Why does everyone over-analyze dating?

[strangebrew]

Back when I dated, I pretty much did whatever the hell I felt like doing. Basically, what came naturally. I see so many people preaching a bunch of bullshit dating do's and don'ts. Why? What's the point? To trick girls into getting involved with you? Just be yourself, goddamnit.

 

[Lestat]

i am guilting of doing this... you just get so into someone you can't stop thinking about them.. and early on everything is a big unknown so you just analyze the hell out of it.

 

[Y_lifter]

Why? What's the point? To trick girls into getting involved with you?

YES,

Obviously, You have analyzed this already..

 

[DIVISION]

YES,

Obviously, You have analyzed this already..

We all can't be MILF-hunters like you, bro.



DIV

 

[strangebrew]

YES,

Obviously, You have analyzed this already..

Apparently. I guess I don't understand how anyone gets fulfillment out of that.

 

[awittyusername]

I was just myself for my teen yrs. And, myself couldn't get laid if my life depended on it.

I think most young guys are guilty of overanalizing relationships. Because, we all assume a relationship with a woman should be logical. And, of course it is not.

My friend and I spent hours trying to figure out how to get girls. We would get together the next day and discussed what worked and what didnt.

We had a fucking laboratory with beakers, charts, and graphs, etc......J/K

Anyways we went from getting dumped all the time and never hooking up to...At least one of us would hook up over 50% of the time we went out. (and by hook up I don't mean geting a number..I mean sex you faigssss)

 

[Carmen]

Back when I dated, I pretty much did whatever the hell I felt like doing. Basically, what came naturally. I see so many people preaching a bunch of bullshit dating do's and don'ts. Why? What's the point? To trick girls into getting involved with you? Just be yourself, goddamnit.

thats how i feel. if you like someone, tell them. call them, hang out with them, whatever.
just be straight up and don't play games. its how i've almost always been and it works.

 

[DIVISION]

I was just myself for my teen yrs. And, myself couldn't get laid if my life depended on it.

I think most young guys are guilty of overanalizing relationships. Because, we all assume a relationship with a woman should be logical. And, of course it is not.

My friend and I spent hours trying to figure out how to get girls. We would get together the next day and discussed what worked and what didnt.

We had a fucking laboratory with beakers, charts, and graphs, etc......J/K

Anyways we went from getting dumped all the time and never hooking up to...At least one of us would hook up over 50% of the time we went out. (and by hook up I don't mean geting a number..I mean sex you faigssss)

I'm glad your nuts have dropped and you've turned in to a seasoned pro.

Now answer some of these SWV threads and let me go on vacation!



DIV

 

[strangebrew]

thats how i feel. if you like someone, tell them. call them, hang out with them, whatever.
just be straight up and don't play games. its how i've almost always been and it works.

^^

 

[alien amp pharm]

I don't give a fuck in my relationships anymore.

actually, I don't get a fuck in my relationships anymore.

 

[strangebrew]

The reason why people come on here whining and crying about having their hearts broken...is because they take life in general, too seriously. I've been there myself. It has nothing to do with women, it's your outlook that's causing the problems.

 

[Dirk Howat]

To trick girls into getting involved with you? Just be yourself, goddamnit.

Are you married?
Is she currently hot?
What do you mean trick girls to get involved with you?
You mean marriage?


Thing is, I believe women are natural players. They will play you, take your money if you do not watch out.
Depends what you want from women. One women, many, just sex, fun casual relationships, marriage.

Define your goal and then acheive it.
To be the best, study the best.





Why do people do college?
Why not do what just comes naturally.



Same deal.










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[strangebrew]

Are you married? Yes
Is she currently hot? Yes
What do you mean trick girls to get involved with you? exactly what it says


Thing is, women are players. They will play you, take your money if you do not watch out.
Depends what you want from women. One women, many, just sex, relationships, marriage. Bullshit. Only if you let 'em.

Define your goal and then acheiveit . To be the best, study the best.

Why do people do college? Who knows? I'll never understand that either.
Why not do what just comes naturally. Certainly.

Same deal.






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[Dirk Howat]

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I figured you were married.
Post a current pic of her and we can judge to see if she is hot.

