crazy their ex's are in 3... 2... 1...

I haven't read the thread and am not sure of your usage of "fingercuffs"

my immediate thought was a cool metaphor for a wedding band

 

[Spartacus]

There's only one thing I regret....


FUCKEN DELETING THE NAKED PICS

WTF WAS I THINKING

HIT ME WITH RED, DO IT DO IT DOIT

you don't want to think that way
for a different reason yes you deserve a red hit

 

[Spartacus]

I'm not going to red you
they smart too much