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Why do I enjoy intimidating women?

Alpha-Male

Alpha-Male

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I recently passed my driving test and got my first set of wheels. And this morning I drove it for the first time but nearly got into a car accident (yeah it was my bad) and the other driver just lost it, she got out of the car, and so did I.

However once I saw it was some girl (pretty hot) I put on a mean expression on my face, and asked her what the fuck her problem was.

She told me I nearly got her into an accident, at which point I stepped forwards, still with my 'angry face' and she responded by taking steps back. And I literally told her to 'shut the fuck up and sit back in her car' pointing at her car, and she just looked at the floor and hurried back into her drivers seat without saying another word.

Although I try not to, sometimes I can't help be be aggressive towards women. esp good looking women. And for some reason my attitude and her subsequent reaction made me feel really good; really dominant and in control.

And it made me realise that at 6'1 and 95kg, no woman is ever going to talk back much, esp if I seem 'angry' (ha my hard work at the gym has paid off).

I'm generally not very good with girls. I have had only one gf in the past in my miserable life and I realise I used to talk to her with this attitude too and deliberately tried to make her feel bad about herself to control her.. Even though I wasn't consciously aware of the way I was behaving at the time.

I don't know what's wrong with me.

My mum was only 15 when she had me she used to beat me when I was a kid. If I ever protested the discipline would come swiftly, and I would feel it the next day. Sometimes they would have been particularly harsh. Due to this, I was never able to express my negative emotions they would just remain pent up inside me.

[FONT=&quot]From a young age my mum has always tried to control my life - when I should be eating, sleeping, what I should be watching on TV etc
I was never allowed out to play with friends, or go to parties so my social life was terrible as a consequence. [/FONT] I thought what she said was in my best interest so I only ever made friends with guys. However once I started growing up and naturally became aroused by women, I felt really restricted, really repressed, my mums influence over this also meant I had no experience talking to girls. And she basically forbade me and made sure I didn't have any relationships.



[FONT=&quot]This went on until I was 15.

Im 17 now and don't live with her anymore. Whilst I live with her I was always shy and reserved, but once I was no longer living in that hellhole I found myself becoming angrier for no apparent reason. And that's when I began to develop such an attiude. I thought she was doing what she did to help me, but looking back I think she did emotionally cripple me, and led to me develope such an overbearing attitude towards women. Although only good looking women for some reason.

I have been training for almost a year, at first i though it was just to 'get bigger' but earlier I was thinking my motives were much deeper - I wanted confidence, so that I can feel stronger, more powerfult and dominant than others all of which I associate with masculinity.

I know I said I enjoy the feeling of dominance, but I want to change and was wondering what steps I could take to change my attitude for good. My life has already been quite a tragic stroy. I want to live a normal, fulfilling life now. [/FONT]
 
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Moboy alter?
 
Not saying he'd be stupid about it.
 
slimjim1985 said:
who's ariel?
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a legendary EF bro.

i believe this is a jnevin alter.

anyways kid, remember the cardinal rule, treat others as you want to be treated. having respect for woman and your fellow man is important to being successful in this life. take aggression out on the weights. and smile more around girls. they love that.
 
Alpha-Male said:
I recently passed my driving test and got my first set of wheels. And this morning I drove it for the first time but nearly got into a car accident (yeah it was my bad) and the other driver just lost it, she got out of the car, and so did I.

However once I saw it was some girl (pretty hot) I put on a mean expression on my face, and asked her what the fuck her problem was.

She told me I nearly got her into an accident, at which point I stepped forwards, still with my 'angry face' and she responded by taking steps back. And I literally told her to 'shut the fuck up and sit back in her car' pointing at her car, and she just looked at the floor and hurried back into her drivers seat without saying another word.

Although I try not to, sometimes I can't help be be aggressive towards women. esp good looking women. And for some reason my attitude and her subsequent reaction made me feel really good; really dominant and in control.