Involved could mean marriage, or sexually involved. Its an ambiguous statement. The man must consciously decide for himself what he wants from women and not let women decide for him by using their vaginas as bait. to entrap you in their conception of their life which would alter your future life.


If that is what you want, congrats.







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[strangebrew]

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I figured you were married.
Post a current pic of her and we can judge to see if she is hot.

If that is what you want, congrats.






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Yes, I want to post pictures of my wife over an internet chat board for a bunch of losers to judge if she's hot or not.

 

[The Shadow]

Back when I dated, I pretty much did whatever the hell I felt like doing. Basically, what came naturally. I see so many people preaching a bunch of bullshit dating do's and don'ts. Why? What's the point? To trick girls into getting involved with you? Just be yourself, goddamnit.

great post.....


either the chemistry is there or it isnt.

 

[Dirk Howat]

Yes, I want to post pictures of my wife over an internet chat board for a bunch of losers to judge if she's hot or not.

I have two college degrees.
You might be the loser.

I did not say nude.

A nice current family picture will suffice.

Let us see your conception of utopia.





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[Carmen]

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I figured you were married.
Post a current pic of her and we can judge to see if she is hot.

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why would she have to be hot for him to love her or enjoy being with her?
there is more to a person and a relationship than looks.

 

[The Shadow]

why would she have to be hot for him to love her or enjoy being with her?
there is more to a person and a relationship than looks.

while that IS true...looks are whct getyou noticed form acroos the room.....unless you are me...then its the magentia jacket and spectator shoes

 

[Dirk Howat]

why would she have to be hot for him to love her or enjoy being with her?
there is more to a person and a relationship than looks.

Well, a women, if she loves him, would want to satisfy him and obviously, one of the best ways is for her to look good for him. She should have a awesome body for him to enjoy, if she loves him. This is what he wants and is unselfish on her part. Naturally, she wants to be a pig, and sit around, eat and watch t.v. But this is SELFISHNESS not pleasing somebody you love.


A man should do the same.
Selfless.
rather then
Selfish.






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[DIVISION]

why would she have to be hot for him to love her or enjoy being with her?
there is more to a person and a relationship than looks.

Actually looks are a big part of it.......you gotta sleep next to this person, wake up this person every morning...

Be realistic here, Sugarbooty....



DIV

 

[Carmen]

Actually looks are a big part of it.......you gotta sleep next to this person, wake up this person every morning...

Be realistic here, Sugarbooty....



DIV

i am, but you can find someone attractive and the rest of the world might not think they are hot.
or at least, the rest of this site.
i'd like my guy to think i'm hot in my own way, but it doesn't mean anyone else will.

 

[DIVISION]

i am, but you can find someone attractive and the rest of the world might not think they are hot.
or at least, the rest of this site.
i'd like my guy to think i'm hot in my own way, but it doesn't mean anyone else will.

Don't worry, most of the member think you're hot........in your own way, and in their own way........in alot of ways.

Anyway, they want you, trust me.

Everyone has their own niche, in that way.




DIV

 

[Carmen]

Don't worry, most of the member think you're hot........in your own way, and in their own way........in alot of ways.

Anyway, they want you, trust me.

Everyone has their own niche, in that way.
:

pfffttt.. hardly, but thank you.
look at couples married 10, 20, 30 years. are they "hot" anymore? not usually, but sometimes they are very happy anyway. even young people- not everyone goes by looks. I know i don't. physical attraction comes in many forms and although i couldn't be repulsed by someone, my point is that perfectworld's wife may be perfect for him and maybe he didn't have to play games to get her, but it doesn't mean she isn't hot to him.
personally, i'm not attracted to games, so if i think a guy is being anything but himself and honest, its a bit of a turnoff.

 

[DIVISION]

i think a guy is being anything but himself and honest, its a bit of a turnoff.

In that case, you should love me then.

love everything I do!

Amazing........



DIV

 

[strangebrew]

I have two college degrees, but some dudes might be losers.

I did not say nude.

A nice current family picture will suffice.

Let us see your conception of utopia.





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Utopia?? lol wtf are you talking about...?

I don't post pictures of other people without their consent. Especially to people I don't know or care to know.

 

[awittyusername]

I'm glad your nuts have dropped and you've turned in to a seasoned pro.

