Why do women expect you to buy them flowers?

[biteme]

To me this just shows the selfish nature of these women. What a waste of money. I know this is related to my other post but this irks me about women.

 

[circusgirl]

I just bought my hubby some flowers. Well, some daffodils to look nice on the table for christmas dinner...

 

[KAYNE]

ITS NOT THAT THEY EXPECT YOU TO BUY THEM FLOWERS, ITS THAT THEY JUST LIKE FOR YOU TO DO LITTLE THINGS TO SHOW YOU CARE. BELIEVE IT OR NOT, THOSE ARE THE THINGS THAT MAKE'M FEEL SPECIAL.



KAYNE

 

[Lumberg]

I just bought my hubby some flowers. Well, some daffodils to look nice on the table for christmas dinner...

Who are you kidding? That's like the time Homer bought Marge a bowling ball that said "Homer" on it.

JC

 

[biteme]

ITS NOT THAT THEY EXPECT YOU TO BUY THEM FLOWERS, ITS THAT THEY JUST LIKE FOR YOU TO DO LITTLE THINGS TO SHOW YOU CARE. BELIEVE IT OR NOT, THOSE ARE THE THINGS THAT MAKE'M FEEL SPECIAL.



KAYNE

My point exactly. You have to spend money on them to make them feel special. Money on things that are unneccesary. If you don't need it or want it don't buy it. Buying flowers is ridiculous. Just pick the mother fuckers out of the ground for pete's sake.

 

[notoriousQQ]

You don't buy flowers for a women because she expects it. Kayne is right, if you are with someone you care about, doing and sharing in the little things is absolutely what makes a relationship beautiful.

 

[KAYNE]

IT DOESNT HAVE TO BE FLOWERS. IT CAN BE A 2$ CARD OR SOMETHING. MY EX USED TO MAKE LITTLE THINGS AND GIVE THEM TO ME ALL THE TIME. SHE BOUGHT CARDS AND OTHER LITTLE THINGS.

YOU CAN SAY YOU CARE ALL YOU WANT. BUT IF YOU DONT SHOW IT, IT REALLY DOESNT MATTER HOW MUCH YOU SAY YOU CARE. DOES IT!!!



KAYNE

 

[circusgirl]

Who are you kidding? That's like the time Homer bought Marge a bowling ball that said "Homer" on it.

JC

No-one has ever compared me to Homer before.... he's my hero!

 

[biteme]

You don't buy flowers for a women because she expects it. Kayne is right, if you are with someone you care about, doing and sharing in the little things is absolutely what makes a relationship beautiful.

And what makes you go in to debt and then wonder how you got there.

 

[biteme]

IT DOESNT HAVE TO BE FLOWERS. IT CAN BE A 2$ CARD OR SOMETHING. MY EX USED TO MAKE LITTLE THINGS AND GIVE THEM TO ME ALL THE TIME. SHE BOUGHT CARDS AND OTHER LITTLE THINGS.

YOU CAN SAY YOU CARE ALL YOU WANT. BUT IF YOU DONT SHOW IT, IT REALLY DOESNT MATTER HOW MUCH YOU SAY YOU CARE. DOES IT!!!



KAYNE

So, you have to buy somebody something to show you care. I see they've done a good job of brainwashing us in this consumer society.