And it made me realise that at 6'1 and 95kg, no woman is ever going to talk back much, esp if I seem 'angry' (ha my hard work at the gym has paid off).

I'm generally not very good with girls. I have had only one gf in the past in my miserable life and I realise I used to talk to her with this attitude too and deliberately tried to make her feel bad about herself to control her.. Even though I wasn't consciously aware of the way I was behaving at the time.

I don't know what's wrong with me.

My mum was only 15 when she had me she used to beat me when I was a kid. If I ever protested the discipline would come swiftly, and I would feel it the next day. Sometimes they would have been particularly harsh. Due to this, I was never able to express my negative emotions they would just remain pent up inside me.

life now.
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You're a bad ass bro!!!!!!!
 
i will laugh when the inevitable day comes that a male
relation of the wemmin you intimidate puts you in your place
6'1 95kg and you think you are huge? you must be european...there's broads
on this website huger than that
 
Wow you have no self confidence and intimidating women makes you feel good about yourself. So you'll be a lonely single guy whining about the skinny ugly guy who gets the chicks, and wind up a 'Mo.

On another note, if you'd have tried that shit with my wife she'd have probably dropped you where you stood.

Grow up, don't be such a tool.
 
Find a therapist and get help before you run into a female who, not only isn't afraid of you, but is actually able to rip your testicles off and stuff them up your ass.

And trust me, kid, we're out there :evil:
 
bino said:
i will laugh when the inevitable day comes that a male
relation of the wemmin you intimidate puts you in your place
6'1 95kg and you think you are huge? you must be european...there's broads
on this website huger than that
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English, and I concentrate primarily on strength. Isolation training is lame. And I know I'm not as big as the roiders. Not that I ever plan on becoming one.
 
Why do you enjoy intimidating women?

Because trying that shit with men, or even pimply face males, will get your ass ripped off and handed to you.
 
Alpha-Male said:
I recently passed my driving test and got my first set of wheels. And this morning I drove it for the first time but nearly got into a car accident (yeah it was my bad) and the other driver just lost it, she got out of the car, and so did I.

However once I saw it was some girl (pretty hot) I put on a mean expression on my face, and asked her what the fuck her problem was.

She told me I nearly got her into an accident, at which point I stepped forwards, still with my 'angry face' and she responded by taking steps back. And I literally told her to 'shut the fuck up and sit back in her car' pointing at her car, and she just looked at the floor and hurried back into her drivers seat without saying another word.

Although I try not to, sometimes I can't help be be aggressive towards women. esp good looking women. And for some reason my attitude and her subsequent reaction made me feel really good; really dominant and in control.

And it made me realise that at 6'1 and 95kg, no woman is ever going to talk back much, esp if I seem 'angry' (ha my hard work at the gym has paid off).

I'm generally not very good with girls. I have had only one gf in the past in my miserable life and I realise I used to talk to her with this attitude too and deliberately tried to make her feel bad about herself to control her.. Even though I wasn't consciously aware of the way I was behaving at the time.

I don't know what's wrong with me.

My mum was only 15 when she had me she used to beat me when I was a kid. If I ever protested the discipline would come swiftly, and I would feel it the next day. Sometimes they would have been particularly harsh. Due to this, I was never able to express my negative emotions they would just remain pent up inside me.

[FONT=&quot]From a young age my mum has always tried to control my life - when I should be eating, sleeping, what I should be watching on TV etc
I was never allowed out to play with friends, or go to parties so my social life was terrible as a consequence. [/FONT] I thought what she said was in my best interest so I only ever made friends with guys. However once I started growing up and naturally became aroused by women, I felt really restricted, really repressed, my mums influence over this also meant I had no experience talking to girls. And she basically forbade me and made sure I didn't have any relationships.



[FONT=&quot]This went on until I was 15.