Now answer some of these SWV threads and let me go on vacation!



DIV

lmao

My nuts dropped over 10 yrs ago after getting punked by doing what sugarplum suggests doing. However, they were held in temporary custody a few yrs ago. lol

 

[Carmen]

lmao

My nuts dropped over 10 yrs ago after getting punked by doing what sugarplum suggests doing. However, they were held in temporary custody a few yrs ago. lol

lol... what did i suggest doing? you mean just saying what you feel? maybe its just me.. its always worked.

 

[DIVISION]

lmao

My nuts dropped over 10 yrs ago after getting punked by doing what sugarplum suggests doing. However, they were held in temporary custody a few yrs ago. lol

Moral of story = fuck what sugarplum suggests unless you are fucking sugarplum!!!!!

Must I always teach, preach and reach for you guys?

Mary of Nazareth and Baby Jesus......



DIV

 

[Big Rick Rock]

thats how i feel. if you like someone, tell them. call them, hang out with them, whatever.
just be straight up and don't play games. its how i've almost always been and it works.

That is right!

Just how I told you, we were goin to fuck or you should stop wasting my time making small talk thru PM...

 

[DIVISION]

That is right!

Just how I told you, we were goin to fuck or you should stop wasting my time making small talk thru PM...

Shit.....I heard that, nugga!

Preach On!!!!!!



DIV

 

[Delinquent]

Well, a women, if she loves him, would want to satisfy him and obviously, one of the best ways is for her to look good for him. She should have a awesome body for him to enjoy, if she loves him. This is what he wants and is unselfish on her part. Naturally, she wants to be a pig, and sit around, eat and watch t.v. But this is SELFISHNESS not pleasing somebody you love.


A man should do the same.
Selfless.
rather then
Selfish.






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Um no. For some, it's not about staying fit. Some people couldn't care less what their S.O looks like as their love is that strong. Some are the opposite where they have to have that obsessive compulsive materialistic S.O that looks at themselves in the mirror all day long. To say one way or the other is a gross generalization.

To some people, love is all that really matters. I'm not saying I'm one of those people but this isn't a black and white issue like you suggest. There are many other way to satisfy someone other than looking good and that is even subjective.

 

[Y_lifter]

Apparently. I guess I don't understand how anyone gets fulfillment out of that.

I never said acting like something you aren't in order to get/keep a girls
interest was good, I just meant the fulfillment part is when you get in her pants and thats why we do it sometimes.

This is another reason for the high divorce/seperation rates when she/he finds out who you Really are.

 

[Big Rick Rock]

i am, but you can find someone attractive and the rest of the world might not think they are hot.
or at least, the rest of this site.
i'd like my guy to think i'm hot in my own way, but it doesn't mean anyone else will.

I bet $5 I'll see shockwaves traveling up-cheek when I hit it from the back in doggie form... I likes that.




I really likes.

 

[strangebrew]

I never said acting like something you aren't in order to get/keep a girls
interest was good, I just meant the fulfillment part is when you get in her pants and thats why we do it sometimes.

This is another reason for the high divorce/seperation rates when she/he finds out who you Really are.
QUOTE]

Yep.

 

[Dirk Howat]

Utopia?? lol wtf are you talking about...?

I don't post pictures of other people without their consent. Especially to people I don't know or care to know.

Holy ass shit.

I checked out your gallery to see if you put any pics up. I know YOUR avatar is not you.

Shit, you must be damn ass ugly.

Also noticed.


YOU ARE INTO PORN


DAMN, YOU MUST BE HAPPY IN YOUR UTOPIA MARRIAGE AND UTOPIA WOMEN DOING IT NATURALLY.


MASTURBATING TO PORN rather THEN DOING PORN.




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[Carmen]

I bet $5 I'll see shockwaves traveling up-cheek when I hit it from the back in doggie form... I likes that.




I really likes.

lol.. omg, i'm outta this thread.
ok, after i say this.
as i've said before, i'm nothing special. not the typical hot little petite woman, and never have been. I've been up to 250 lbs and down to a size 6 and everywhere in between. so being "hot" was never a factor for me and that was not a plea for compliments, just how it is.
I've had my heart broken like everyone, but for ME, when i wanted a guy, i was just me. i'd call to say i had a good time, i'd be honest about being nervous, i'd say how i felt, etc. It always seemed that people appreciated that instead of the typical games that women played with them.
btw, brr- if you noticed, our conversation did stop cause i was straight up about the fact that you wouldn't be getting any, but you're still ok.

