why do people congratulate you on getting marrie?

[decem]

why do people congratulate you on getting married?

not saying that i don't appreciate it.. as it shows some type of caring for me on their part.. but why?

i mean really.. all you've done is enter into a legal binding, govt sanctioned contract that is really just utilized to make it easier for the state to split up real property/chattels in case the personal relationship for which you've taken part in and try to guarantee said relationship's lifespan... kinda like a warranty on an automobile's transmission..

ok ok.. so it may make some women feel a sense of accomplishment... which i'll never understand either seeing as most women will marry any tom, dick or harry who asks them.. just so they can feel that sense of accomplishment.. which then means it really was no accomplishment at all since they just "settled".. know what i mean sam?

but why would they congratulate a guy?

i can honestly say that i will never.. ever.. never ever ever.. make a decision in life where simply being "married" would have an effect on that decision.. besides of course taking legal/financial actions to safeguard monies/property that have either been granted to my wife through the contract of marriage.. or to me by the government through that marriage (i.e. taxes and such)..

is that what we're congratulating? getting a tax break? if so.. why not say so?

 

[Crazier]

If you can't understand why people say that... I'd fear for the marriage.

People say congrautations, because it it SUPPOSED to mean that you found the love of your life.

Is that not something to happy about?

My buddy who just got married in Vegas 3 months ago... he probably can't understand why people say 'congratulations' either.

I mean, they were fighting the next day. No, I'm not kidding.

You say people marry every Tom, Dick, or Harry. Yes, and what is the current divorce rate?

I'm Tom, Dick, or Harry jumped off a bridge, would you follow suit?

It appears so my friend.
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[MrMuscle]

listen bob, i hope that your wife doesnt have acess to this site. Cuz ive seen alot o peole get in toruble because of what they say here. Think about it. You just got married. I wouldnt post all kinda negatie posts about it so soon. Wait untill you are as old as Wodin..old people complain about everything.

 

[paradox]

not saying that i don't appreciate it.. as it shows some type of caring for me on their part.. but why?

i mean really.. all you've done is enter into a legal binding, govt sanctioned contract that is really just utilized to make it easier for the state to split up real property/chattels in case the personal relationship for which you've taken part in and try to guarantee said relationship's lifespan... kinda like a warranty on an automobile's transmission..

ok ok.. so it may make some women feel a sense of accomplishment... which i'll never understand either seeing as most women will marry any tom, dick or harry who asks them.. just so they can feel that sense of accomplishment.. which then means it really was no accomplishment at all since they just "settled".. know what i mean sam?

but why would they congratulate a guy?

i can honestly say that i will never.. ever.. never ever ever.. make a decision in life where simply being "married" would have an effect on that decision.. besides of course taking legal/financial actions to safeguard monies/property that have either been granted to my wife through the contract of marriage.. or to me by the government through that marriage (i.e. taxes and such)..

is that what we're congratulating? getting a tax break? if so.. why not say so?

I will get congratulated too when I get married, since most of the girls i dated ended up hateing me

 

[Crazier]

Sad, isn't it?

Very much so sk*.

Very, very sad.

I've seen 4 posts in the last hour, all negative about marriage, from a man that just got married no more than a week ago.

While I send him my best, I'm also a realist.
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[decem]

mrmuscle.. won't happen buddy...


sk... there's nothing sad about what i've posted.. or how i live.. nothing sad to me anyway.. and that's all that matters to me..



crazier.. don't go pullin the "jump off the bridge" card on me buddy... and what is negative about this post? for real? i simply pointed out that i love her the same.. whether i'm married or not.. and that any decision i would make in life.. would not be affected by my being "married".. now i'm not saying that i would never take her into consideration when i make decisions.. simply that the fact that i am now entered into a contract will have no bearing... that's all....

 

[MrMuscle]

ok, just checking man. can never be to carefull

hey did you see my pic from day 30 of my diet down?

 

[decem]

ok, just checking man. can never be to carefull

hey did you see my pic from day 30 of my diet down?

nah.. is it on your board? i'll go check it out right now...

oh yeah.. i just started my diet on monday.. i'm planning on dropping 15-20lbs of blubber by july 15th.. and au naturale nonetheless..

i'll keep ya posted on progress..

 

[Crazier]

crazier.. don't go pullin the "jump off the bridge" card on me buddy... and what is negative about this post? for real? i simply pointed out that i love her the same.. whether i'm married or not.. and that any decision i would make in life.. would not be affected by my being "married".. now i'm not saying that i would never take her into consideration when i make decisions.. simply that the fact that i am now entered into a contract will have no bearing... that's all....

Oh my bad... I wasn't reading it the way you meant to say it.
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[MrMuscle]

yeah its on the board..on the norwegian chat section..i also posted it here somewhere.

 

[decem]

yeah its on the board..on the norwegian chat section..i also posted it here somewhere.

hey ya big bastard... i found the pic of you in your black underoos.. but is that the before or after pic? and whichever it is.. then where's the coinciding before or after pic?

 

[MrMuscle]

that is day 30 of my diet down..im not even halfway..all the stats are in the log secton..check that out

 

[decem]

that is day 30 of my diet down..im not even halfway..all the stats are in the log secton..check that out

checked em.. posted mine..

how tall are you MM?? cuz um.. i hate to break it to ya.. but i'm either i'm bigger than you or your meas. are wrong..

 

[MrMuscle]

im 6'2, and my measurments are right. Never said i was the biggest either....Just the cleanest

 

[decem]

i shower twice a day...

i'm pretty clean..

 

[bigguns7]

Why do we tell people Happy Birthday? Are you supposed to be happy about the anniversary of the day you were born? All it is is a printed date on a legal document called a birth certificate. We just have a birthday so the government can know how old we are. I mean "is it really a 'happy' birthday?"

 

[casavant]

Decem-

I really hope your new wife doesn't discover this website and your screen name. That might fuck the marriage up quite a bit in itself. Does she know you're this cynical?

 

[HappyScrappy]

congratulations man

 

[rnch]

b/c they are SO happy it's you and not them doing it!!

 

[aurelius]

is that what we're congratulating? getting a tax break? if so.. why not say so?

It´s a mindless automatic response, like asking people "how are you?" It´s not literal.

 

[decem]

Re: Decem-

Does she know you're this cynical?

what are you.. kidding? cynical's my middle name chief..

 

[Polfa/Jelfa]

You become a whole man only once you get married. You get united with your half. Live with her for eternity. It should be the happiest day of your life, a mier congradulations is the least anyone can do.

Perfectly put ..Sk* karma for you....
Ps: Desc you seem like a low down stupid fuck asshoel idiot jagof ..just my .02