Im 17 now and don't live with her anymore. Whilst I live with her I was always shy and reserved, but once I was no longer living in that hellhole I found myself becoming angrier for no apparent reason. And that's when I began to develop such an attiude. I thought she was doing what she did to help me, but looking back I think she did emotionally cripple me, and led to me develope such an overbearing attitude towards women. Although only good looking women for some reason.

I have been training for almost a year, at first i though it was just to 'get bigger' but earlier I was thinking my motives were much deeper - I wanted confidence, so that I can feel stronger, more powerfult and dominant than others all of which I associate with masculinity.

I know I said I enjoy the feeling of dominance, but I want to change and was wondering what steps I could take to change my attitude for good. My life has already been quite a tragic stroy. I want to live a normal, fulfilling life now. [/FONT]
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Alpha-Male said:
English, and I concentrate primarily on strength. Isolation training is lame. And I know I'm not as big as the roiders. Not that I ever plan on becoming one.
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Training a whole long year and already an expert, I see.

And not only are you no where near big as the juicers, hunny, you ain't much bigger than some of the natty gals :D
 
AAP said:
Why do you enjoy intimidating women?

Because trying that shit with men, or even pimply face males, will get your ass ripped off and handed to you.
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I have a condition called ADD, and it can and does make me aggressive unfortunately . I have been in fights with guys at school. When it comes to women though, it's not that I want to 'fight' them. Its some other feeling, like i'm getting a 'kick' out of scaring them.

Why are people here being so judgmental?
 
Alpha-Male said:
I have a condition called ADD, and it can and does make me aggressive unfortunately . I have been in fights with guys at school. When it comes to women though, it's not that I want to 'fight' them. Its some other feeling, like i'm getting a 'kick' out of scaring them.

Why are people here being so judgmental?
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ADHD is no excuse for attempting to boost your low self esteem by targeting what you think is the weaker sex.
 
Alpha-Male said:
I have a condition called ADD, and it can and does make me aggressive unfortunately . I have been in fights with guys at school. When it comes to women though, it's not that I want to 'fight' them. Its some other feeling, like i'm getting a 'kick' out of scaring them.

Why are people here being so judgmental?
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Because you act like a fucking pussy who gets a hard on by scaring people physically weaker than you.

You really should get help NOW.
 
Alpha-Male said:
I have a condition called ADD, and it can and does make me aggressive unfortunately . I have been in fights with guys at school. When it comes to women though, it's not that I want to 'fight' them. Its some other feeling, like i'm getting a 'kick' out of scaring them.

Why are people here being so judgmental?
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You must have a good spell checker since few 17-year-olds can correctly spell judgmental.

People are being judgemental because you described verbally abusing a woman and feeling good about it.

It sucks that your mother has left you with these issues but ultimately you are resposible for your own actions. It's an important distinction; you are not resposible for your feelings (they're largely involuntary) but you are still responsible for your actions.

That's the biggest lesson every adult should learn and you're right on the verge of being legally an adult. Whatever it takes for you to avoid ACTING that way toward women is what you need to do immediately. The feelings you're describing are going to take many years to work out and you'd be wise to get some help.

Do you have access to a counselor through school or somewhere else? If you're 17 and out of the house, perhaps you have assitance from social services and they can help you find some counseling.

BTW, you're either bullshitting or very bright to possess the grammatical skills you have at 17.
 
nydj66 said:
You must have a good spell checker since few 17-year-olds can correctly spell judgmental.

People are being judgemental because you described verbally abusing a woman and feeling good about it.

It sucks that your mother has left you with these issues but ultimately you are resposible for your own actions. It's an important distinction; you are not resposible for your feelings (they're largely involuntary) but you are still responsible for your actions.

That's the biggest lesson every adult should learn and you're right on the verge of being legally an adult. Whatever it takes for you to avoid ACTING that way toward women is what you need to do immediately. The feelings you're describing are going to take many years to work out and you'd be wise to get some help.