 

[strangebrew]

Holy ass shit.

I checked out your gallery to see if you put any pics up. I know YOUR avatar is not you.

Shit, you must be damn ass ugly.

Also noticed.


YOU ARE INTO PORN


DAMN, YOU MUST BE HAPPY IN YOUR UTOPIA MARRIAGE AND UTOPIA WOMEN DOING IT NATURALLY.




MASTURBATING TO PORN rather THEN DOING PORN.




.

LOL. Where did this guy come from?

 

[Big Rick Rock]

lol.. omg, i'm outta this thread.
ok, after i say this.
as i've said before, i'm nothing special. not the typical hot little petite woman, and never have been. I've been up to 250 lbs and down to a size 6 and everywhere in between. so being "hot" was never a factor for me and that was not a plea for compliments, just how it is.
I've had my heart broken like everyone, but for ME, when i wanted a guy, i was just me. i'd call to say i had a good time, i'd be honest about being nervous, i'd say how i felt, etc. It always seemed that people appreciated that instead of the typical games that women played with them.
btw, brr- if you noticed, our conversation did stop cause i was straight up about the fact that you wouldn't be getting any, but you're still ok.

lol... I think you implied that I would not want sex from an older gal like you. I did say I’d bang you any way and would put you into the rotation if the head game was tight… But you said you were too self conscious to disrobe in front of me so you’d much rather keep banging that old dude you are seeing who appreciates you cause he can't do any better. Then we just left it at that... Remember?







Ok…. That really wasn’t the conversation but rather my much distorted version of the events.

 

[Dirk Howat]

physical attraction comes in many forms

You can empirically judge what physical attraction is for men by looking at the top rated PAID porn sites are about. What kind of women do men pay to see?



Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmm.......


Yo.


There is not alot of variety in what men find sexually attractive except for a few perverts and fetish freaks.


A women should want to be that type of chick if she loves him, because if she loves him, she would want to please him. Ditto, for dudes doing that for chicks. There you have a happy, faithful marriage for many decades. At a certain point at around 50 or 60 years old, both of you are too old to pull anything anyway. But, until that point, both should be trying to give to the other what they want in sexual terms. All else being equal, this significantly makes a happier marriage. Of course you must have compatibility and friendship. But if a man just wants friendship, why would he need a women? He would go for porn (I hope).


A womens job is to sexually satisfy a man.






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[Dirk Howat]

LOL. I masturbate to porn in my marriage. I am where I am because I did what was natural. YO

You are the man, no doubt.


You masturbate to porn, while your ugly, fat ass wife (I presume this because you have no qualm about posting pics of hot girls on your gallery, but not your wife) is doing whatever.

 

[awittyusername]

lol... what did i suggest doing? you mean just saying what you feel? maybe its just me.. its always worked.

This is what I was talking about.....

Originally Posted by Sugarplum
thats how i feel. if you like someone, tell them. call them, hang out with them, whatever.
just be straight up and don't play games. its how i've almost always been and it works.

I wish that worked for me. Everytime I try that I get treated like a bitch.

I don't know how all the girls that never play games and are honest from the start ended up here on Elite. bc I have never met any in real life. I wonder if we could get the girls on here SO's to verify the claims.......j/k

If this is true I will break my Anti-Online Flirting Pact I have w/Bran and start charming the pants of any SINGLE women on here.

 

[strangebrew]

You are the man, no doubt.


You masturbate to porn, while your ugly, fat ass wife (I presume this because you have no qualm about posting pics of hot girls on your gallery, but not your wife) is doing whatever.

Yeah, you got me...

 

[Big Rick Rock]

Yeah, you got me...

just imagine... if you were Plat you could drop a red K bomb on his ass...

 

[Carmen]

l

Ok…. That really wasn’t the conversation but rather my much distorted version of the events.

