There is something that most people don't know, or don't want to know, and that is most fat people know they are fat. The reason that some don't just get into the gym to lose weight has nothing to do with being lazy, it has to do with the people in the gym. You see, being fat doesn't make you deaf or blind. They hear the comments, and see the looks that "healthy" people give them. You can say that should just motivate them more, but when you already have a low opinion of how you look words or looks can keep you where you are.