Do you have access to a counselor through school or somewhere else? If you're 17 and out of the house, perhaps you have assitance from social services and they can help you find some counseling.

BTW, you're either bullshitting or very bright to possess the grammatical skills you have at 17.
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I don't think I will ever be happy, however I want to apply to law school some day and I really don't need to be at such a significant psychological/emotional disadvantage. I know nothing about psychology. What could I use to control my impulsive behaviour?
What steps should I take?

Reading has always been one of the few outlets I successfully used to cope with my situation. I never owned a playstation when I was a boy, nor was I allowed out to play with the other children. Reading was my staple form of entertainment.
 
shirlene29 said:
I love that this is posted in inches and kg


alter fail...hahahaha
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Hahah... I was thinking the same thing.

Look at the original post too. It's American-style writing that's been Anglicized with a few "mum" and "kg" references.

I don't really like this alter very much anyway. We deserve a little more creativity.
 
mrplunkey said:
Hahah... I was thinking the same thing.

Look at the original post too. It's American-style writing that's been Anglicized with a few "mum" and "kg" references.

I don't really like this alter very much anyway. We deserve a little more creativity.
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I am English and Live in Manchester, UK. I'm actually rather disappointed you think i'm making this up. I have been browsing these forums for a while but have never singed up to an online community before as i'm quite a reserved individual, and would've appreciated genuine advice. If I knew my post would've been met with such hostility and ridicule I wouldn't have posted this.
 
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shirlene29 said:
I love that this is posted in inches and kg


alter fail...hahahaha
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Actually they use both in the UK. You drive in miles and mph, height is in inches/feet, weights are in Kg or stones, beer is in pints, petrol(gasoline) is in litres (not liters). Also the pint there is 17oz instead of 16 and their gallon is bigger or a royal gallon.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
you were a bottle baby weren't you?? mom not cuddle you enough as a child?? told you that she wished you were born a girl??

dress you up in pink as a child??

maybe your 1st gf laughed at the size of your johnson..

there's a number of reasons..

maybe you are a bully and every guy you try that crap on kicks your ass.. so now you've found someone that's afraid of you.. one day you'll do it to a woman and she'll return to her car and produce a gun, then when you step to her, she will remember the advice her husband drummed into her head to say to the police.

" i was afraid for my life "

she was also taught to pull the trigger till the gun didn't fire anymore.. then reload because you never know when the idiot might get back up..
 
SpyWizard said:
you were a bottle baby weren't you?? mom not cuddle you enough as a child?? told you that she wished you were born a girl??

dress you up in pink as a child??

maybe your 1st gf laughed at the size of your johnson..

there's a number of reasons..

maybe you are a bully and every guy you try that crap on kicks your ass.. so now you've found someone that's afraid of you.. one day you'll do it to a woman and she'll return to her car and produce a gun, then when you step to her, she will remember the advice her husband drummed into her head to say to the police.

" i was afraid for my life "

she was also taught to pull the trigger till the gun didn't fire anymore.. then reload because you never know when the idiot might get back up..
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It's extreme that someone would be willing to pull the trigger over something so trivial. All I did was talk to the lass.
Thankfully, where I live we don't have to put up with asinine gun laws. Heck even carrying a large enough knife in your car will get you arrested
 
I agree the whole intimidating women is a bad deal, but the kid is trying to openly state that he has a problem and is looking for advise. My advise is to make friends with a hot girl... It sound like you like to intimidate hot girls mabe because they intimidate you... mabe becoming friends with some will get rid of this problem. Making a physical impression on a girl could only lead to bad things. If you get into a situation with one talk it out and dont back from your point of view if you dont want to. You dont have to get physical to prevent someone from domonating over you.
 