LOL... ok.
i'm not replying to this assclown dirk. somebody must have hit him way too hard in the head. or should.
some of us will never look like a pornmag girl, or want to.
could I? yeah, probably.
do I? no and thats fine- i'm not a pig and i'm not a size 4 and i have biceps bigger than most, but i think i can find someone who finds me hot anyway.

 

[Big Rick Rock]

LOL... ok.
i'm not replying to this assclown dirk. somebody must have hit him way too hard in the head. or should.
some of us will never look like a pornmag girl, or want to.
could I? yeah, probably.
do I? no and thats fine- i'm not a pig and i'm not a size 4 and i have biceps bigger than most, but i think i can find someone who finds me hot anyway.

Please make sure to let everybody know the "assclown dirk" you are referring to, is not me but rather this “Dirk Howat” character… mmm k?


PS: we’ll keep the lights turned off and I’ll get drunk…. Last offer, going once… going twice…

 

[Dial_tone]

LOL... ok.
i'm not replying to this assclown dirk. somebody must have hit him way too hard in the head. or should.
some of us will never look like a pornmag girl, or want to.
could I? yeah, probably.
do I? no and thats fine- i'm not a pig and i'm not a size 4 and i have biceps bigger than most, but i think i can find someone who finds me hot anyway.

I'm sure you could too.

 

[Forge]

You can empirically judge what physical attraction is for men by looking at the top rated PAID porn sites are about. What kind of women do men pay to see?


There is not alot of variety in what men find sexually attractive except for a few perverts and fetish freaks.


A women should want to be that type of chick if she loves him, because if she loves him, she would want to please him. Ditto, for dudes doing that for chicks. There you have a happy, faithful marriage for many decades. At a certain point at around 50 or 60 years old, both of you are too old to pull anything anyway. But, until that point, both should be trying to give to the other what they want in sexual terms. All else being equal, this significantly makes a happier marriage. Of course you must have compatibility and friendship. But if a man just wants friendship, why would he need a women? He would go for porn (I hope).


A womens job is to sexually satisfy a man.
.

LOL




OK, whose alter is this? Very funny stuff.

 

[Carmen]

Please make sure to let everybody know the "assclown dirk" you are referring to, is not me but rather this “Dirk Howat” character… mmm k?

lol.. is your name dirk too?
yes, dirk howat, not you. you're a goofball, not an assclown.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Dating is highly over-rated

 

[Carmen]

LOL




OK, whose alter is this? Very funny stuff.

apparently, the guy is for real... surely you've seen his website?
http://www.geocities.com/dirkhowat/

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

....whatever awittyusername says.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

....whatever awittyusername says.

good call bor .. Im sticking with him to

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

good call bor .. Im sticking with him to

His input on this matter is gold.
He started with no looks, money, or game and persevered...
He's got respect...The only freaky thing is he hits on my sometimes, thats kinda wierd

 

[Carmen]

good call bor .. Im sticking with him to

lol nice avi, my fellow powerpuff.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

lol nice avi, my fellow powerpuff.

Thank you blossom

 

[Big Rick Rock]

Thank you blossom

That makes me "Mojojojojo will pull up your skirt... feel the Mojojojo"

 

[Evil_Frisky]

That makes me "Mojojojojo will pull up your skirt... feel the Mojojojo"

I'll take your Mojojojojo

 

[Big Rick Rock]

I'll take your Mojojojojo

You have a picture in your gallery of somebody delivering a knee while in a clinch.... whats that all about mojojojojo

 

[Carmen]

That makes me "Mojojojojo will pull up your skirt... feel the Mojojojo"

OMG... you know who MOJOJOJO is??? lol
what the hell are you watching the powerpuff girls for??? lol

 

[Big Rick Rock]

OMG... you know who MOJOJOJO is??? lol
what the hell are you watching the powerpuff girls for??? lol

When my kid is stays over he watches the cartoon network all day....

 

[Evil_Frisky]

You have a picture in your gallery of somebody delivering a knee while in a clinch.... whats that all about mojojojojo

Me (red) a former black belt Sempai (black/white) for my brown belt test. ahh... that was a day.. Left there with a broken wrist .. bruised like a mofo..

But did pass the test..

 

[Big Rick Rock]

Me (red) a former black belt Sempai (black/white) for my brown belt test. ahh... that was a day.. Left there with a broken wrist .. bruised like a mofo..

