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Why Do I Scare People Away?
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JuliusPeppers
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Good shit Georgie.
But how do you make it looks less than goofy when walking by yourself, say to class, and smiling, for what seems like no apparent reason?
The only reason I brought this topic up at all is because of girls so whatever you can help me with that would be most appreciated.
Also, what do you guys do when you see a girl that none of your friends know and is none of your classes/job but really wanna meet. I mean what can you say when you dont know much about her?
But how do you make it looks less than goofy when walking by yourself, say to class, and smiling, for what seems like no apparent reason?
The only reason I brought this topic up at all is because of girls so whatever you can help me with that would be most appreciated.
Also, what do you guys do when you see a girl that none of your friends know and is none of your classes/job but really wanna meet. I mean what can you say when you dont know much about her?
Swoleyoley
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6"5" 220 isnt that big
barnidge said:
looking less goofy-
well im glad you asked that question, see the thing is i had the worst luck with the GRIN like i said people where always wondering wtf is up with me, i would get stupid comments on a daily basis like , "you had a good last night eh" or "you have a girlfreind now eh" or "your in a better mood today eh" i got realy realy really sick of people probing at me almost everyday freaggin day.
exacly i had no reason to smile so much i just did it so often i didnt even know i was doing it.
as for the girl-
im not really much of a player or romeo but let me tell you the best thing to do is be yourself.
how do you be yourself you ask?
if your young like me then do what i do, i dont hang in big groups, i dont copy the stupid lingo the mainstream social cliques use, be different not freaky different but set yourself apart from the rest of the TOOLS.
use charisma-
how do i become charismatic you ask?
well its the whole package, you ,your attitude. basicly everthing that makes you YOU!
there is no real way of describing charisma development.
so how do i get charisma you ask?
well its something your born with, if you think you lag in that department then there are ways to develope, improve, install charisma, book stores , the net, ect,,
also it helps to mirror people with carisma.
notice i said mirror not COPY, find charactoristics in those individuals that you see other people respond to in a good manner.. sound to confusing?
heres and example...
jo is talking with mary, you see that mary is responding well to this jo guy, see what jo does to get mary's attention, it can be a smile a good jesture or just plain out the blue CHAT , the chat doesnt have to be a physics paper just something mindless and with no end result in mind.
do you have any advice you ask?
remember dont just start firing questions at her! find out her opinions and thoughts on topics by mentioning those certain topics that your interested in. you should be seeing a pattern here barnidge if you need any more help drop me a line
Thaibox
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I'm 6'2" 250(which I don't think is very big). I shave my head and keep a goatee that drops down both sides of my chin. I have tatts and earings, and wear tank tops a lot. My good friend Christine said that I always look pissed, clenching my jaw, and I scare people. I don't mean to, I'd rather make friends than enemies.
One night I spent at least three hours on and off, trying to convince her that I'm not a violent person. As we were walking down the street, four guys in a BMW drove by and yelled something rude to her, so I ran after them, caught them at a light, and beat the shit out of their car with my knees and steel toes trying to get them out, but they ran the light to get away. I sort of gave up trying to convince her I was a peaceful guy.
I just hate disrespectful fuckers.
One night I spent at least three hours on and off, trying to convince her that I'm not a violent person. As we were walking down the street, four guys in a BMW drove by and yelled something rude to her, so I ran after them, caught them at a light, and beat the shit out of their car with my knees and steel toes trying to get them out, but they ran the light to get away. I sort of gave up trying to convince her I was a peaceful guy.
I just hate disrespectful fuckers.
Grizzly said:
hey twinkle toes your demeanor outways your so called weight .
if you put a 130 pound geek in a social setting with people girls or wharever, come to find out that the 130 pound geek is behaving anti-social, and is displaying disrespect to himself and others then this geek is weighing heavily in the mean pissed off demeanor as mentioned above
then you have the 220 pound guy who has endless carisma
he is socially dancing around talking with freinds and in the proccess making new freinds and attracting future "booty calls"
so my point is you dont have to be a certain weight to be considered heavy.
btw 220 ripped or lean i think is awsome as fuck. so you would be happy aat 320 eh. well good luck trying to get there. with that level of commitment you can post replys on how to be a prick and how most people avoid you and your confused as hell
sure your big as fuck and "heavy" but all the work and maintanance youll have to do get there would be counterproductive if your looking to hook up with hot ass chicks and make some bro's/freinds. unless you have established a good base of freinds and girlfreind/wife or booty calls then all i can say is good luck bro
i just used you as an example
