why do woman believe we lose respect if

[jenscats5]

I need a refill, my beer's getting empty.

Sheesh, do your job woman.

Since when do you finish a beer??

 

[The Shadow]

Snap

 

[Raina]

I've never had an issue with it. To each his/her own.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Question, how many women have you slept with on the 1st or 2nd date who are still around today? (not current flings)

The consensus is that men typically are out for sex. (which more often than not is true...more power to them) Bottom line is anyone, male/female can have sex at any given time with someone. Women want to feel respect and reassurance that you see more to her than just a piece of meat. If you dont see her with any other aspect....then you probably should lower your standards to that of "easy-mode". (so you can get laid on the first date of course ) If you're really into a chic, wouldn't you want her to see you respect her for more than a lay? You know, enough to show that your interest in her is more than what's behind the panties? Say 2nd date, third date, god forbid 4th date?

Of course, if you're dating a prude like me....could be endless amount of time before you get the keys to the kingdom. For me, sex is sex. What makes it better or worse is the connection/chemistry I have with a guy. The more he knows about me (and I him) the better it will be. I'm not doing the walk of shame the next morning b/c I wake up next to a dude that I could barely tell you his last name. That's retarded. (IMO) For what? Another notch under my belt? Pass. Whether a man admits it or not, when there is a girl he is REALLY into, be it subconciously or not, his respect factor grows immensely for her projecting confidence and substance to sustain a first date, 2nd date, what have you, without droppin' her drawers and making whoopie.


Now, for those out there (male/female) who actually have done the hippidy dippidy on the first or second date and now you're living in happily ever after blissful marriage for your 10th year....kudos to you. I'm not saying it CANT/WONT happen....you're obviously the exception to my (above) rule.


Let the flaming begin....

we should go to dinner sometime...then we can add another notch under my belt

 

[jenscats5]

we should go to dinner sometime...then we can add another notch under my belt

Are you even legal yet??

Is your homework done??

 

[Sub-Zero]

Are you even legal yet??

Is your homework done??

well if my homework is to mack on EF chicks then im just gettin started

 

[jenscats5]

well if my homework is to mack on EF chicks then im just gettin started

Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..............okayyyyyyyy

Don't you have school tomorrow?? And detention??

 

[artrius]

Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..............okayyyyyyyy

Don't you have school tomorrow?? And detention??

well I could say some stuff about this one, but I'm not going to, you're WAY too married for me

 

[jenscats5]

well I could say some stuff about this one, but I'm not going to, you're WAY too married for me

 

[big4life]

In the end it's what you're comfortable with. If you are comfortable with having sex on the first date then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. If you worry about what someone else thinks, then maybe you're not as comfortable as you thought.