But did pass the test..

What MA do you study?

 

[Evil_Frisky]

What MA do you study?

American Shotokan.. My Sensei mixed in alot of the differnt arts into his classes.. Judo, Jujitsu, Muay Thai, Kick boxing, ...

 

[Big Rick Rock]

American Shotokan.. My Sensei mixed in alot of the differnt arts into his classes.. Judo, Jujitsu, Muay Thai, Kick boxing, ...

the clinch and knee look a bit Muay Thai'sh but the technique is not traditional Thai... That or the picture was take before/after you poped your hips behind the knee strike... Very nice still.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

the clinch and knee look a bit Muay Thai'sh but the technique is not traditional Thai... That or the picture was take before/after you poped your hips behind the knee strike... Very nice still.

It was a video taken.. and shots snapped from that video, I'll have to dig it up and see. It was a ANYTHING goes testing.. OUCH.. hehe.. take downs.. tap outs.. what ever....

Thank you! I haven't practiced for three years now. sufferend a broken wrist.. dislocated elbow.. so took some time off, hopefully I can find the devotion and drive to get back in the saddle and complete my quest

 

[Dirk Howat]

His input on this matter is gold.
He started with no looks, money, or game and persevered...
He's got respect...QUOTE]



Are you talking about me?
I do know you, so how do you know me?

Regarding some of these INSECURE women, I was not talking about anyone specifically.

Interpares -

I could go on, but ----------it would be book.











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[awittyusername]

His input on this matter is gold.
He started with no looks, money, or game and persevered...
He's got respect...The only freaky thing is he hits on my sometimes, thats kinda wierd

And, you wander why I hit on you after you lay down that smooth line??? You Charming Bastard...





j/k Thanks Bro!

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Are you talking about me?
I do know you, so how do you know me?

Regarding some of these INSECURE women, I was not talking about anyone specifically.

Interpares -

I could go on, but ----------it would be book. .

I was talkin' about awitty, from Frisky's post.
I don't know you....but merry Christmas


You're welcome awitty...You are good peeps
Have a good Christmas

 

[Dirk Howat]

I was talkin' about awitty, from Frisky's post.
I don't know you....but merry Christmas

Mistaken identity?




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[Mr. dB]

thats how i feel. if you like someone, tell them. call them, hang out with them, whatever.
just be straight up and don't play games. its how i've almost always been and it works.

It's impossible to believe that a WOMAN wrote that. Are you suffering from an estrogen deficiency?

 

[Mr. dB]

apparently, the guy is for real... surely you've seen his website?
http://www.geocities.com/dirkhowat/

http://www.geocities.com/dirkhowat/Dirk_Cologne.htm

hahahahaha!!!!!

 

[Dirk Howat]

That was awhile ago. I have improved my collection. I lost Frontpage and do not have another software program to update it unfortunately.



Its just another tool in my arsenal to seduce hot women.


I was going to put captions under each bottle.

Egoiste Platinum. The Ulitmate Panty Dropper. Works on any women. Straight, Bi or Lesbian.

Joop. Makes Women Drool and Chase You. For pleasure seeking girls.

Dolce Gabbana. Smells like "RICH". For golddiggers.

Each scent works on different types of women. Know your prey and use the right weapon.
But, I figured some girls might read it which would have an adverse effect on my intentionality.










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[Carmen]

It's impossible to believe that a WOMAN wrote that. Are you suffering from an estrogen deficiency?

lord no.
thats just how i am, always have been.
LOL @ the rediculousness of kirk's perfume page though. so retarded.

 

[Dirk Howat]

lord no.
thats just how i am, always have been.
LOL @ the rediculousness of kirk's perfume page though. so retarded.

Evidently you do not like me eventhough I do not know you or mentioned you.

But I am curious,


What cologne (or purfume,if you are lez,) does your S.O. normally use (if you have one)?







.

 

[Carmen]

Evidently you do not like me eventhough I do not know you or mentioned you.

But I am curious,


What cologne (or purfume,if you are lez,) does your S.O. normally use (if you have one)?


.

i'm not a lesbian.
Bvlgari for men.
why do you ask, do you want to date him? he doesn't swing that way, sorry.