why do nice guys finish last?

[BreezeKeeper]

Maybe not

None of that shit matters. The number of women interested in you is directly proportional to your economic situation, if you are above the age of 23.

Understandable theory, but it's related to quality, not economy. The more of a quality person you are, the less that *acceptable* women would be interested in you. The lower the quality you are, the more acceptable any girl is who shows interest. Desperate people are always seeking each other out.

B

 

[BreezeKeeper]

Take Out an Insurance Policy

BreezeKeeper: Maybe I read your post wrong...but I think that I would rather be celebate for the rest of my life, or be run over by women constantly...than to live or to treat women like that.

Just my opinion.

B True

Well, the story was told as a warning of sorts, wasn't it? So how cool is your opinion in light of the fact that that kind of lifestyle has pretty much come to its end? Everyone has an opinion, anyone can give their opinion, but few understand two things called 'discretion' and 'timing'.

Just my opinion

Happy Celibacy,

B

 

[BreezeKeeper]

It counts

Anyway, nice guys win with me. If that counts for anything.

Sure. It counts for an email box full of love letters from dozens of guys doing 1g of test per week.

B

 

[danielson]

Re: It counts

Sure. It counts for an email box full of love letters from dozens of guys doing 1g of test per week.

B

........i mean D'OH

 

[Night Fly]

Re: Take Out an Insurance Policy

Well, the story was told as a warning of sorts, wasn't it? So how cool is your opinion in light of the fact that that kind of lifestyle has pretty much come to its end? Everyone has an opinion, anyone can give their opinion, but few understand two things called 'discretion' and 'timing'.

Just my opinion

Happy Celibacy,

B

I think what he meant by that was that he just couldn't see treating women that way....ever.... Some people deal with things differently and he just wouldn't have dealt with the situation that you were in, that way. He has his right to an opinion, also...

I don't necessarily agree with the way you handled it either, but if that is the way YOU needed to handle it...then more power to you! Obviously it helped...if you have changed your ways. Good to hear that you are a 'nice' guy now!

 

[Sapphire]

I don't think nice guys finish last at all! Though I HAVE known a ton of nice guys who've dated or married total bitches...don't understand that at all......but honestly, it's hard to find a nice guy these days.....most are assholes with an agenda. Being a nice guy will eventually payoff in the end, don't change!

 

[b fold the truth]

I'm not really a nice guy...I just act like I am

B True

 

[BreezeKeeper]

Re: Re: Take Out an Insurance Policy

I think what he meant by that was that he just couldn't see treating women that way....ever.... Some people deal with things differently and he just wouldn't have dealt with the situation that you were in, that way. He has his right to an opinion, also...

I don't necessarily agree with the way you handled it either, but if that is the way YOU needed to handle it...then more power to you! Obviously it helped...if you have changed your ways. Good to hear that you are a 'nice' guy now!

Everyone's right. You are a decent person.

Anyways, I didn't choose to handle it that way. It was all a reaction to the initial negative influence. Thanks for the kind words.

Breeze