Why Nice Guys are often such Losers

[TEXgrl]

nice post

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Excellent post. Karma to you.

 

[PinK233]

Another mistake Nice Guys make is to go after "hard luck" cases. They deliberately pick women with neuroses, problems, and personality disorders, because Nice Guys are "helpers". A Nice Guy thinks that by "helping" this woman, it will make him a better, more lovable person. He thinks it will give him a sense of accomplishment, and that she will appreciate and love him more, for all his efforts and sacrifice. He is usually disappointed by the results.

This tends to be very true...good post

 

[dick tater]

Very interesting post, but had to written by a former nice guy.

 

[davidg]

Nice guy/bad boy. Its all bullshit.

Women like men. Period. Strong like dad.

Looks are the most important regardless of what any women tells you.


If a guy is good looking it doesn't matter if he is nice or not.

Just lift weights and make money=pussy.

 

[John G]

Sounded like someone I know..

Sounded like me in the beginning of my last relationship. So scary. I feel I have definately begun to change. I feel happier about myself now though I still have alittle bit of insecurity at times. But I think everyone has alittle insecurity from time to time? I was also worried about her finding someone better. She never seemed happy with me. Infact she told me numerous times she wasn't happy. I changed myself in so many ways to keep her happy, but it never worked. Was I wrong for trying? Or should I have just said we are just to incompatible? I mean you want to be with a person so badly wouldn't you try to make it work out? Some way or some how? She definately had problems with her life, and I was trying to be the one to help her out, in the end it didn't matter. It was like "great thanks for help.". It backed fired on me, I wound up being the bad guy at times. Some of that original post definately applies to me, some of it doesn't. I guess I am only half a loser.

 

[Fonz]

Trying to change a person is pretty much next to impossible.

Every relationship is about compromise.

Anyways, IMHO it all comes down to trust.

No matter what, without trust there is nothing.

There is nothing better in this world that to have friends who you trust implicitly.

Makes life much simpler.

Fonz

 

[Nathan]

I have somehow managed to get antelope innards all down my pants. I kind of like it though so I'm gonna leave them there and see where this takes me.

 

[Mike P.T.]

Did you write that?

Pure?? Write that???!!

Yeah right!!!!!

 

[notpuff]

thaTS very true the true winners in life are people who look out for themselves first and throw a bone here and there to other people .