sharkmaster said:
I agree the whole intimidating women is a bad deal, but the kid is trying to openly state that he has a problem and is looking for advise. My advise is to make friends with a hot girl... It sound like you like to intimidate hot girls mabe because they intimidate you... mabe becoming friends with some will get rid of this problem. Making a physical impression on a girl could only lead to bad things. If you get into a situation with one talk it out and dont back from your point of view if you dont want to. You dont have to get physical to prevent someone from domonating over you.
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Assuming that the original poster is NOT an alter, the last thing he needs to do is to actively develop female relationships right now. What he needs is therapy. Anyone who gets a charge out of dominating/frightening someone who is smaller and weaker than them needs intense therapy. And actually, in his case, all the more so as he is cognizant of this behavior, how it is triggered and how it makes him feel but despite the fact of being aware of the behavior, he's not taking responsibility for it, i.e., blaming a bad childhood for bully behavior and using his ADD as an excuse for violence.
 
musclemom said:
Assuming that the original poster is NOT an alter, the last thing he needs to do is to actively develop female relationships right now. What he needs is therapy. Anyone who gets a charge out of dominating/frightening someone who is smaller and weaker than them needs intense therapy. And actually, in his case, all the more so as he is cognizant of this behavior, how it is triggered and how it makes him feel but despite the fact of being aware of the behavior, he's not taking responsibility for it, i.e., blaming a bad childhood for bully behavior and using his ADD as an excuse for violence.
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This.
 
Wulfgar said:
I intimidate everyone...and I dont need to get angry or say anything to do it
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Yeah, but you walk around looking like Leonidas, and everyone knows those Spartan fuckers were super badasses.
 
musclemom said:
Assuming that the original poster is NOT an alter, the last thing he needs to do is to actively develop female relationships right now. What he needs is therapy. Anyone who gets a charge out of dominating/frightening someone who is smaller and weaker than them needs intense therapy. And actually, in his case, all the more so as he is cognizant of this behavior, how it is triggered and how it makes him feel but despite the fact of being aware of the behavior, he's not taking responsibility for it, i.e., blaming a bad childhood for bully behavior and using his ADD as an excuse for violence.
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and I think that is good advise... Advise was the main point I was going for in the case that it is a real situation.
 
ya, Im pretty in luv and simultaneously frightened of wulfgars avi


goes like this :heart::worried::heart::worried:
 
Alpha-Male said:
It's extreme that someone would be willing to pull the trigger over something so trivial. All I did was talk to the lass.
Thankfully, where I live we don't have to put up with asinine gun laws. Heck even carrying a large enough knife in your car will get you arrested
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aint' socialism and dictatorships great..
 
You want advice? This is the nicest response you'll get.
musclemom said:
Assuming that the original poster is NOT an alter, the last thing he needs to do is to actively develop female relationships right now. What he needs is therapy. Anyone who gets a charge out of dominating/frightening someone who is smaller and weaker than them needs intense therapy. And actually, in his case, all the more so as he is cognizant of this behavior, how it is triggered and how it makes him feel but despite the fact of being aware of the behavior, he's not taking responsibility for it, i.e., blaming a bad childhood for bully behavior and using his ADD as an excuse for violence.
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Truth is you need to have your attitude adjusted and with your current mentality it WILL happen. Just a matter of time. If you survive it, you'll be a nicer person in the future.
 
BNG said:
You want advice? This is the nicest response you'll get.


Truth is you need to have your attitude adjusted and with your current mentality it WILL happen. Just a matter of time. If you survive it, you'll be a nicer person in the future.
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Well I am actually a rather reserved individual in most situations. If she did have any males with her then I know I wouldn't have reacted.

But if they're on their own and good looking I don't know why I become so aggressive.

It's like someone who suffers from turrets - they just can't control their impulses.
 
Alpha-Male said:
Well I am actually a rather reserved individual in most situations. If she did have any males with her then I know I wouldn't have reacted.

But if they're on their own and good looking I don't know why I become so aggressive.

It's like someone who suffers from turrets - they just can't control their impulses.
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It's a neurologic disorder, not a tower on a castle, it's spelled Tourette's and you're still not taking responsibility for your thoughts and actions. People who can't control what they're thinking have a problem.

You live in Britain, you've got Universal Health Care. Tomorrow morning bright and early hie thee to a mental health professional and talk to someone who can actually give you useful insight about how to control your thoughts and actions and how deal with your anger.
 
musclemom said:
It's a neurologic disorder, not a tower on a castle, it's spelled Tourette's and you're still not taking responsibility for your thoughts and actions. People who can't control what they're thinking have a problem.

You live in Britain, you've got Universal Health Care. Tomorrow morning bright and early hie thee to a mental health professional and talk to someone who can actually give you useful insight about how to control your thoughts and actions and how deal with your anger.
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Yes, I think I will do this although it will be embarrassing telling someone this in person. I hope I don't need meds.
Thanks for the advice people.
 
Alpha-Male said:
I recently passed my driving test and got my first set of wheels. And this morning I drove it for the first time but nearly got into a car accident (yeah it was my bad) and the other driver just lost it, she got out of the car, and so did I.

However once I saw it was some girl (pretty hot) I put on a mean expression on my face, and asked her what the fuck her problem was.

She told me I nearly got her into an accident, at which point I stepped forwards, still with my 'angry face' and she responded by taking steps back. And I literally told her to 'shut the fuck up and sit back in her car' pointing at her car, and she just looked at the floor and hurried back into her drivers seat without saying another word.

Although I try not to, sometimes I can't help be be aggressive towards women. esp good looking women. And for some reason my attitude and her subsequent reaction made me feel really good; really dominant and in control.

And it made me realise that at 6'1 and 95kg, no woman is ever going to talk back much, esp if I seem 'angry' (ha my hard work at the gym has paid off).

I'm generally not very good with girls. I have had only one gf in the past in my miserable life and I realise I used to talk to her with this attitude too and deliberately tried to make her feel bad about herself to control her.. Even though I wasn't consciously aware of the way I was behaving at the time.

I don't know what's wrong with me.

My mum was only 15 when she had me she used to beat me when I was a kid. If I ever protested the discipline would come swiftly, and I would feel it the next day. Sometimes they would have been particularly harsh. Due to this, I was never able to express my negative emotions they would just remain pent up inside me.

[FONT=&quot]From a young age my mum has always tried to control my life - when I should be eating, sleeping, what I should be watching on TV etc
I was never allowed out to play with friends, or go to parties so my social life was terrible as a consequence. [/FONT] I thought what she said was in my best interest so I only ever made friends with guys. However once I started growing up and naturally became aroused by women, I felt really restricted, really repressed, my mums influence over this also meant I had no experience talking to girls. And she basically forbade me and made sure I didn't have any relationships.



[FONT=&quot]This went on until I was 15.

Im 17 now and don't live with her anymore. Whilst I live with her I was always shy and reserved, but once I was no longer living in that hellhole I found myself becoming angrier for no apparent reason. And that's when I began to develop such an attiude. I thought she was doing what she did to help me, but looking back I think she did emotionally cripple me, and led to me develope such an overbearing attitude towards women. Although only good looking women for some reason.

I have been training for almost a year, at first i though it was just to 'get bigger' but earlier I was thinking my motives were much deeper - I wanted confidence, so that I can feel stronger, more powerfult and dominant than others all of which I associate with masculinity.

I know I said I enjoy the feeling of dominance, but I want to change and was wondering what steps I could take to change my attitude for good. My life has already been quite a tragic stroy. I want to live a normal, fulfilling life now. [/FONT]
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I do hope you find some way to peace and respect for women.
Women are a gift from God.
Each one of these girls you scare and abuse will carry the picture of your face in their mind forever. You want them to smile, not cringe.

And each one of these girls and women have a Father or brother or boyfriend or husband who may take action against you. You don't need this no matter your size.

Find peace.
 
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